Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again

2006-12-23 09:50:41 · 11 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

She accused me of losing myself, saying that I've become a character of the book I'm writing. Because of some expierences in my past (and she knows it) denying me of who I am, has been one of the worst things people can do to me. It completely tears me apart. Then she started telling me that I'm crazy and all that bullcrap. We've made our mends, and stuff, but it is still hurting me. I am finding myself unable to forgive her because she hurt me so much. How can I forgive her? (Yes I want to still be friends with her.)

2006-12-23 09:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by who_is_audrey 2 in Friends

We have been together for nearly 5 years, unmarried, no kids, we're 24, and were virgins when we met.

He recently cheated on me in a one night stand and confessed all by himself three weeks later-there was no way I'd have known or found out otherwise.I told him I would forgive and forget until I found out that he had her number and she slept over in his apartment twice (he said nothing happened either time tho).When I caught him lying about calling her and getting texts from her I dumped him by text.

When we met up 2 or 3 days after that he wanted to get back together but I asked if he was curious about other people and he said yes so I said we should take a break and see other people over Xmas.

He slept with someone else this thursday, and he said it was awkward and boring,he says loves me and can't wait to see me in the new year.

Any advice?

Is this something he can just get out of his system?

2006-12-23 09:47:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earlier i asked my friend to a dance over VMK. He never answered. So my friend asked for me and he said he wasn't allowed to go. Then she asked for me what his answer would be if he could go. He still never answered. About a week after that, I talked to him again on VMK. I asked what his answer was to the last question. He said he was going to say yes but "Sally" walked away. How do I find out if he wanted to go just as friends or more without asking?

2006-12-23 09:45:58 · 2 answers · asked by LizziFishie 3 in Singles & Dating

I guy and I used to like each other and then stopped. Then all of a sudden I like him again but he likes some other girl apparetly, but I still feel that he likes me... what should I do?

2006-12-23 09:44:25 · 10 answers · asked by kuh-lette m 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it feel like?

2006-12-23 09:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by Trin 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like those popular kids who are smart rich and always get he boys i kinda do i some times wish i wasn't rich promise me!

2006-12-23 09:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by ♥MONEY IS ALL MINE♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend thinks that I don't like her anymore because I never have anything to say to her. I don't know what to talk about, but if I don't talk to her she will think I don't like her. I love her very much and I want her to love me and be more intimate with me, but she thinks that I'm only with her to have sex with her. I would talk to her, but I don't know what to say to let her know that I really love her. I don't want her to think I don't love her. I need her to know that I love her.

2006-12-23 09:41:19 · 10 answers · asked by Butch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 09:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

becuase i;m still under 16 I don't have any money to buy my perents christmas presents becuase they give me money for everthing do you think they will like cards and a clean room?

2006-12-23 09:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are friends for about 7 years now. We go out a lot but he always deny having a relationship and now he is telling me he is engage and to be married a month from now. I guess he knew about my feelings for him thou we never really discussed about it. Do you think I should go to the wedding and see him exchanging bows with another, the thing that I hope and pray to be me?

2006-12-23 09:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by sasy_kibuta 2 in Friends

im me crz_dh

2006-12-23 09:37:41 · 2 answers · asked by silent ruler 2 in Friends

My boyfriend of five years and I are having our first baby together. I'm now 20 weeks and seem to get no help with anything, I go to school full time, work on the weekends and raise my six year old with no help hardly from him. I have tried everything to get him to help but he always finds something else to do. I feel like a single parent and am one basiclly. I have thought seriously about leaving but I than I think he'll be get it so to say whe the baby comes. What are your thoughts?

2006-12-23 09:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by babyboyz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just want to hear fun stories from other people and would greatly appreciate it. Best answer will get 10 points

2006-12-23 09:37:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 09:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He can play for hrs, i don't get it.

2006-12-23 09:34:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, I REALLY like this guy. But he's 14 and i'm 12. Don't anyone say i'm to young, i get that A LOT on this thing. Anyways, we slow danced twice at this dance and he was really interested in me. But now people are all saying that I like him and I'm afraid to scare him away, he's shy enough as it is (so am I). So now after the dance he doesn't seem to be paying that much attention to me. I'm afraid he doesn't like me anymore, because he thinks i was telling everyone. Is he backing out because he feels weird about my age or he thinks I'm weird or something?

2006-12-23 09:33:53 · 6 answers · asked by Allura P 1 in Singles & Dating

if your best friend wont hang out with you because you made-out with her boyfriend and she never tals to you what do you do

2006-12-23 09:32:34 · 8 answers · asked by angel a 1 in Friends

Why are girls so mean to me? I loved her so much and now shes gone. I loved her dog a whole bunch too. it was a three year relationship with lots of happy memories. I'm so upset i don't want to celebrate christmas at all. I don't want to leave my room.

2006-12-23 09:32:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my class that has alot of friends that happen to be girls. i also heard he has a girlfriend already that goes to a diffrent school. he's also in 11th grade and i'm in 9th. just he really likes me and calls me "cute girl".... isn't that just a little weird?

2006-12-23 09:31:41 · 10 answers · asked by Flame 1 in Singles & Dating

I KNOW my husband is cheating. but he covers his tracks well. how can i 'view' old deleted im's emails etc any PROOF that i can save in case of a divorce hearing. i'm so sick of it. he's playing 'innocent' but i know he's not. PLEASE HELP ASAP!

2006-12-23 09:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by who cares! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

on a date and you go for coffee, she offers you a sip of hers, hardly knowing you, and then she asks if you want to go out for some drinks at a restaurant and going inside, she tells you she wants you to know that she;'s not wearing socks under her boots and that she usually doesn't need to in the winter because the fur keeps them warm? Then she plays with her boot while she's talking to you and stretches her arm out in front of you with her palms facing outward?

Im seeing her again. Is she interested?

2006-12-23 09:29:49 · 16 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Singles & Dating

its too cold to go out.i have my friends out here.but,sometimes,when i dont want to go anywhere,i still would like someone to talk to.

2006-12-23 09:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Friends

My mother and sister in-law are 2 manipulative women. I'm the husband. We live 5 miles from their house, the sister in-law is 32, working here and there, and the mother is also working, as well as the father in-law... First problem I have with them is that them keep calling, all day long, whether my wife's at work or not, they don't care, in average about 10 times per day. Anyway, that isn't the main problem... Although the 3 of them work, which means 3 different incomes, they are always asking for money, but behind my back, and my wife being TOOOO good, almost always accepts to give them them some. They've got 1 car, and although they could get another one, they don't because they call my wife, again behind my back, to give them ride, here and there, and that could be between 7 to 10 times per week, and i'm frankly tired of it. For example, this morning, the sister called to tell her, not ask her, to bring her purse at work because she had forgotten it. So much to say. Need help pls !

2006-12-23 09:28:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please help me cause i no that i love another boy but i no that this boy i am datin cares for me and i just need advice............etc

2006-12-23 09:27:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do women prefer when a guy talks to them. Would they like to hear the truth about ones life. Or a make believe story.? I am starting over for the second time after losing everything. I met a girl and told her that I have nothing, my house was taken, cars, everything. Is this a good thing to tell a girl. Or should I have pretended that I still have all these material goods and hope she does not find out that I have nothing. Which will you ladies have most repect for. The truth or the story.?

Honest answers please. Thank you.

2006-12-23 09:26:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is an alcoholic i wouldnt ask for anything else but for him to quit, that would be my best gift for a life time. Please tell me what helps? I know that prayer is good, do yuo think that the Lord Jesus Christ can change him for good? I want to be able to know that he is capable of staying home alone when hes on vacation and I have to work and not worry about him being messed up when I come home, its terrible guys please help it would be the best gift ever, thats all i ask for. God Bless!!!

2006-12-23 09:26:23 · 24 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why did you keep it a secret? Did you love this person but feared society would not accept the relationship? Do you regret breaking up? Or was it just fine with you as a secret and fun while it lasted? Looking back now if you found yourself in the same situation would you go public about dating some one outside your Race?

2006-12-23 09:26:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you say I wanna a divorce he acts all crazy and dont wanna be divorced what is up if you can cheat on your wife y cant u divorce your wife?

been living together 8 years married for 1

2006-12-23 09:25:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how am i supposed to tell him to do it and he wont do it?? today i asked him this morning to take out the trash and he did nt do it. then i asked him to do it again in the afternnoon and he still didnt do it, so i asked him for the 3rd time and he still didint do it again. and then i kept asking him and he said that hell do it in a minute . uuuuggghhh its getting to be nervewraking!! i cant get him to do anything when it needs to be done . and everytime i ask him to do something he says hell do it in a minute and it turns into later!!! how can i change this?? what do i do??

2006-12-23 09:25:01 · 15 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2 in Singles & Dating