My gf and I recently had a fight. Nothing real bad, (name calling), but it was heated. It took us a half a week, but I think things are ok between us. We live together, I kissed her good bye this morning...I called later and told her I loved her and she said she loved me. In our fight, she said that she didn't know what to do between me and her, (leave me, or stay with me). Should I worry if she is going out with her friends tonight to party in a college town? We are both early 20's. As far as I know, she has never cheated on me. She is the greatest person I've ever met. We've been together for almost 4 years. When Girls go out, do they go out to try and find other guys or one night stands? I'm pretty nervous, but I don't want to invade her space or interrupt her time with her friends.
2006-12-28 05:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by dwarner33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't worry... she's a girl. Most of us go out have a good time. We don't go out looking for a new piece of @ss. Let the water clam down and tell her to have a good time.
2006-12-28 06:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by kay2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some attached girls go scouting for other guys but not all. This is hard to answer as not all women are alike. It's going to come down to how well you know your woman. However, I wouldn't worry about it unless you SUSPECT she is cheating. The statistics are always in favor of the suspecter when it comes to cheaters. If you feel your mate is cheating (male or female) then they probably are. The statisics are higher if women suspect their mate than if a man suspects his - i guess because women "tend" to pay more attention to their mates routines, body language, etc. to pick up on the smallest of clues or anything out of the norm.
2006-12-28 13:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each woman is different and some women are like some men and when they go out they are looking for someone to be with for the night, but not all women are like that. When I go out with my girlfriends, I go out to have a good time and be around friends not to find someone to hook up with. I have someone wonderful to come home to at the end of the night and I wouldn't jeopardize our relationship for anything. So each woman is different and each situation is different
Hope this helps in some way
2006-12-28 13:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, when you fight, which is normal, don't name call. It's childish, pointless and hurtful.
Don't worry about her going out with her friends. If you try to stop her, she will resent you. If you really, truly honestly love her, you will trust her.
Your best bet is good communication. Talk to her, tell her that you are sorry for whatever it was you said during the argument and that you really do love her, but that you are having some issues with her going out with her friends. Just tell her what's going on and everything will work out the way it's supposed to.
2006-12-28 13:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i think you need to relax, are you insecure that you need to worry so much, if you kissed and made up then its all good, let it go, don't make things worse. No girls usually go out to have a good time and be with their friends, she might talk about you, but that's what we do.
2006-12-28 13:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point expect anything, since you guys are a little shaky right now. Why isn't she taking you??
2006-12-28 13:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by RoseFairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when girls go out, they go out to have fun. they go dance, go drink, eat out with friends, and just chat and catch up with our g/f's. it depends what each girl goes out to do. us girls don't go out to find a guy. if we're out and a guy comes up to us then hey! but ifyou don't think your g/f would cheat on you then don't worry about it. you have nothing to worry about. just chillax.
2006-12-28 13:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Purple Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋