Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

Guys can they, bc I just switched to contacts and have had people tell me i look better with glasses, but I dont know if thats just because their not used to it.

2006-12-28 05:10:23 · 21 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not speaking of sex, but just the common daily interaction. The casual contact. We have been married 13 years and I provide a comfortable living. We have kids that I am sure drain her. I am the husband that thinks of things like flowers and trips, but you can only do those things so often.

I am thinking of stopping the continual chase for her comfort and will seek my own. Maybe she needs to chase me for a bit?

2006-12-28 05:10:21 · 18 answers · asked by Thor H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok long story short married for 21/2 years
1 kid together
separated last year but stupidly got back together
i still have my own place

I want to move back in and have an appt w/lawyer next week

He is sooo manipulative and such a good liar. I cant stand him he is horribly mean (verbally) to the kids and I. But im afraid that somehow he'll sweet talk his way to getting everything he wants...like custody of our son. How possible is this?? Do courts take kids from their moms if the mom is a good mother? He is only 1 and im so afraid that he'll take him and I'll never see him again ( of course he has threatened this as well as physical harm to me if I leave) what should I do. Im just trying to play it cool till i see my lawyer.

any advice of the kinds of questions to ask her

thanks for your help

2006-12-28 05:10:10 · 19 answers · asked by Miranda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't dated in 23 years - divorced last year - and I'm starting to date again. However, I'm not sure of the "rules" anymore. I'm going on a first date with a man I met through an internet dating site and he suggested the restaurant. So does that mean that I pay for my meal or how do I handle that?

2006-12-28 05:10:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see questions on here all the time about "emo kids" what is that???

2006-12-28 05:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy 2 years ago. We broke up, I was young, selfish and stupid. He's a great guy! I have since then gotten married and am now divorced. We haven't spoken since we broke up and I got in touch with him a couple of weeks ago. We've hung out a few times but don't ever have "real" conversation. I think I could be falling for him again. However, I can't tell if he's just completely not interested in even being friends (but doesnt want to be rude) or if he's just scared. I always initiate getting together and his answers to me are 1 or 2 words. I want him to know that it's not like the past and that things are different now. I think this could be accomplished by seeing eachother more, but I don't want to be overbearing. How can I tell how he REALLY feels?

2006-12-28 05:09:03 · 10 answers · asked by american0eagle2 2 in Singles & Dating

my wedding ring is damaged and it costs too much to repair, we are thinking about getting it replaced instead, but what do you do about wearing it? Do you renew your vows or can you just have it blessed? or can you just wear it (somehow this option doesn't seem right and doesn't appeal to me)?

2006-12-28 05:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by Mauntie 3 in Weddings

I really like this guy, we sometimes hang out but most of our communicating is done over the internet due to distance. What are ways to win his heart?

2006-12-28 05:08:17 · 18 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a guy really likes you and not using you

2006-12-28 05:07:36 · 11 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Singles & Dating

He's never had a party and I want to do something special for him. Even if I don't do a full blown party I want to come up with something that's special, sexy and lots of fun. His birthday is Feb.19th but I want to start planning something soon so I can be ready. I need some creative ideas PLEASE!

2006-12-28 05:07:13 · 19 answers · asked by Nik Nak 1 in Singles & Dating

we had decided earlier that we would not do anything for each other. I am really ok with that but he can't get past the idea that he did not get me anything. What can I do to make sure he knows that it is ok?

2006-12-28 05:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 05:04:48 · 36 answers · asked by a flower 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in the southern part of the U.S. and I have about a year and a half before I finish nursing school. My boyfriend and I plan to get married pretty soon after I get out of school. He lives with his parents right now, as do I, but all of his extended family live in Illinois, and His sister lives in Georgia. After we are married he wants to move somewhere far away, he even mentioned Maine, and I really don't like that. I love my family although they work my nerves every now and then, but who's doesn't at times? All of my family lives in the same county and has for almost all their lives. His family, I guess, is used to moving away from each other. I don't know what to do.

Working at a hospital, I won't have very many days off at a time, so I won't get to see my family very often. So, what would you do? Maybe it is normal for someone to move far far away from home after being married, and I'm just a traditional southern girl. I just don't know...

2006-12-28 05:04:20 · 9 answers · asked by amanda 3 in Family

2006-12-28 05:03:49 · 8 answers · asked by sleepingliv 7 in Singles & Dating

Really, what do they expect to find that actually relates to their specific situation? Furthermore, how much of it do you think will actually fix the problem the way they need it fixed?

2006-12-28 05:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by Not a punk like you 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for the last 4 years, been with him for the las 9 years, since I was 18, we have to beautiful boys together...but if I 'm honest the problem was going on when we first started dating, when we fight or argue he goes straight to my heart, tells me I'm crazy, that I'm lazy and a terrible person. That I can't care for my kids and repeatedly makes remarks about my weight. I know that I have gain weight since we first met, but I've had to children, I work full time, teaching in an alt. ed program and spend every moment of my free time caring for my boys and taking care of the house. I get frustrated, my husband hasn't held a job down for more than a week in the last two years. I am always feeling obligated to make him happy, to put on a show, when family is around. We are not happy, it's a front...or at least I'm not happy which he blames on me, nothing ever makes me happy. What do I do now! HELP PLEASE!

2006-12-28 05:02:56 · 21 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 05:02:20 · 23 answers · asked by a flower 2 in Singles & Dating

I went through a really horrible divorce a couple of years ago. I am currently engaged and am scared of remarrying. I love him, but I am scared that he may change like my ex-husband and leave. Any suggestions and is this normal.

2006-12-28 05:02:02 · 19 answers · asked by missy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 05:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 05:01:22 · 24 answers · asked by a flower 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well im 14 so is my boyfreind and we have been together for about a year and weve talked alot about doing the nasty thing but im not sure beacuse of my age so what should i do?

2006-12-28 05:00:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 05:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Singles & Dating

Why don't we just get rid of these stupid things, they are ruining peoples lives. I don't want to hear there good in an emergency, 1% of people use them for this, most is just gossip talk and wasting time. I miss the old days, Im considering throwing mine in the trash soon. Anyone agree with me?
If you don't agree, how come we all got along fine without them in the past. No one tracking you down, no stupid drama with the girls, it's so passe' and old news, I will go back to the old school corded phone, and call people back when "I" am good and ready.

Bless all us fools

2006-12-28 04:59:53 · 35 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Singles & Dating

My dude is 42 and I am 21 years old. I want to date and do things that he has already done but I love him and I do not want to cheat. What should I do?

2006-12-28 04:59:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are you friends with both of them?

2006-12-28 04:58:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend said that she saw him with another girl at the movies,and I dont think my boyfriend would do that,but,me and my friend were in an arguement when she told me this.And when I asked her why didnt she tell me when we werent fighting?And she said that she didnt want me to hate her.But,I dont get to see my boyfriend as much as I want to,and I dont know if he is doing this or not.what should i do?

2006-12-28 04:58:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 04:58:23 · 11 answers · asked by bunny 2 in Friends

2006-12-28 04:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by lorbanes12 1 in Singles & Dating

My wifes birthday is coming(january 9th), and I have no job, and no money.I love her very much, and want to make this day, just like any day special to her.What shoul I do?

2006-12-28 04:56:58 · 7 answers · asked by Square Root 1 in Weddings

What is a good gift to get your husband for valentines day! ITs so hard to get something for guys girls are easy! Any suggestions or gifts you given that have gone over well?

2006-12-28 04:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by roxygurl1307 3 in Marriage & Divorce