Should I pressure him or just wait until he comes on to me?
2006-12-28 05:20:09 · 27 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are u sure its sex or attention that you want?
think about that one.
Wait for him and tell him the truth.
2006-12-28 05:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to have to tell you this but when two people have VERY different sex drive levels the relationships very rarely last. In your case you're either going to be frustrated by how little sex you have, or you'll find another sexual outlet, or your boyfriend might start agreeing to having sex more often but he's going to feel pressured and so he'll end up really wanting even less sex.
Sex is a big part of any healthy romantic relationship and if the two partners aren't on the same page there is nothing but trouble on the horizon. Best get out now before you really hurt him or vice versa.
Best of luck.
2006-12-28 13:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh.
Well, I'm a male and I have the opposite problem. It's frustrating, but I suppose the best solution would be to make sure that he knows when you're in the mood. Sometimes I have problems telling whether my wife is or not. If he does and still doesn't want any, then I don't know what to tell you. There's always Internet porn.
2006-12-28 13:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be waiting a long for that to happen... if u pressure him into it, he might take it as a turn off... and if your not getting it from him, you might go else where to find what your looking for (in the sex department) unless he's not looking at you to have sex with... there could be many reasons why his sex drive is alot lower than yours...
good-luck
2006-12-28 13:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by cutefeeties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him. Sex is very important in a relationship. If he can't handle you now, what are you going to to later. You know sometimes after marriage the sex drops of a little. If this happens you will have a problem on your hands. I think you should find someone who wants you as much as you want them.
2006-12-28 13:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say wait. But I could tell you, I wish I could find someone like you because I've got the same problem with my girl!
2006-12-28 14:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should buy a toy called the Trigasm. If your boyfriend sees you playing with it...he'll try and give you the real thing!
2006-12-28 13:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be soft and gentle and he will come just for the love. I do that with my wife. She's got a strong enough desire but she just responds to love more. And I do love her, like her sweetness. Oh heck, I'd litterally lay at her feet just to have that sweet feeling. [I feel like I should have kept quiet],,,,, but bring delight to the world.,,,,,]
2006-12-28 13:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bummer but I think you could answer your own question do you liketo be pressured into doing things?
2006-12-28 13:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is to believe there are times when guys will say no.....if its on a daily basis then just tell him we are doing it and thats final.....
2006-12-28 13:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen. We have two brains. Just convince our lower brain and our top one will go along for the ride. let your mouth do more than just talking, and I highly doubt he would tell you no.
2006-12-28 13:23:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋