Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I am a pushover to startwith and she knows that. I will never speak back to her. I stew over her abuse for days thinking of what I should have said and wished I could say what I would really like to say to her. She is very mean and spiteful toward me, but never around her son. He thinks everyting is just fine. I wonder if I should seek counselling - I am very hurt by all she says and does to me. I have 4 children (5 yo triplets and 12 yo daughter) my life is VERY busy, but I need to be perfect and say and to the right thing at the right time or else, I hear it from her. I honestly never want to see her again. What do I say to her and my husband? Should I talk to them together. She is very nice when my husband is around, but when she has a bone to pick it is with me when my husband is not around. She even hauls be out of the room to speak her mind with me alone. Am I just being whinny, should I suck it up. I don't know what to say to her without getting angry.

2006-12-28 04:56:45 · 15 answers · asked by Pandora 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and i really fell in love with this man. And within the past 3 months (he lives with me) he has done nothing but spend hours on hours on the internet chatting with girls who he says is friends. And then late last night i walked out on him stripping on webcam for a girl. I have tried and tried to explain to this man that i feel he is disrespecting me and the relationship by doing this and he always says he can change but its not happening. I love him and would love for things to work but i am running out of options on trying to make things work. And i am so stressed and trying to get through college and concentrate on that but it just effects me in everything.. So do i leave him or does anyone have any ideas on what i should do please!!?

2006-12-28 04:56:27 · 28 answers · asked by ~sassy23~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I work in a department of 10 women, my boss has always favored a girl named Becca. Becca decided she needed to move 5 hours away to help with her family, so we hired another girl to take Becca's place.

The new employee was given Becca's old position, cubicle, phone number, etc.

4 months later Becca decided she wanted to come back, so my boss created a new position just for her, gave her a pay increase to help with her family problems, and gave her back her old cubicle.

The new girl was asked to move from the cubicle and was given a small desk to use in the hallway until "we could move to a new building." She stayed at the small desk for 9 months before we moved buildings.

The women (including me) in the department felt this was wrong, but they didn't say anything to our boss.

What do you think?

2006-12-28 04:56:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when a guy is talking 2 me..I cannot do eye contact..
I cant fir 10 sec look him in the eye....
my friends have noticed that..and say thats mean..
because when he starts talking 2 me..I look abit..then look away..I keep repeating it..lol
and they say its mean..and that i should look at them!
IS IT?

2006-12-28 04:55:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated one girl/woman from the age of 17 - 25 and we broke up about 4 years ago because of a silly fight over nothing. Anyway, she's married since and I forgot about her... Well, spent a few years trying to. Anyway, she's called a few times to have dinner and I've always told her that I thought it was a bad idea. Needless to say, we had dinner last night. Wasn;t much talking, she basically stared at me the entire time with a big smile and tears running down her face. We then went to a lounge where she basically sat next to me with her head on my shoulder and holding my hand for 4 hours. I don't know whether its' because I haven't fallen in love since we broke up or if its just her, but I never felt so at home in my life. Anyway, I told her I don't think it would be a good idea to see eachother again. I will not talk to a married woman. I just wanted to write this because I would never admit to anyone in real life that I'm still in love with her.

2006-12-28 04:54:51 · 38 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2 in Singles & Dating

my partner of 7 years has moved away, left me and his daughter, i keep asking him if we are over but he wont give me a straight yes or no answer. why is he doing this to me? he says he dosent know what he wants and that he is finding it very hard being away from me and his daughter? i just dont understand him anymore???

2006-12-28 04:54:07 · 23 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I am a 24 year old guy, and I am waiting to lose my virginity until I’m married. I was just wondering if anyone has lasted the distance, and not given up at the last minute? Also how old where you when you met the right person for you? Also what did you do to keep your mind of sex, until you met the right person for you? What was the reason you wanted to loose your virginity until you were married? Mine I honestly don’t know, I just knew that is what I would like to do. It wasn’t because of religious reasons though, because I am not that religious. Even though I have been baptised, and I am a Christian, and do believe in God. That is not the reason I want to wait until marriage to loose my virginity. And I know it was probably worth it in the end, but how were you when you first made love to your wife/husband? Where you nervous, or where you more relaxed because you are older and with the one you knew your going to spend the rest of your life with?

2006-12-28 04:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently working on a book about a love story between a trapped prostitute and a son of a rich man who killed the prostitute's family 20 years ago and i need a really classy yet sassy name for the prostitute...help and thanks!

2006-12-28 04:53:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfreind got into A really HUGE fight and he said so many like so many deeply hurtful things.... like really bad!! well yeah in the midst of all of that I said "I hope you die!, F*** you"..... I didnt mean it and I wish I NEVER said it but its too late and I dont want him to die I was just hurt at the time.. he says he forgives me for it and we can get past it..... but I want to make it up to him .. I just dont know how... Any suggestions?? please.

2006-12-28 04:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Singles & Dating

time to get back at them!

2006-12-28 04:52:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few months ago she cheated on me. We weren't broken up, but we were long distance and going through a rough time in our relationship. Recently we've been making amends and have been on excellent terms, but I have found myself suspicious of her to the point where I'll check her email to make sure she isn't going behind my back again. I need to trust her and I do but I can't find a way to make myself stop this bad habit of mine. I really don't want to have to tell her to change her password because then she'll know what I've been up to. How can I ease my mind and just stop being so suspicious of everything she does?

2006-12-28 04:52:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is about 5'6 or 7 but loves to wear heals, im just pushin 5'5. i was jsut curious if this will be a problem down the line

2006-12-28 04:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by Zazzo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no sex drive. I never feel like having sex. It feels like a chore to me. i feel bad because my boyfriend thinks I'm not attracted to him. What can i do???

2006-12-28 04:52:29 · 3 answers · asked by Serendipity III 2 in Singles & Dating

A Marine or a Navy Man, please explain!

2006-12-28 04:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by kristonianinstitution 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I would wreak those girls, there is nothing I wouldn't do to them. How about you?

2006-12-28 04:52:14 · 4 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

he is here for the holidays.i haven't told him how i felt as yet? should i tell him or just keep it to myself.

2006-12-28 04:52:03 · 2 answers · asked by marsha w 2 in Friends

Ok heres the thing my boyfriends ex girlfriend were once promised to get married but then I come along and i "steal"(her words) him from her. Well this was like 2 years ago and now today she still calls him and guilts him into talking with her or even being friends with her. She will find us playing pool somewhere (she calls a friend and asks if they know where we are) and she will say like "hey i didn't know you were here" then flirt with my boyfriend all night trying to get him to hug her but when she hugs him he pushes her away he has asked her to leave us alone and she is like obsessed with him. Well her mother just recently passed away and she wants him to go with her out of state and be with her for the fuineral and she is useing the guilt trips again i think he might go what should i do if he does? I don't have the money to fly out there and her family will be paying for him to go. I know in the past two years she has gotten her way when she reminds him of the baby she lost.

2006-12-28 04:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by haterage 1 in Singles & Dating

we made love sometimes ago and it wae great but now he dont call me any more i try to call himm he is always bussy please help me to forget him im going crazy

2006-12-28 04:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by dewpomme 1 in Singles & Dating

Yahoo Q&A is one such site, there is a lot of adult content to be found here, I didn't know this site allowed children but have only recently discovered that there are children here. I think it is just totally wrong to have adults and children interacting on the same site, I think it is putting a lot of children at risk.

2006-12-28 04:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by Angelz 5 in Family

I have a female friend in school who think she's so hot and attractive and wears a low cut top that reveals a lot of cleavage like almost everyday. We're good friends, she likes hanging out with me, and we hang out during lunch and we talk a lot during classes together.

I think she's very attractive, especially when she shows cleavage, but a lot of other people in school think she's kind of slut*y, and I don't want people to think that I'm a pimp or think wrongly of me cause I hang out with her. A lot of people give us looks when we hang out together. What should I do?

2006-12-28 04:49:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there was this boy that always stare at me hes a big flirt and a long time ago i asked him if he liked me he said no that im really ugly and he just kept starring at me every time i look up his eyes are ON me!!but he doesnt sound any serious when he says he likes me or anything...CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME TO KNOW WHAT ARE HIS FEELINGS TOWARDS ME AND IF HE REALLY LIKES ME OR NOT!!!!!!PLZZZ!!!I NEEED HELP U GUYS!

2006-12-28 04:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by cutie14 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to go out with an awesome guy. Then we kind of broke up and my friends said mean things about him INTO HIS ANSWERING MACHINE. Now hes mad at me and thinks I told them all about us. I didnt. Hes not talking to me and I know I was really mean to him but I want him back. I've been crying every night now for weeks and emailing him but nothing works. My mom took me to a doctor and she pronounced me depressed and needing to see a shrink. No one except my close friends know about this. If he tears me apart this much, why do I still love him and want him back?!

2006-12-28 04:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by Cleopatra Q 1 in Singles & Dating

I knew i shouldn't have gotten another dog we have 3 old ones but this chihuahua was so small and cute, the kids said they would do more chores as kids would say!
We had the pup for 3 weeks, kids went on christmas break with their dad, my bf and i got into an argument
So my bf took the puppy from me and gave it to his mother who gave it to someone else
And is now saying she can't get it back they spent 300. bux on the pup saying it was sick,...which is BS! now my kids hate my bf and do not want to stay with him at his house Now i have to choose him or my kids all because he took their pup and gave it away while they were not home
The kids had to come home after christmas asking where their pup was and the bf lied to me and the kids it wasn't until days later we got the truth HE gave it to his mom to give away Should he have done that Should i stay with him Should the KIDS BE MAD AND HATE HIM? BF says i'm a bad parent for not telling them to stop throwing fits 4 pup

2006-12-28 04:47:40 · 16 answers · asked by Majenta 2 in Family

i really love him and he knows that. i know he will leave me if i cheat on him. and just last night somebody called him and said i did but i really hnestly didn't. he says he needs proof to believe anybody. i don't know how to prove i didn't... please help i can't loose him........

2006-12-28 04:47:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am having dinner with this guy who is 'my best friend' tonight. We've kissed ...latest being yesterday....we never talk about our feelings or define anything and i dont want to just leave it at that...I feel one of us will get hurt and im really starting to like him. I know hes attracted to me but how do i broach the subject of 'us' without seeming needy for a relationship..we just mention we like each other and leave it at that but i want to be sure of what exactly we are. Help

2006-12-28 04:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was not this way when we started and I do not use. He leave for 8 and 9 hours at a time. I have had to have his check direct deposited in the bank so he will not spend it I make about 3 times what he makes a year and because his name is on the house also he will not leave. I do not feel I should have to leave seeing that I pay all of the mortgage payments a month. There are no children involded. Help.

2006-12-28 04:47:16 · 29 answers · asked by lnrtatum 1 in Family

2006-12-28 04:47:10 · 41 answers · asked by forget me not 1 in Singles & Dating

If your father said to come and visit and leave your husband at home, that we need to talk, but bring your son.Would you take your son and leave your husband at home, even though the problem doesnt have anything to do with husband?I am torn cause i love my father and dont think its right for him to try to seperate my familly just cause he wants to talk. Is it fair to let him see my son without my husband there?or even for him to ask me to do such thing?

2006-12-28 04:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by bri n 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know they have been secretly having sex. Neither of them is religious. They pretend to be for the sake of parents. I know their parents will object. What should they do?

2006-12-28 04:46:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 04:45:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family