Why are girls so mean to me? I loved her so much and now shes gone. I loved her dog a whole bunch too. it was a three year relationship with lots of happy memories. I'm so upset i don't want to celebrate christmas at all. I don't want to leave my room.
2006-12-23 09:32:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she said she wasnt happy anymore. I don't know what I could do different. I never ever cheat, i love her whole family, and thought everything was great. but apperantly she wasnt' happy..
2006-12-23 09:35:26 · update #1
Get back at the bÏtches, find a girl to fall in love with you, and dump her before Christmas next year. do this for the rest of your life. cause it will never be the same for you. you will be Fù©ked the rest of your life, so go for it...
2006-12-23 09:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude some girls are just like that. I had a girl leave me after a 5 yr relationship the day after spring break . Broke it off over the phone too, when I was there a whole week to do it face-to-face
sorry for the heartache all I can say is that it gets easier as time passes
2006-12-23 09:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't show you love her dog more than her! lol jk. Confront her and ask her why she broke up. Tell her that you wish to get back together, don't forget to say the three magical words. If you don't know what i mean, they are "I love you" and if you want throw in a "very much". Tell her that you were upset when you parted and that you spend all night thinking about her. Trust me, if that doesn't get to her, nothing will! You seem like a really great guy for caring about her that much! Good luck ; )
2006-12-23 09:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by LizziFishie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry. people tend 2 b drawen towards similar people(as 4 relationships)...maybe u should realize this and try looking at what traits all these girls who keep hurting u have and make sure ur next girlfriend doesn't have these traits...u know...that is really harsh. obviously something happened or she is just a really cruel person to leave you then. i really don't know how to make u feel better mahn...but...the sooner u find someone else, the sooner u can hopefully start to move on...and no, it is not wrong to hold a relationship while still moving on from someone else -- but u just have to make sure that the new girl...u r interested in her.
sorry
:S
if u put ur chin up and shoulders back and relaxed...psychologically u start to feel better...so maybe practice this?
try talking to a good friend about this too
sorry again mahn
:S
2006-12-23 09:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have been there before. I am sorry to hear about this, such a bad time. But I know people will tell you it gets better and it really does. Someone who could be so mean as to break up with you before Christmas isn't someone I would want to be with. I know it is rough right now but I am sure you will find someone else - someone a lot nicer. Celebrate with people you know who love you - that will mean more and having support helps too!
2006-12-23 09:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that girls are mean. People change and evolve. One thing I can tell you about women, they do not like a quitter. So if you love and care about her let her know without stalking or pressuring her. And if that does not work let her know that you will always be there for her no matter what. Having a friendship with someone you love is better than them not even wanting to hear your voice. Then as time goes on maybe she will realize her mistake and come running and begging you. First step don't ruin Christmas suck it up and be a man.
2006-12-23 09:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by angelsloveromance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why 'girls' are so mean to you. Anyway, you said you were with this one girl for three years and all was well!
Well, you must have had your head in the clouds or you were happy with a 'problem' relationship. Take a look at why you were happy and she wasnt. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-23 09:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad man, it happened to me 3 days ago, so i know how you feel, but you have to understand that if she broke up with you, then shes not the one you're looking for. i know it's hard to accept but when you accept that she's not coming back you'll feel a whole lot better, trust me. Untill you accept it it's just gonna hurt you. I'm pretty experienced at this so i hope that my advice helps, merry christmas if you decide to come out of your room.
2006-12-23 09:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Corinthius99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to forget her man, there are billions of girls in the sea, even some ten times better than her, who knows by this time next year you could have a gf who is better than her! I wish you all the best, and hope you enjoy your christmas!
2006-12-23 09:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are really mean, I would just try and be friends with her for now if I were you but if she acts mean towards you, then probably don't talk to her.
Usually girls like to play with their boys emotions, I had a few girls that did the same damn thing to me.
I would never trust them after that.
Good luck and I hope things go well for you.
Girls also sometimes do this for attention.
If you got attached to her dog but couldn't see it anymore, then maybe get yourself a pet of your own.
2006-12-23 09:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by jarardo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋