i need a friend but i dont know how to talk to people and im to shy. how do i beak out of my shell and open up to people and start hanging out with a NEW BESTFRIEND ??
2006-12-27 18:12:38 · 11 answers · asked by wow!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to a person who is often with you! you cant FIND a best friend it just happens!
speak to people who share your interests it can only get better after that!!
good(*)luck
2006-12-27 18:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright being shy and in your shell. There will come a time when you will break out of your shell but for the meantime, try to go out more and socialize with some more people that you know so they can introduce you to some people that they know. I think that once you become familiar with some new people then you will start to open up more and be able to, eventually, find the best friend you're looking for. A best friend is not going to come right away though. A best friend is a close friend, someone that you can trust, is always there for you, loves you and someone you can always depend on. It might take some time to actually find a best friend but there will come a time.
2006-12-28 07:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chrisssy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that when i moved to a whole new school. I didn't have anyone to talk to. I was the quiet one too. But eventually someone talked to me and they introduced me to their friends. But sometimes you just gotta start talking to like class mates. Don't be too rushed in finding a best friend. The thing about best friends is that its an long ongoing process because that way you know that their a good true friend. You gotta build a good foundation before you build the rest of the skyscraper.
2006-12-28 04:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by turbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't be shy all your life. some day somehow, you have to come out of your shell. the thing is that you can't just trust ANYBODY. try finding someone you have a lot in common with. maybe you can start with starting a conversation with another person who is shy. that is one thing you guys would have in common. within time, you will feel more comfortable, and then finding friends will be a lot easier. friendship is all about trust. its good to have friends because you can rely on them and they can rely on you. you can tell each other anything if you guys are true friends. having friends is good because they realize all of your good qualities you may have not noticed. =]
2006-12-28 02:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Gabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is many kind of that you have but you didn't recognise it. a friend can be a thing a person a pet what i mean what's in your environment or society is we can call it a friend.
you don't have to do anything to become friends of other just only be your self and smile always friends are coming and friends are go. but as long as there is an living and non living things on your side you can have more friends.......
2006-12-28 02:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by ruby_gel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world may not be interested in knowing you or they may not have the time to do so...for having friends waiting fro then to come is utter rubbish...you go out there and find out whos gud for u
2006-12-28 02:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Vips Says 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be who you are. Let your friend come to you. Don't try to hard. And you must open up a little bit, but not so much where you are not being yourself. Remember a good friend is one that's understanding.
2006-12-28 02:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by qncy_jackson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push yourself. Being shy doesn't prevent yourself from having a friend. You will sooner or later find like-minded friends from your usual routine.
2006-12-28 02:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by lm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. just do something crazy and give yourself a count of three... I know under that shell you want to break out, so just do it!!!
2006-12-28 02:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by prettyaspnk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with Myspace.com. you're bound to meet somewhere there who shares your interests.
2006-12-28 02:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by LovexRemedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋