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I`m not necessarily your average teen. People tell me that I fall for older guys because i`m fairly mature. The guy I`ve fallen for is twenty. I really do honestly love him. He`s my first thought in the morning and my last thought at night. I don`t know how to tell him I love him. I have no idea how he`ll react. I guess what I really want to know is if you all think he`ll care about the age difference. I just want a chance. A chance to show him i`m so much more than my age. It`s making me crazy.

2006-12-27 18:11:45 · 13 answers · asked by mariee 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I`m not necessarily your average teen. People tell me that I fall for older guys because i`m fairly mature. The guy I`ve fallen for is twenty. I really do honestly love him. He`s my first thought in the morning and my last thought at night. I don`t know how to tell him I love him. I have no idea how he`ll react. I guess what I really want to know is if you all think he`ll care about the age difference. I just want a chance. A chance to show him i`m so much more than my age. It`s making me crazy. I`ve never actually dated anyone my own age. My first boyfriend was 19 & My first girlfriend was 17. I`m still a virgin, so it`s not like i`m having sex with any of these people. I`m completely abstinant and so far i`ve been lucky enough to be in relationships with people that are fully supportive of it. Advice, please. Play nice.

2006-12-27 19:00:34 · update #1

13 answers

You are too young to be going out with a 20 year old. Even though you may be mature for your age, you are underage for a 20 year old. Try to focus on guys a little younger for right now. You have plenty of time to date older guys if you want, but wait till you are of age.

2006-12-27 18:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 0 0

You need to be at least 18 or more to be legal.. These men or man would be fools to be messing with a 16 yr old girl..They could be locked up for messsing with you. Grow up some child show some maturity. Sure you are crazy what do you think about this man? Is he ready to go to jail for you? I think not. Go to bed and think on this.

2006-12-27 18:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok properly first of all, i could choose for to congratulate you on your engagement and new child =D and of path, my reaction could be that your too youthful, even nonetheless due on your tenacity i will see suggestion collectively with that is irrelevant. additionally, I comprehend which you reported you're financially good, even nonetheless it could be greater handy to grant a greater effectual answer on how "good". How lots is your fiance/families making in line with annum, the place do you reside, what's the final family members earnings the place you reside, the fee of your place, the tax fee the place you reside, etc). each and every accessible financial and economic variable could be sensible. i'm in simple terms assuming which you're family members makes $a hundred,000 a three hundred and sixty 5 days with a provincial/state usual of $60,000, and 14% tax (those parts are in accordance with the place I stay). Then i think having yet another toddler, albeit a complicated job, could be mitigated in accordance with how lots money is being delivered in, and the actual shown fact which you're consistently domicile. given which you're in basic terms 18, it could be very complicated on condition that your concepts in simple terms progressed completely and continues to be finalising all tweaks. in some situations, even nonetheless you could take care of a million new child completely, yet another ought to push you over your own threshold, wherein case this is carefully in accordance with what you experience you could take care of, in simple terms don't be too rash xD. So yeah, in case you incredibly wan't a new child, good success, and that i choose you, your toddlers, and your quickly-to-be-husband the main suitable of each and every thing =D

2016-10-06 02:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Dear Jail Bait - If he's smart he'll leave you alone. Once you're 18 go for it. But in the meantime do all guys 18 or over a favor and leave them alone. They don't need the temptation & they certainly don't need to be doing jail time.

2006-12-27 18:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Judith 6 · 1 0

OK WELL IT IS AGAINST THE LAW N HE PROBABLY WONT CARE BUT MOST LIKELY HE PROBABLY JUST WANTS SEX I MEAN I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION HE WAS 5YEARS OLDER THAN ME N IT WAS ILLEGAL AT THE TIME N THATS WHAT HE WANTED I MEAN HE HAD STRONG FEELINGS FOR ME HE CLAIMED HE LOVED ME BUT I DONT KNOW JUST TO TELL U THAT WHEN WE DID HAVE SEX WE DIDNT USE PROTECTION N HE SAID "IF YOU GET PREGNANT ITS NOT MY FAULT" LIKE I MEAN THATS NOT REAL!! BUT ITS UP TO YOU I DONT KNOW IF HE WILL CARE IM SURE U TOLD HIM UR 18 HUH ?? I LIED ABOUT MY AGE TOO N IT DIDNT END UP GOOD MOVE ON SWEETIE ITS DEFFINETLY THE BEST CHOICE. I KNOW RIGHT NOW U FEEL HES THE "ONE" BUT HES NOT AND YOU'LL FIND BETTER. TRUST ME IVE GONE THROUGH IT. GOOD LUCK AND HOPEFULLY YOU'LL MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE!

2006-12-27 18:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

umm..am 17 and my bf is 26..ex was 18 when i was 16/17 when i was 15..another guy i went out with on dates a cpl of times was 20 when i was 16..
not sure if its legal..but i say go for it..if you're mature enough then he'll go for you =)

2006-12-27 18:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am 25 & I like men in their 40's. I don't see appeal in men in their 20's. GENERALLY most of them are just sex driven, "my car is so special", OMG a girl has boobs, intellectually shallow, dufasses. I'll pass.
I think that until you are 18 though, you should stick to guys under 18. There are laws. After that, go for it!

2006-12-27 18:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0 1

ok well i have sorda the same situation. i am 15 and i like guys that are 18 - 20. and you can not let age stand in your way.

2006-12-27 18:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by ulamciadilaucurats 2 · 0 0

"I`m not necessarily your average teen"
...... rotflmfao!!!! That's what every teenager says. I stopped dating 16 year olds when I turned 18.

2006-12-27 18:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by three6ty 4 · 1 0

well it is illegeal if u do anything sexual but guys don't care as long as they have a hot piece of *** all they'l say is the younger the better!

2006-12-27 18:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 0 0

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