Does she like me? Long story but it's very interesting to read?

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Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this note well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends. When I gave her the note she didn't read it in front of me she read it in away from me. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never said anything about the note to me. When I saw her again I ignore her. She thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. On Christmas Eve I gave her a $30.00 statue glass angel. I told her friend that the angel cost $30.00 and I guess her friend told her and I guess she freak out and told the manager about the situation. She told the manager that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend and my friend told me. I seen her today at work and she was freak out. She didn't want to be near me. She was pretty scared to go near me. I ignore her and didn't look at her or talk to her. She did the same. I know you guys are going to think i'm a loser for buying a $30.00 gift for a girl who has a boyfriend. I need advice about this situation. Do you think she likes me or not?

Answer 1

I didnt get where she was coming on to you, however if you hoped that the note and the gift would get her to look your way ...away from her boyfriend...you are the one who took the risk...a risk that may cause problems to her, to you and your jobs and your own heartache. I think you should stop worrying about whether or not she likes you for more than a coworker. Get back to work. If she is ever available...she'd let ya know.
peace.

Answer 2

First of all, she showed all her coworkers friends that note and didn't say anything at all to you?! She's rude. She told the manager that you like her? Why? She sounds like she is playing you. I would move on with my life with someone else as quickly as possible. This girl sounds confused, got problems, I don't know what but you don't need it.

Answer 3

if you don't want all of her friends to see it, don't put it in writing.

Frankly, the note made you sound a bit desperate. She was trying to put you off with the "that's so sweet" line, but you were persistent.

If she has a boyfriend, give up. I'm sorry, but whatever chance (if any) you had it's over.

Answer 4

It sounds to me like she doesn't like you very much at all. If she liked you she would not have showed the note to every1 that you guys work with. I think she deserves the loser that makes her cry.

Answer 5

Yes, you were way too nice to someone who has a boyfriend. Sounds to me like she was ok with harmless flirting, but when you bought her something, it wasn't harmless anymore. Too fast, too soon, too nice. Sorry to be blunt, but your chances just went into the crapper. Sorry.

Answer 6

yes, but u acted too fast and she already has a boyfriend. too bad man, she doesnt like u so u should try and move on. good luck and happy holidays.