Is it wrong to divorce your spouse if they become fat and unattractive too early in life?

Question

I dont think it is wrong. I would be pissed if my wife got fat after we got married.

Answer 1

I bet if the tables would be turned you would expect her to stay with you_

Answer 2

if a pair who has been at the same time for a at the same time as start to get fat and then there's a divorce, i'm constructive that the divorce isn't out of result to getting heavier. There could be different concerns in touch including loss of money, too lots rigidity with residing house, the paintings load between residing house care and widespread paintings isn't being shared the two and so on. the main important motives of divorce are because of the fact of money and babies and so on. And the main important reason for weight benefit is (enable's settle for it) getting previous and the metabolism turning out to be slower and of direction rigidity which motives one to over consume. So there is the domino result going on here wherein one ingredient motives yet another. Divorce is what happens while various those aspects come at the same time and there is not extra stability and staying power.

Answer 3

Well you'd better not make her pregnant, alot of woman gain not only baby weight but their bodies can change. If a man loves a woman he embraces that change for she is the one who carried his beloved child and brought it into the world. I think if your lovers weight is an issue then you should set her free, she deserves to be loved by someone for her soul, her spirit, her mind and her heart. you take energy worrying about her weight, i ask you this then.... if she was in a near fatel accident and was badly hurt and scarred for life, maybe even without the use of her limbs or worse lost all mobility, would you be so concerned about her fat ****? or would you be weak and dump her then too because physically she was not the woman you married? you need to look into your own soul and try to discover the person you really are. I'm sure you will be beautiful.

Answer 4

The question should be, "who did you marry?" If you married a "body", what's going to happen when the body gets old? If you married a person, what conditions did you put into the pre-nuptial agreement? Was the spouse to maintain body weight within 10% of marriage weight? What about habits. What if she takes up bingo, he takes up golf, she likes afternoon soaps, he likes soft-porn? People change and we can't control how they change. But we can sit down and have a serious talk with our partners and tell them what's bothering us and offer to help. If the love is still there, the help is definitely worth giving.

Answer 5

To you, it may not seem wrong, but morally, it is to most people. For one, your wife would be crushed, because you seem like the kind of person that would be "disgusted" if you were with a person that is slighty heavier. Secondly, it is really shallow and your actions will be frowned upon later in life, and good luck getting another girlfriend when you leave the impression that she constantly has to live up to your high standards.

And by the way, you answered your own question. Thats really funny for us and really patheric for you. :D bye! :D:D:D Have a good life!

Answer 6

Would you like your wife to divorce you because you got fat and ugly after you got married? I think there are more important things in life than being worried about divorcing your wife because she is not "a princess" anymore. I mean, it's true that women (and men too!) have to take good care of themselves to be attractive to their partners, but sometimes, specially women, people tend to gain weight after getting married. Why? Sometimes is because of the birth control pills, sometimes is because of a pregnancy, and sometimes is because of depression. I would be depressed too if my husband was a materialistic guy who is unnable to see my inner beauty.

Answer 7

If you have kids, her body is going to change. There is no way around that.

I guess it's not wrong if you married her in the first place because of her looks. Mind you, you might get dumped first for getting fat, bald, or old.

Answer 8

Getting fat and unattractive is something we all go through in life including YOU,may be you may get fat and unattractive too,REMEMBER being fat and unattractive cad be easily fixed,with a little effort.

Answer 9

If your that shallow and simple minded then I hope she smartens up and realizes what a jerk she is married too. Did you take a marriage vow in front of your family and God to only love her as long as she was a size 6? You don't have a clue what true love is and she is way to good a women to deserve a man like you.

Answer 10

I always thought the Saying went:
For Better or For Worse.

Think about the love -vs- the other in which you mentioned

Hummmmm..

Take care and Happy Holidays

Answer 11

Hello, Sean. The reality is that physical attraction is a major, essential and perhaps the most important component of the relationship. Sacrificing that need and staying with someone you don't find attractive will make neither you nor your partner happy.
Thus, unless you encourage a woman to get back into shape and she does, leaving her is the only valid choice you have. You have the right to be happy and so does she. She will not be happy with a man who is not happy to be with her.
So, don't let anybody make you feel guilty about doing this. Attraction is crucial, and whoever challenges that is lying to others and himself.

Thanks,

Arkady Itkin
Author of best-selling audio programs on approaching, meeting, and dating women at www.practicalhappiness.com