Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I am married with 2 kids. Hubby is military so he's gone most of the day usually. During the day I try to get the house clean and dinner ready but i am so tired all of the time. No matter how much or little sleep i get i'm always tired. What can I do to get more energy? I know it bothers my husband alot that I just never have any energy.

2006-12-28 05:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jesse's Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband doesnt trust me. he has no reason not to, i wud't dream of cheating on him because i love him dearly. his first wife cheated on him and left him for another man. i feel am being punished for that. a few months ago, he said he was ringing his mate and his phone was engaged. then he tried ringing me and mine was also engaged. he said it made him very suspicious about us two. i dont even know his mates number, have never spoken more than a few words with him and i felt sick in my stomach when he said this. he has done the same thing a number of times again. he snaps at everything, i have to pick up after him, he cant even hang his clothes up but leaves them on the floor. he smokes all over the house and i find it hard to breath, especially in the bedroom. if i tell him off for anything he snaps. a few times when we have rowed he has said he could and wants to kill me. but the thing is he works hard, and when we are not rowing, he is so loving and caring. but the rows

2006-12-28 05:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by simba 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I pressure him or just wait until he comes on to me?

2006-12-28 05:20:09 · 27 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on getting married this year and would like tips on planning a wedding. I don't know where to start! Please help!

2006-12-28 05:20:07 · 17 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

now... i know......but im just wondering how many of you think you do...and how many of you actually do...what are the differences in your opinion...???;0)

2006-12-28 05:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 05:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends

About Me
Member since: December 09, 2006
At my bank that i go to there is this bankteller that i truly like a lot. I know that the banktellers are suppose to smile and be friendly towards the customers. What is the best way for me to fnd out if she is single or is dating someone. I go to the bank once a week to deposit money and she is there whenever i see her. What should i do or say next? How can I get her to like me and to be able to go out with me?
Thanks again

2006-12-28 05:18:38 · 7 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

Laptop internet??
I just got a laptop computer and I want to get internet that doesn't require dail up. I want to be able to go online anywhere anytime wireless. I have looked on the internet for options but I still don't understand. What do I do to get wireless internet that I can use anywhere? Thanks!

2006-12-28 05:18:31 · 7 answers · asked by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 in Singles & Dating

in my opinion they have the right to be as misserable as any other marriage!

2006-12-28 05:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by Arrogant Bastard 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is Italian and his family is from up north..He's very close to his mom, which Italian men are known to be. He does things that aggragvate me, though, like tap into my e-mails and look through everything in my cell phone etc..he has to know EVERYTHING. But when the tables turn, he'll get a phone call or see one of his friends, and say "can you go in the other room and wait for me, this is important.." or he'll walk away when he gets a certain phone call and get furious if I follow him. His excuse is that I can't handle certain things!! Once, I wanted to give him a taste of his own medicine and had my friend call me..I did the same; went up stairs and used his lines "this doesn't concern you..sorry, I have to take this..wait here"....he was LIVID..he kicked things , he stormed after me, turned red..went nuts about it..his mom tried to stop him and he pushed her out of his way and caused a big commotion in his house. Is this double standard typical of Italian-American men?

2006-12-28 05:18:13 · 0 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband's sister is visiting for the holidays with husband & kids. Me & my husband were looking forward to this. However, for no explanable reason, I seem to feel very uncomfortable about their time with us. While nothing untoward has happened, I feel there are some things are very wrong. I want to check if my sister-in-law's behavior is passive aggressive, and if yes, how to deal with it?
- She used to look down upon people, especially who drink, but has chilled down a bit in the last few years, and has accepted it as a social norm. Occasionally, she gets a drink too. But with this trip, she has wasted every single glass of alcohol she was served by taking a few sips and says at least someone should stay sober.
- We were out for dinner yesterday, and before that had a few drinks. We planned to have some port after that, but she fell sick and we had to return home early.

There are many such small incidents. Do you think her behavior is passive aggressive? how do I deal with it?

2006-12-28 05:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Sumi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that cat was sexxxxy

2006-12-28 05:17:21 · 16 answers · asked by hotdogwrinkle 1 in Friends

we have been seperated for 10 years,we married in the caribean and i dont know where my ex is now and i dont have the marriage certificate

2006-12-28 05:17:18 · 16 answers · asked by bexs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband filed for divorce from his first wife she was with him during is twenty years in the military. He was not aware at the time of the divorce that he could have put a certian number of years he could pay her since she was entitled to half of his military retirement. So what does he need to do to amend that so that within the next two years it will stop and he won't have to pay it anymore?
Thank you

2006-12-28 05:17:03 · 1 answers · asked by Sheila C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 05:16:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 1/2 months, and made out, but i still have feelings for my ex....what should i do?!

2006-12-28 05:15:06 · 12 answers · asked by brie_pink 1 in Singles & Dating

Advice please!

2006-12-28 05:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by mprice9802 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 05:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by lassie1724 1 in Singles & Dating

It is a subject that is not openly talked about but could help many couples who are curious about what is "normal" as they get older together. My beloved and I were discussing our hopes for our future since we are in our 40's and newly married but since our parents never talked about how active they were we are unsure of what to expect. Any married couples in their 40's, 50's and beyond have any information they would care to share?

2006-12-28 05:14:28 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do girls get called names yet its ok for a guy to sleep with lots of girls

2006-12-28 05:14:15 · 20 answers · asked by sauceysue 2 in Singles & Dating

February my boyfriend/ father of my son broke up with me over the phone while in Iraq. He told me to move on with my life that things were to complicated for him to worry about holding a relationship together while he was over there and that he couldnt give me what I should have in a relationship with him as long as he was gone for so long. Well it crushed me! I eventually moved on and met another guy in April and in late May we started dating exclusive and before long we went on vacaction, bought a house together, got engaged recently, and things were absolutely great until my sons father got back from Iraq in November. I took our son to see him and when we seen each other is opened up a lot of emotions. We later talked to discuss it and he admitted that he still loved me, that he was confused and scared for his life there and didnt want me to put my life on hold for him because he thought he wouldnt make it back. Now I am confused? What do I do? I love both men so much!

2006-12-28 05:13:52 · 12 answers · asked by tiffany s 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister wants me to sing at her coming July wedding. I can't think of any songs that would work. Any suggestions?

2006-12-28 05:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-28 05:13:49 · 12 answers · asked by holly j 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I recently had a fight. Nothing real bad, (name calling), but it was heated. It took us a half a week, but I think things are ok between us. We live together, I kissed her good bye this morning...I called later and told her I loved her and she said she loved me. In our fight, she said that she didn't know what to do between me and her, (leave me, or stay with me). Should I worry if she is going out with her friends tonight to party in a college town? We are both early 20's. As far as I know, she has never cheated on me. She is the greatest person I've ever met. We've been together for almost 4 years. When Girls go out, do they go out to try and find other guys or one night stands? I'm pretty nervous, but I don't want to invade her space or interrupt her time with her friends.

2006-12-28 05:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by dwarner33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you like her any less? Would it taint your relationship?

2006-12-28 05:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5 in Singles & Dating

it,s difficult to get married in the USA, because is a very big country. if in the small country is mutch more easy

2006-12-28 05:12:42 · 3 answers · asked by ytamarsiani40 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my brotha is on the phone talkin to a girl who jus called
does that mean i should ring someone i know n talk to her
the problem is that we havent talked for ages . she drinks and is likely to be with someone or with her friends i cant think of a suitable time to ring her . this is where it gets freaky she gave me 2 missed calls the day before at 9pm but i didnt call her back to ask whats up instead i texted her oh! my god 1 did you jus call me ?? you ok ?? from textin her that i dont know what way she took it or what she started thinkin n gave me no reply the bottom line now is shall i call her she's the only girl i know . . . i dont know what she thinks about me 40/100 my guesses ??? if you were in her place what would you be thinkin and expectin from me ??? please let me know any guidelines i should follow thanx bye !!!

2006-12-28 05:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by THUG LIFE 2 in Singles & Dating

he was one fat son of a b

2006-12-28 05:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by hotdogwrinkle 1 in Friends

high school guy

2006-12-28 05:11:00 · 7 answers · asked by ggd958 1 in Singles & Dating

Weve been goin out for a while now. it seems that he never talks 2 me and is forever avoiding me. for xmas he got a me a pair of horrible tacky cheap eerings. is that really how much i mean 2 him. i dont know what to do. HELP! ?

2006-12-28 05:10:25 · 30 answers · asked by La lily 1 in Singles & Dating