okay this doesnt make sense to me. My bf of 3years broke up with me 3 months ago wanting me to be single and alone. Before i know it hes trying to get at 3 other girls!!! and just recently he hooked up with a co-worker. Is it just me, or like does it seem like something is definitely wrong with a person who quickly gets with other people after a break up and people are aware that he seemed quite different and gloomy when we ended. Could he really be over me so soon?
2006-12-27 18:10:48 · 16 answers · asked by LT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he was not ready for a relationship and isn't now, thus the reason for serial dating.
2006-12-27 18:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: REBOUND.
Getting involved with as many people as possible as soon as possible is a great way to boost the ego and help you focus on something else besides your ex. Generally, these relationships don't work out -- basically because after a while, you don't really need the ego boost anymore, nor do you need the distraction, and you realize that the "rebound" relationships aren't really all that great either because you didn't take any time in getting to know these people before "hooking up"
2006-12-28 02:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, a guy whos that quick to a) experience and compare you to other girls b) make you jealous or c) jump into another relationship most likely cared about you if he was with you for three years but definately isnt the guy you deserve. be thankful that hes gone, its okay to feel hurt that you didnt mean more to him than to need time to get over you. but the guys that cant even picture another woman after a serious relationship are the kind that you want to find and be with... not saying theyre perfect either.. just that its the least you deserve.
2006-12-28 02:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was probably over for him long ago. He's just faking being gloomy so he can play the pity-card with these other women who want to "save" him. He's playing on a woman's natural "mothering" instinct to make his boo-boo better. He's a player.
2006-12-28 02:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong about him. He got over you a long time if he ever cared about you. Close the door on him and throw away the key. He will come back like a worthless stray dog and betray you again.
Think about staying dry for a couple of years.
2006-12-28 02:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by taxigringo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He could just be wanting to play the field without making a huge commitment. Another word would be called Rebound, but don't stress about it. It obviously wasnt meant to be.
2006-12-28 02:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he was looking for someone to lick his wounds. Maybe he was over you but still wanted a realtionship or maybe just to feel like a playa. Its different when you have to get something you dont have already.
2006-12-28 02:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by J Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People hook up after breaking up because you're vulnerable...you lost what you had and your're playing on the borderline...it's still dangerous though...
2006-12-28 02:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just didn't love you but is still lonely for the company of women. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to answer your question.
2006-12-28 02:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if I could do my ex I would be doin him. And thats all i'm gonna say. Were two of a kind not a pair!
2006-12-28 02:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by vickielynnperry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋