Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

ive only had one bf and that was 10 months ago and he was super jerky and ugly. everyone tells me im hot, but i just want a relationship not.... a one night stand. what should i do????

2006-12-27 18:24:15 · 23 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

okay there is this guy who i like, and we kinda just keep looking at each other and i asked him to a dance and he was very happy but then suddenly these days he just looks at me i think he tries to avoid me but just keeps looking at me wherever i go....

2006-12-27 18:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by roxie 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl i really like and im not sure if she likes me, i dont really think that. Soyesterday i hung out with her and we talked whole time. So it was getting to the end of the convo and i asked her about a dream she mentioned i was in. She refused to tell me throughout the whole conversation and as i was leaving i told her i would ask when i called her later on. So as i said that she said to come back adn she would tell me. So i go back, and she says its a secret so i bend over to hear it and as my head is near her face, she kisses me on the cheek. After this i dont really remember what happened but i believed i left after i said a few things. Then as im leaving she said that in her dream it wasnt on the lips. Got a few questions. What does this mean? and did i screw this up? shuld i have kissed her back, and lastly, what should i do next time, I was thinking likeyou know how you always want to change how you did something then shed say something and id then kiss her, good idea?

2006-12-27 18:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by brillohead 2 in Singles & Dating

Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this note well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends. When I gave her the note she didn't read it in front of me she read it in away from me. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never said anything about the note to me. When I saw her again I ignore her. She thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. On Christmas Eve I gave her a $30.00 statue glass angel. I told her friend that the angel cost $30.00 and I guess her friend told her and I guess she freak out and told the manager about the situation. She told the manager that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend and my friend told me. I seen her today at work and she was freak out. She didn't want to be near me. She was pretty scared to go near me. I ignore her and didn't look at her or talk to her. She did the same. I know you guys are going to think i'm a loser for buying a $30.00 gift for a girl who has a boyfriend. I need advice about this situation. Do you think she likes me or not?

2006-12-27 18:23:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On December 2, 2006, which was a little over 3 weeks ago i lost my dad to a 14 month battle of cancer. I wanted to ask for advice on dealing with this it is hitting me very hard even though i'm still in shock

2006-12-27 18:22:41 · 10 answers · asked by Sassy_One 2 in Family

my bf is always looking at other women, by double taking and staring while he is with me. well we have gone over this a hundred times and i told him how it makes me feel when he does this. well he stills does it and denies most of it, even if he knows i was right in his face and seen him do it. well someone told me to give him a taste of his own medicine and start body checking guys. well its hard for me to do this cause im not that kind of person. what should i do in your opinion? and also why does he keep doing this if he knows it is going to cause big problems and if he knows it hurts me.? and plz dont tell me all men look because its a difference in seeing people and staring at them.

2006-12-27 18:22:18 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

penetration,does he get as excited?

2006-12-27 18:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you show her your real fillings from your heart... or be a macho man and just let her figerit out...

2006-12-27 18:21:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why don't those same women take a moment ( or two ) and look at themselfs and try to see why they are not dating more responsibily? Some of those men should have not even been allowed in their ' airspace '. Women have a responsibily to take a keener look at men before they open themselfs to the more 'classless' men.

I'm a woman who adores and values men and I personally grow weary of women complaining of men saying men are ' creeps ' and can't be trusted.

Men are not ' creeps ' . . . an individual person is a 'creep' and maybe can't be trusted . . . but don't take what one (or more) man has done and blanket it to all men.

I say . . . women, take a look at yourselfs and know your own personal level and quality and don't date men below the standards you set for youself. ' Scan ' these men with your heart ' attenias ' before opening yourself up to them before you know more of them.

Why don't women take more responsibility for looking after their own heart environment ?

2006-12-27 18:20:57 · 9 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

to me.

2006-12-27 18:20:10 · 18 answers · asked by popstar lee 1 in Friends

2006-12-27 18:18:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the only black person in a group of friends. Sometimes I can't help but feel like I stick out no matter where we go and I become moody and depressed, and other times I feel like they don't want me around or that I'm useless to them. I don't really understand why I feel like this sometimes but it happens alot. It's not at all that I won't hang out with people of my color, it's just that I've been friends with these girls for a really long time. One of them for almost five years! Should I just cut all ties with them, and make new friends? Or give up altogether? Or should I just tell them how I feel?

2006-12-27 18:18:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 18:17:32 · 8 answers · asked by anthony f 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my friend clams that she is physic and that she can see into the future! Well she is saying all this stuff about me and my x boy friend get married and that i have sex with all these other boys and to not get preg. i take birth control pills!! Can somone help me.. I need to know if i should believe her or not??!!!

2006-12-27 18:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Olivia♥ 4 in Friends

and im the only person that knows. i dont want to call the police and i dont really want to be invovled buts its my best friend and she has 2 small children ive told her my thoughts its not right not going to get better she knows all this but wont leave. my only help is i told her to call and i will come get her if not her the kids. i feel like theres something more i should do but dont want her husband to know i know becuase it will be harder for her. any ideas?

2006-12-27 18:16:49 · 13 answers · asked by mandrin4200 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dated by boyfrien for 4 years he was always really nice conservative and caring. i was the one who threw my self at him when we had 3 mos. now that we moved together he keeps repeating for me to stay in shape and wants to go to strip clubs.he has gone like 3 times in this past year. now he says he would like to mess around with his 4th ex girl friend. i tell him might as well have sex because i think he is going to get curious later on and cheat on me. right now i havent let him but he says that for sure he is going to do it. (mess around). he is still thinking about the sex part. i hurt deep inside because i try to stay in shape, i dont think im that boring, and i dont think i that ugly. one thing i have is that i have really low self-esteem. i dont feel good beside any other girl.is it because of what he says?

2006-12-27 18:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 18:13:48 · 12 answers · asked by NEHA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for a cute way to tell a boy that I like him. Everyone tells me they think he likes me too, so I'm hoping this is true. I want to make him something(s) that is absolutely adorable, and will make him melt.

We're both into artsy things, and I'm willing to make him something. I've already made him a cd that spells a secret out, and I've done poetry, but I'm looking for more ways to let him know how I feel.

Thank you all in advance :]

2006-12-27 18:13:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If love somebody,how can you explain?

2006-12-27 18:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by goldenboy 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a friend but i dont know how to talk to people and im to shy. how do i beak out of my shell and open up to people and start hanging out with a NEW BESTFRIEND ??

2006-12-27 18:12:38 · 11 answers · asked by wow!! 1 in Friends

2006-12-27 18:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I`m not necessarily your average teen. People tell me that I fall for older guys because i`m fairly mature. The guy I`ve fallen for is twenty. I really do honestly love him. He`s my first thought in the morning and my last thought at night. I don`t know how to tell him I love him. I have no idea how he`ll react. I guess what I really want to know is if you all think he`ll care about the age difference. I just want a chance. A chance to show him i`m so much more than my age. It`s making me crazy.

2006-12-27 18:11:45 · 13 answers · asked by mariee 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 months. his ex-girlfriend is kim. tonight at dinner, my bfs dad called me kim 3 times without realizing it, and never did. do i have any room to be upset? how realistic is it that hes still seeing her and im the only one that doesnt know it?

2006-12-27 18:11:36 · 3 answers · asked by ashkro 1 in Singles & Dating

okay this doesnt make sense to me. My bf of 3years broke up with me 3 months ago wanting me to be single and alone. Before i know it hes trying to get at 3 other girls!!! and just recently he hooked up with a co-worker. Is it just me, or like does it seem like something is definitely wrong with a person who quickly gets with other people after a break up and people are aware that he seemed quite different and gloomy when we ended. Could he really be over me so soon?

2006-12-27 18:10:48 · 16 answers · asked by LT 1 in Singles & Dating

Not that you pervs...........I mean like body In general.......Cause I am really thin.......do girls go by looks or can personality take the place?

2006-12-27 18:10:36 · 11 answers · asked by Tree 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey Guys...I have a problem.I had been in love with someone for almost 3 yrs now.I absolutely adore this person.This person is quite stable and reliable.This person stays on mind all day long even if out of my sight.I can do anything for this one person...But i don't feel sexually attracted to this person.Just like an year back i had meet this other person..who is commitment phobic/Unnreliable blah blah blah.But I am very much attracted to the second person,when this person is around.I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING WITH EITHER OF THEM.is something wrong with me?Who is right for me?

2006-12-27 18:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by Blessed 1 in Singles & Dating

After 7 years of marriage and two kids later I decided to leave my husband. We've been seperated for about 3months. He was a liar and a cheater. I found a woman pay stub in our bedroom once with weed residue on it. another time some female called the house for him. We got into arguments and it got violent all the time. He even locked me out of the house and when i tried to come back in he put knife up to my throat. He's threatened to kill me. said he wanted to chop my head off and bury my body. he told the neighbors he poisoned the koolaid. I'm not innocent. I acted and treated hime like a woman who doesn't trust her man. i was a b@atch. but it was because of all he put me through. After I left i sought the comfort of another man that i had known for 3yrs. Well, we did our "thang" and now i'm pregnant by him!!! I could just die. i don't believe in killing an innocent life just because i was stupid and wreckless. i feel so hopeless. this is out of my character. i'm a stranger to myself

2006-12-27 18:08:59 · 27 answers · asked by ms_lique 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have dated him on and off for about 1 1/2 years. I was in an accident and am trying to get completely healed, out of debt, and financially straight before marrying. I also need for my son to be old enough to drive himself to school as it is about 17 miles from where will be living b/c he has been in that school system with his friends since kindergarten. His son goes to school in the county we will be living in and I will be taking him to school. He says he is willing to wait, but I know he wants to marry sooner.

2006-12-27 18:07:57 · 19 answers · asked by MimGregg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and where were you when you heard that and
did it actually work? :)

2006-12-27 18:06:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf have been dating for 3 months. When were around people she is kinda mean to me when were out in public. I really like her and she says she really likes me back what should I do. (P.S. She has a tendency to flirt with other guys when I'm not around)

2006-12-27 18:05:47 · 32 answers · asked by Your best friend 1 in Singles & Dating