Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

Hi! I'm Jessica's lil' sis'. I'm 16. There are two HOT guys that LOVE me. One, I only get to see once a year. His name is David, but lately all his e-mails say is...um ok.... There is this other guy. His name is Jon, but he is really gross and everybody will hate me and think I'm gross if I go out with him. Both have asked me out, but I just don't know! David is nicer, but Jon I see more and he has given me stuff and flirts all the time. I don't want to pick the wrong guy. I really love David, but I don't know about Jon. David I can easily talk to and Jon, I'm almost scared of what dumb thing I might do around him. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2006-12-24 13:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy says he loves you but then he loves a girl and would die for her but she doesnt feel the same for him.So what am i supposed to think ? ( ive asked this before but not good enough answers)

2006-12-24 13:37:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At 195 lbs., I have a little tummy, but I am not fat. I don't make much money. I consider myself a gentleman. I open doors for people, I help others, and try very hard to be a decent person. Sometimes, I make errors in judgment, but I want you to know that I care about others and do try.

2006-12-24 13:37:34 · 18 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

please help and i know there are tons of ways but how would u do it or should i get to know him more!?

2006-12-24 13:36:01 · 11 answers · asked by gatoroak 1 in Singles & Dating

basically he told me that he thought this person in a movie was beautiful and i told him who i thought was sexy(an actor)and then he went quiet on me for the rest of the day.does this mean anything

2006-12-24 13:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:34:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a Step Mom to a five year old daughter. My husband and I have been married for 3 years and my daughter has lived with us for the whole time. My husband and I have never agreed on how to discipline her. I have spoken with my husband on several occasions about this situation. His mother and our daughters teacher’s have also spoken with us about this issue. I feel, as do others that have seen our situation, that he is much too easy on her. I was just wondering if anyone had any recommendations. Any help is appreciated.

2006-12-24 13:34:42 · 11 answers · asked by StepMom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Made a dramatci entrance! I did last night to a party. A slinky brown dress and 4in high helled leopard ankle boots, I looked hot! The girl that hates me was glaring, her recent ex was staring and her new bf (the guy I liked) was getting excited LOL. So have you? TELL ME ABOUT IT?!?!

2006-12-24 13:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to a party last nihgt and we played "Never Have I ever", where people go around and say something they have never done and if anyone in the circle has done it they lose a point and say "oops". So it started off easy with boys saying "never have I ever worn a bra" and girls saying "never have I ever had a penis" but then it got dirtier with stuff like "never have I ever been fingered", "never have I ever had sex", "never have I ever hooked up" and a bunch of related ones. I'm 16 - is it weird that I was one of the few 16 and 17 year-olds (and I mean FEW) to have never done these?! I felt really, out of it all by the end of the game learning my friends weren't virgins and quite frankly, sexpots...

2006-12-24 13:31:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:31:24 · 2 answers · asked by MARCiiA 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been really busy lately and i bought alot of present for my family & friend but..... i forgot about my parents. =|
i know i know how can you forget them.
But im too late to buy them x-mas presents so im think about after christmas ill buy them something when im at the mall.
But i have no clue what to buy them any suggestions?
plss.

2006-12-24 13:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by Thrills 5 in Family

We are renewing our vows on our 5 yr anniv. We want casual (redneck like) but don't know where to start. Any advice?

2006-12-24 13:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by terpgal67 1 in Weddings

Ok theres Billions and Billions of people all around the world and your telling me that there is only ONE other person destined to be with you??? anyone really believe in that b.s??

2006-12-24 13:29:35 · 20 answers · asked by Goodies 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend had an amazing relationship before and all of a sudden she changed...my feelings for her havnt changed on bit but i feel like hers have because shes not the way she use to be.i know once your with someone for a while things kinda calm down but it seems like she has a little more than she should have.iv spent the last 2 months trying to find ways to make things the way they were cuz im very very unhappy that things are going the way they are.it seems like things are going back the way they were but then it just starts to fall apart again..and i feel like things arent ever gonna be like that ever again and that thought makes me really depressed...i dont wanna give up because iv never ever been that happy about anything in my entire life but i feel as if nothing is ever gonna change and i feel like i will never be happy with another person.

2006-12-24 13:29:26 · 3 answers · asked by lifeless 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I grew enough courage 2 talk w/ her last year like in nov. since i liked her. I talked to her like everyday @ skool, i just loved talking w/ her since it was kinda the only reason i looked forward going to skool for. then i gave her a present which she didnt want cuz she said she didnt deserve a present(still cant understand wat that means)she took it later on n the day and opened it later (necklace).then over x-mas break she hooked up w/ her close friends bro which ruined my life. well i then "gave up" on hooking up w/her so during vacation i was looking 4 a girl but 0 satisfied. well once i got back in skool and talking w/her, the way she smiled and laughed wen i talked w/her made me realize that shes pretty much theonly girl im really into. well i gave her a present not 2 long ago along with a letter saying how i liked her and that she should try new things(like me)she hasnt really said much since so wat should i do? i sent her sum msgs cuz im scared2 call, she hasnt replied since

2006-12-24 13:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by Christian G 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is supposed to be the hoiday season but I'm so worried. My fiance is coming to see my family and they despise him because he's Italian-American, and treat him rudely. When he came to dinner for Thanksgiving out of all of my 15 guests who were in my family, no one would speak to him or serve the food...I was so ashamed and stunned. I never knew they would do something like that and I didn't think that marrying an Italian person was a big deal theses days but in my traditional WASP family it's like I'm doing something awful. My whole family keeps calling my fiance slurs DIRECTLY and acting like he's another species, which is weird because my mom and oldest sister listens to people like Madonna and that Stefani chick, watch Sopranosyet they suddenly can't stand Italians. I know it's stupid to think that if a person listens to an artists they like that racial group but I'm grasping at straws. I hope my family will come around but if they don't what should I do?

2006-12-24 13:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by Debby Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

You must pick 5 that you could put up with. Remeber, you love him so much.

1. He is way shorter than you.
2. Has no front teeth.
3. Terrible dresser. Plaid high water pants with stripped shirts.
4. Jelly gut hangs out side of shirt and refuses to tuck it in.
5. His name is Goober Grossman.
6. He used to be a woman
7. He refuses to work and plays video games 24/7
8. He once slept with your single mom. Long time ago.
9. He wants to name your children Rainbow, Granola, and Lerch
10. He can't fit in the car nor truck. 450 pounds of love
11. He makes you listen to David Hasselhoff's greatest hits
12. He voted for Bush. Twice!!
13. He's prettier than you and people tell you all the time.
14. He's cheap. He take you to 7eleven for dinner and it's dutch.
15. He smells all the time. Natural BO.
Good luck.

2006-12-24 13:25:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you don't believe in love at first sight you won't know where I am coming from. I know about attraction , but does a man know from the first moment that someone is special.

2006-12-24 13:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have her full time and her mother has her every other weekend.. her mom tells her to be mean to me because the child has told me this..wat can I do too help this situation? she does things to be mean somtimes and when I tell her to not do that she jus ignores me or says well ur not my mother,, my boyfriend is on my side as far as the disapline part but hes not home full time with her I am hes at work..we have grounded her took things away from her hoping this will help and it hasnt..shes a very stubborn kid..omg I need some help..shes 11 and I was jus wondering if its maybe puberty or somthing and not ME...making her so mean.. she acts like she loves me to death until she does wrong and then olord she hates me...when I try and show her manners or morals..her parents where in a bad relationship and she has has no guideance until now.. I was rasied with good morals and and values in my life so I want her too have respect..is she too far gone for me to help?

2006-12-24 13:24:58 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Constance♥ 3 in Family

does it mean she wants me for my personality?
or me for my body ?

which do you think ?
please and thanks for answeringgg

2006-12-24 13:24:41 · 10 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

It feels very strange for me, sure every relationship is not perfect and I love my spouse - I am never leaving.

2006-12-24 13:24:38 · 17 answers · asked by Emily L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it is different for everyone--but just some common sense suggestions, advise. My friend has not dated in two years and is very reluctant to commit to any type of relationship--(very different from my divorce). How normal is this for a man, esp. a man of 50? Suggestions-comments, personal experience

2006-12-24 13:24:35 · 3 answers · asked by WANTSTOKNOW 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-24 13:24:32 · 15 answers · asked by fairydust 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:23:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Isn't it almost unbearable?

2006-12-24 13:23:25 · 16 answers · asked by fairydust 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by pioneerkid33 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a huge circle of friends; if this gets known, if that person doesn't want me at all and tells everyone about it, then I am over...

2006-12-24 13:21:28 · 12 answers · asked by Standup98 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont think it is wrong. I would be pissed if my wife got fat after we got married.

2006-12-24 13:20:12 · 30 answers · asked by Sean J 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother in law's wife told me that he recently started using crack. She made me swear not to tell a soul. She is considerably younger than he and from a different country. I am worried about her and him. The messenger always seems to get shot in my husbands family and this son is the favorite. I dont know what to do.

2006-12-24 13:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by happywife&mom 2 in Family