I didnt cheat on her-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-..........?

Question

Alright so I tried to add abunch on the title to get peoples attention because "Singles/Dating" is usually pretty crowded on here lol.

So Ive been w/ this chick for 6 months, and I guess over the past month abunch of people have told her that I cheated on her over the summer w/ my ex girlfriend. (I didnt). But she doesnt beleive me about it and is getting all "emotional" w/ me. I know that I would do the same thing she is, I wouldnt take her word over 20 other people all saying the same thing; but it still pisses me off that she doesnt beleive me and I didnt do anything. What can I say to her now to either to get her over it, or to convince her I didnt do anything?

Answer 1

There is an old saying in romance; "Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear." Tell her you didn't betray her. If she chooses not to believe you, then move on, and tell her that's why you're doing so. It won't do either of you any good. If she thinks you cheated on her, then she should have some self respect and move on or forgive. If she doesn't trust you... just move on, nothing for you to forgive. Wish her well, and, you may as well see if the ex is available.

Answer 2

Bring her out for a nice dinner and wine, and when you both are relaxed, hold her hands, look into her eyes and said that you love her so much and you didnt cheat on her at all, and you never will. Tell her that its probably difficult to believe since 20 ppl said that, but she has to learn to trust you.
Anyway, 20 ppl told her that u are cheating r quite a lot of people..Did you get too close w ur ex gf for some reason? if its so, back off. Its over 4 a reason, thats y u break up w her. And any people that you know spreading dirty gossipabout you, you should talk to them as well.

Answer 3

So why r all these other people telling her u cheated on her? Either u did or u didn't, but there's a lot of people who think u did, & she needs to know why! Will ur x tell her u didn't do anything? If she won't, u just pissed all over urself, & now u're all wet! What did u do or say to all these people to make them think u cheated? U had to have done something! The didn't say this on their own. The only thing I can think of, is u're going to have to tell her what u said or did to make all these people believe u cheated. That doesn't mean she'll forgive u or even believe u, but it's worth a try. Good Luck, u're going to need it!

Answer 4

Dude don't waste your time on a girl like that becuase if she really liked u she would beleive u and not other stupid people so just forget here hope I helped.

Answer 5

its just emotional ammo man. if she believed these people shed be an x girlfriend shes playing you to make you soft.AN example of what i mean is next time you want to do something with the guys she will throw this up in your face,if your late home,or don't call etc.. cut your looses man!

Answer 6

im not sure if theres a lot that you can do to make her beleive you but if shes constantly accusing u maybe u could say look, i didnt cheat on you i love you, not her. tell her that its bothering you and its going to end up ruining your relaitonship if she keeps harping on it. who knows good luck

Answer 7

Just keep telling her you didn't do it or better yet tell your ex to call her and tell her it didn't happen.I like to no why would 20 other people tell her you did .

Answer 8

Tell her the truth.

Whatever that is. The rest is not up to you.

If it doesn't work, then find another girl.

Make your word have the value it actually has...

Answer 9

If she doesn't believe you it sounds like that she has issues that you may want to consider before you get to serious....good luck

Answer 10

Stay calm and ask her if she still wants to continue with you or not