Hi! I'm Jessica's lil' sis'. I'm 16. There are two HOT guys that LOVE me. One, I only get to see once a year. His name is David, but lately all his e-mails say is...um ok.... There is this other guy. His name is Jon, but he is really gross and everybody will hate me and think I'm gross if I go out with him. Both have asked me out, but I just don't know! David is nicer, but Jon I see more and he has given me stuff and flirts all the time. I don't want to pick the wrong guy. I really love David, but I don't know about Jon. David I can easily talk to and Jon, I'm almost scared of what dumb thing I might do around him. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
2006-12-24 13:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not really hard to see what you should do now it's in writing
"everyone will hate me and think I'm gross if I go out with him." "Jon, I'm almost scared of what bumb thing I might do around him"
"Dave is nicer" "I really love Dave" "Dave I can easily talk to"
you say jon is a bit of a flirter but I would say you have writen that you prefer Dave
2006-12-24 13:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dan Ln 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what u should do is go out with David..not Jon..Jon isn't ready for a relationship that much...and neither is David but as you wrote he is more easily to talk to and nicer than u should go out with him. If u think neither is right for u say no.It doesn't matters what is in the outside,what it really matters is the inside part.
2006-12-24 13:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i havent seen my gf in 6 months, but let me tell you, nothing pays to be with the person you really love. If ur looking for "fun" go after the jon kid, but if your more into long term i would either consider the distant relation with david or try to forget him and find someone u really like thats nice and lives close to you. dont rush, u have time, u wont loose anyone if they are really interested, i was after a girl for4 years. good luck!
2006-12-24 13:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by J. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jon! If you only see a guy once a year, I don't think it's gonna work out.....especially at 16. You're too young for that kind of drama. I should know, I'm older than that. I'm 17! lol
2006-12-24 13:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go w/ the david dude-u dont wanna ruin ur reputation w/ goin out w/ the wrong guy!!! the jon 1 sounds gross!!!
2006-12-24 13:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with david because u like him more. if u can put alot of effort into the realtionship then u two will have a great time together. good luck and have a happy christmas and happy holidays.
2006-12-24 13:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's get it in perspetive... You are 16 - not getting married. Go out with both and let them both know they are special friends and you will have many more.
Group date is best for this sort of thing... Find a second for a double date.
I think at 16 dating is confusing... dating is the way a person gets to know someone... No rings exchange...
2006-12-24 13:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by stanmanin92 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you will one day be lucky to see david more often but i'm 16 why not date me?? but if are not upto jon you don't have to date him
2006-12-24 13:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think u should go wit david..
2006-12-24 13:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, and chose the one you care bout more......but if i was you i would chose David
2006-12-24 13:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋