i really love him and he knows that. i know he will leave me if i cheat on him. and just last night somebody called him and said i did but i really hnestly didn't. he says he needs proof to believe anybody. i don't know how to prove i didn't... please help i can't loose him........
2006-12-28 04:47:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sit him down, have a serious talk.
I'm telling you straight out, i am not, nor will i ever, cheat on you. if my word is not good enough, then let's break up. u have to trust me, just as i trust you. i have no idea who called, i am not a cheater. u either trust me or u don't. end of story.
good luck
2006-12-28 05:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this boyfriend accepts hearsay over your word, then there is a serious trust issue. As stated, above, our society has us innocent, until we can be proved guilty. And unless this guy has an insecurity problem, you may want to examine his motives (quite often, those who accuse their partners of cheating are themselves cheaters).
Bottom line: YOU know the truth. If he can't believe or trust you, it may mean that it's time for you to seriously examine the future of this relationship.
2006-12-28 05:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't prove anything to anyone if they want to believe something. Tell him the truth. If he doesn't believe it or trust you, he's the fool and not worth being with. He sounds insecure. If he believes that someone who called him and lied over you, then he doesn't deserve you. Tell him to go hang out with the caller. And leave the idiot.
2006-12-28 04:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not have to prove a thing.the person that made this call is the one he should be asking proof from if he is in doubt. so sit back and don't worry about it if you did nothing wrong. if he decides to believe gossip then you don't need to be with him any way.
2006-12-28 04:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one cheating so maybe you should leave him, he is guilty and trying to put it off on you
You CAN loose him there are more men where he comes from
2006-12-28 04:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Fruitful 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Innocent until proven guilty.
2006-12-28 04:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to that person he say you cheated on him with and ask him did you sleep wit him and then theres your answer.
2006-12-28 04:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it
you know the truth
flip the scrip ask him if he cheated on you
2006-12-28 04:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by mz.alayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r a virgin u could let him try to penetrate u, or if u not a virgin and he is the only one u have been sleeping with i think by going inside of u he would be able to feel if there have been someone else.
2006-12-28 04:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
confront the person who told him together and ask for proof uslly this will show if they lied or not.
2006-12-28 04:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by lnrtatum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋