Why do some women often blame men for being clueless . . . why don't women . . .?

Question

Why don't those same women take a moment ( or two ) and look at themselfs and try to see why they are not dating more responsibily? Some of those men should have not even been allowed in their ' airspace '. Women have a responsibily to take a keener look at men before they open themselfs to the more 'classless' men.

I'm a woman who adores and values men and I personally grow weary of women complaining of men saying men are ' creeps ' and can't be trusted.

Men are not ' creeps ' . . . an individual person is a 'creep' and maybe can't be trusted . . . but don't take what one (or more) man has done and blanket it to all men.

I say . . . women, take a look at yourselfs and know your own personal level and quality and don't date men below the standards you set for youself. ' Scan ' these men with your heart ' attenias ' before opening yourself up to them before you know more of them.

Why don't women take more responsibility for looking after their own heart environment ?

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Californi ... girl . . . I did have experience of marrying a man who later showed to relate " less than favorable " . . . and, after divorcing him and emotionally healing . . . I do trust again. I'll say it again...I get frustrated when women grumbely express what one (or more) men have done and blanket those ill factors to all (or most) men.

Answer 1

I agree with you. I had a friend who was very bitter toward men. All men were painted with the same brush as far as she was concerned. But she didn't see that it was because those were the men she chose to date.

Answer 2

Answer: I don't know. Maybe it is because men take the message from the words instead of the nuance. Maybe it is because men have not practiced the intricacies of relationships nor learned to read between the lines. Maybe it is just because some men aren't Columbo's and wouldn't know a clue if it came with a cue card.

Answer 3

I agree but you also have to look at the women that thought they chose a responsible, wonderful, smart man and they turned out to be serial rapists or domestic abusers. After something like that, it's very hard for a woman to be able to trust anyone again and they blame all men.

Answer 4

FINALLY! A smart woman like me! I totally agree with you! Women are just not as "down to earth" with guys because we're alot smarter - which is a blessing and a curse. WIth women being smarter, they tend to overanalyze things and think more complicated. Where as guys are just straightforward. Sorry to say not alot of women are gonna re evalutate themselves (wish they would because the world would be ALOT easier with less drama)...but i think it's a biological thing. But yeah, i'm on the same team with you on this one!

Answer 5

Women who said men are creeps are saying it in a matter of fact manner. No malice intended thus you shouldn't get too emotional about it. This world is made up of all sorts of people. Live and let live!

Answer 6

Well let me say....Most men "act" differently then they really are until you get to know them better where as women are mostly their true selves when they meat people. Its later that you found out the man is a lying dog. Thanks for letting me get my opinion in there.

Answer 7

I say, all women are not dating men below themselves and unable to make smart choices. Individual women need to take more responsibility for their choices. You are putting the same thing you say women put on men on women. Clearly you need to read your own posting. Please do.

Answer 8

Thank You!!! It's about time someone said it

Answer 9

I APPROVE =)