Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

I started seeing this cop two months ago. He was wonderful to me and promised me the world. I know women are always throwing themselves at him because he is good looking and charming(plus a cop). He's hurt me lately by hiding something important from me and not keeping in touch and keeping distant. I thought he was different from other guys. He said in the hallway at work 'sorry about this mess',then when we got in the car with two other people he started explaining what was going on with his family problems,so why didnt he come and speak to me about this?

2006-12-24 13:19:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, i am 24yo, have two toddlers, i am alone evryday with my kids and sometimes i feel down having the same hair style since high school,,,groan! i began to style my hair with an curling iron, i liked the outcome and began to style my hair now and then,,not everyday! cos it takes a good 30 mins to do it. my husband started to complain to me, said i was being selfish, that i dont need make up and i dont need to style my hair, cos i have kids and should concentrate my time playing with them, i know hes right but sometimes i want some time for me even if its just to make myself feel better and i think make up and hair styling is relaxing, makes me feel better i dont want bed hair all day long! so now i sometimes style my hair at weekends and i dont wear make up during the week either, but i am being a selfish mother for thinking about my appearance? must i look like tired worn out mother everyday?

2006-12-24 13:19:12 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you convince yourself that your in love with someone?? The brain is a powerful thing you know, so do you think its possible that you can fall head over heels with someone just because you want to believe you are indeed in love with that person??

2006-12-24 13:17:26 · 15 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about buying a used wedding ring vs a new one , Me and my Fiance want New Wedding rings and a freiend siad he can get us The exsact same Rings for 100s of dollars less ,How Do you feel about wearing somebody elses wedding ring

2006-12-24 13:16:48 · 17 answers · asked by Terry S 5 in Weddings

2006-12-24 13:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by alicia t 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf seems to be nervous and shy during love-making. Despite when say that she is beautiful to me, she is still very self-conscious and can fidget and feeling ticklish. what can I do to soothe her so that she will enjoy the process?

2006-12-24 13:15:06 · 7 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend who is perfect! He was always my best friend and hes handsome and he tells me everyday that he will never break up with me, cheat on me, or hurt me because im beautiful <333 I love him but he needs a clue. He always asks me if he can kiss me and i want him to kiss me when im least expecting it... is that too much to ask? But hes always saying okay so u do want to makeout? ok then i willl take u somewhere when we hang out.. . (and thats sweet and everything but i dont want to be expecting it ya know!?)

2006-12-24 13:14:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by that guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when your woman vadge looks like a fleshy wizard sleeve?

2006-12-24 13:13:10 · 22 answers · asked by Sean J 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I know has been calling me every night and we talk about random things all the time. I just don't understand why he's doing it?

2006-12-24 13:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by Dark_light 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I've been goin out with this gorl for about a month and at the beggining I didnt like her as much, but she really liked me. As we contined goin out I started to like her more and more and she less and less. One day her freind comes over to me and asks whats goin on bettween you two. I said everythings fine. Her friend goes that she was really upset about somethin. Next day I asked her whats wrong she said nothin. A couple of days later I told her that I could see that she was like upset and I apoligized for doing whatever I did to upset her. She said that she needed some time alone and that she was really stressed about stuff at home. I still really like her and still want to go out with her. what should I do?

2006-12-24 13:13:05 · 1 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright so I tried to add abunch on the title to get peoples attention because "Singles/Dating" is usually pretty crowded on here lol.

So Ive been w/ this chick for 6 months, and I guess over the past month abunch of people have told her that I cheated on her over the summer w/ my ex girlfriend. (I didnt). But she doesnt beleive me about it and is getting all "emotional" w/ me. I know that I would do the same thing she is, I wouldnt take her word over 20 other people all saying the same thing; but it still pisses me off that she doesnt beleive me and I didnt do anything. What can I say to her now to either to get her over it, or to convince her I didnt do anything?

2006-12-24 13:12:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:10:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Guys,if you could pick the perfect women.What would she look like?Mine would have dark hair,hazel eyes and nice bronze skin.She has to be at least 5'8".Nice full figure about 125 lbs and with an accent.How different am I from the rest of the guys?

2006-12-24 13:10:10 · 8 answers · asked by charles 4 in Marriage & Divorce

help

2006-12-24 13:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by gatoroak 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I had been to a Christmas party recently. I dont have problems approaching women I dont know and talking to them but it seems that after I talk to them for a little bit it appears they start to lose interest or get distracted and leave to go else where to talk to other guys. In all reality I am pretty bad with keeping a conversation going unless its of what my interests are but just about all my interests are geared towards manly things. Women dont want to talk about collecting guns ect. I try to talk to females about themselves and about myself but it seems the conversations only go as far as some yes or no answers from them and it doesnt flow. What are some great, long conversation topics or any tips that will help make the convo last longer? Just help a brother out here...Thanks

2006-12-24 13:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if one breast is smaller than the other do guys really care?

2006-12-24 13:04:02 · 30 answers · asked by ziri 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this kid i like but he has a lot of acne and is kinda ugly. My friends all hate him. What sould I do?

2006-12-24 13:03:45 · 12 answers · asked by itz_erika_yo 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this possible?

2006-12-24 13:03:40 · 7 answers · asked by Diesel Weasel 7 in Singles & Dating

We're newly weds and celebrating our first christmas together. I bought a cute christmas outfit (lingere) but not sure when to pop out with it on. We're spending christmas eve and Christmas day together and he's not stepping out at all so I can have it on. Any ideas. Christmas eve or early christmas morning? Thanks

2006-12-24 13:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Nita D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is something that you would find really hot during sex but think it sounds weird or that it might freak out the other person?

2006-12-24 13:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by Meagan 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 13:01:47 · 21 answers · asked by steve E 1 in Singles & Dating

an assistant manager and coworker will not leave me alone because im 37 and a girl i like is 21. this needs to stop now!

2006-12-24 13:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by thoughtfuljon 1 in Singles & Dating

He gives me attitude and is starting to make me feel like I'm fourth or fifth in his life. It's so hard for me to move on because I love him so much but something has got to give, what should I do?

2006-12-24 13:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate sounding selfish when I ask this question.. but I think now is the time where I'm entitled to be fed up with my family. To start, I just had major surgery this Wednesday (which my family knew about), and will be recovering for the next week. This surgery had been planned for the past 3 months and was a pretty critical surgery. My father, takes off to Canada with his girlfriend and her daughter on Friday and gets mad at me for not being able to go with them. My mother, books a vacation (3 weeks ago) with her boyfriend to spend a week in the Bahamas (she left on Thursday). My sister is on the other side of the country doing her own thing and would never have any interest to come over and help her big sis. Now I've always put my family first. I have a job that requires a lot of overseas work and I always will come home at the drop of a pin if my family asks me. Am I wrong for feeling like they crossed the line on this one? I'm spending x-mas with my dogs, in pain, and barely mobile

2006-12-24 12:58:08 · 15 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Family

My bf and I were on and off 3 times during our one-year-long relationship(we are long distance).I made big mistakes by chasing him back and making things easy for him every time. I thought i was being considerate but he was losing respect for me although i have lots of admirers and he's not a ladys' man.I think the main reason i love him so much is b/c he is my 1st bf;i wanna work it out. 2 weeks ago we broke up again. It's his finals week,he's under a lot of stress and i called too much. i got mad when he didnt pick it up and didnt return the call and when i confronted him with it he got even more stressful(since he's not been doing very well in college).Before the final, he's all that he loves me so much and all of a sudden he's like i cant see a future with you and i want out before it has the potential of lingering around forever(i'm also his 1st gf).This time i'm definitely not gonna beg or call him or chat online first,i wonder if he'll ever come back to me after say 2 months?

2006-12-24 12:57:10 · 13 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 12:56:38 · 13 answers · asked by that guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you also pretending to be doing something of "importance"???

2006-12-24 12:56:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-24 12:56:05 · 15 answers · asked by steve E 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever i see any of my friends drunk i dont know why i feel angry i dont drink never even tried b4 even but i dont wanna drinnk
it is just when i see any of my friends drunk i hate seeing them in that conditions tell me ppl wat do u think of this

2006-12-24 12:55:59 · 17 answers · asked by menz 2 in Friends