He gives me attitude and is starting to make me feel like I'm fourth or fifth in his life. It's so hard for me to move on because I love him so much but something has got to give, what should I do?
2006-12-24 13:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No ididn't come in 4th or 5th always #1 but since alot of arguing has happened it's just not the same.
2006-12-24 13:09:38 · update #1
Sounds like he just wants to keep you hanging around just in case he changes his mind. Don't let him play games with your heart. Move on you will find someone that will put you first in their life. The pain will go away and you will wonder why you ever shed the first tear over that jerk.
2006-12-24 13:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about how you are feeling. If he's not digging you then you need to accept that it's over and move on. It sounds like it would be hard, but things happen in life for a reason and that someone that is meant for you WILL come along.
2006-12-24 13:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Meagan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is true, if someone stops liking you, you most certainly would stop liking them. This may be no consolation but relationships are all two-way. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as the best and greatest person you know. Go deep inside yourself and find that inner strength that helps you to know how great and wonderful you are. You don't need another to validate you. So if somebody doesn't recognize your greatness, they aren't worth spending time with. If he doesn't realize what he is losing, that's his issue. You can't control others but you can control how you feel. So feel good about yourself, because you are really great. Him, he's a bum.
2006-12-24 13:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SUSPECT YOUR FEELING REALLY UNAPPRECIATED, IF SO THEN IT MAYBE INSECURITY OR HE IS JUST NOT LOVING YOU ANYMORE OR HE IS JUST BUSY LATELY. YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM AND IF HE TREAT YOU WRONGLY AND STILL DOES A LACK OF CARING THEN THAT MEAN YOU SHOULD TAKE IT STEP-BY-STEP AND OVER TIME FIND SOMEONE NEW. YES YOU LOVE HIM, BUT IF HE REALLY CARES HE WILL SHOW THAT HE LOVES YOU BACK.IT IS OK LIFE HAS BUMPS IN THE ROAD AND SOMETIMES IT REALLY HURTS BUT U SHOULD KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT LOVE YOU TOO AND ARE JUST WAITING TO HAVE YOU. (THINK ABOUT IT)
2006-12-24 13:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your time on him. May be he do not have the same feeling as you. Talk to him and see what is wrong.
May be he is not for you. May be you may have someone better.
2006-12-24 13:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by boricua1970maileen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay in a place where you are not wanted. Find someone new
2006-12-24 13:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by naya w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it, if it doesnt resolve then you should move on life is too short
2006-12-24 13:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are 4th or fith.........if you came in like that and accepted it before.why ***** about it now..........keep it real and either tell him to get steppin or suck it up and deal with it.
2006-12-24 13:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋