My bf and I were on and off 3 times during our one-year-long relationship(we are long distance).I made big mistakes by chasing him back and making things easy for him every time. I thought i was being considerate but he was losing respect for me although i have lots of admirers and he's not a ladys' man.I think the main reason i love him so much is b/c he is my 1st bf;i wanna work it out. 2 weeks ago we broke up again. It's his finals week,he's under a lot of stress and i called too much. i got mad when he didnt pick it up and didnt return the call and when i confronted him with it he got even more stressful(since he's not been doing very well in college).Before the final, he's all that he loves me so much and all of a sudden he's like i cant see a future with you and i want out before it has the potential of lingering around forever(i'm also his 1st gf).This time i'm definitely not gonna beg or call him or chat online first,i wonder if he'll ever come back to me after say 2 months?
2006-12-24 12:57:10 · 13 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to move on. You are not compatable - just familiar with each other - so that makes it easier to get back together.
The fact that you are each other's firsts makes it harder for you both to have confidence to look for someone else. But you are wasting each others time - each of you hoping the other will become who you want them to be.
2006-12-24 13:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll definatly come back, but you have to be strong, this is the las time, you cant be that one that will always give in to him, he's an ***, and hes taking advantage of you, let him go, get over him, theres millions of guys out there, it will be easier for you to find another guy. you have to get over him, and the only way to do that is TIME. give it time and you'll get everthing you deserve. if you let him come back than you might miss that one guy that will treat you like the queen you really are. Time. good luck
2006-12-24 13:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through a similar situation. You can't stay in the past especially if someone isn't going to treat you with the respect that you deserve. Please try and get stronger and move on. Even if it takes a while make the attempt. Either he loves you and wants to be with you or not. (I should take my own advice) Good luck.
2006-12-24 13:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by krispykreme335 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone hun, you're pushing him. If he dosen't phone you for like a month or two, then phone him (if you still feel the same and don't have a new guy) and tell him how you feel. Just give it a rest and if he's that into you, he'll give you a call because he'll realize he took you for granted.
2006-12-24 13:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been involve in a long distance relationship know for 3 years
we have our up and down but it depend on how mature you both are and how much love you have for each other.and the way it sound either are you not very much mature to handle a long distance relationship so i would let it go and find your self a boy friend locally
2006-12-24 13:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young which means you have your whole life and lots of wonderful men to date. Why do you want to be with someone who treats you so badly? There is more fish in the sea girl....just cast a line!!!
2006-12-24 13:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goood u should never do that just leave him alone u have other admirers just turn to one of them for a while so u can forget him !
2006-12-24 13:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a new guy...or, better yet, try being single for a while1
2006-12-24 13:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mari N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your self? Forget him look for someone better
2006-12-24 13:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by boricua1970maileen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i cannot stress this enuff. move on, experience different guys
2006-12-24 13:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋