Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

I am thinking of getting a divorce, but their are a few problems with it...
1.) We would have to move, the house is too big for just me to take care of
2.) Both of my children love their father, I'm afraid he might get custody of them... I have no idea what I'd do with myself then
3.) My kids would probably take it really hard...
I have no idea what to do!

2006-12-23 10:05:58 · 42 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for some reaosn i get late night ophone calls like around 4 and 5 in the morning somtims even in the day and on the caller ID it says BLOCKED CALL but i NEVER blocked any calls and i pick up the phone and i say hell and then you cna hear them hang up the phone.. so like what the hell is this??

2006-12-23 10:05:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex bf was the one who dumped me, so I was really shocked when he told me that he wants to see me and "meet up". He called me, and planned the whole thing (a movie). I assumed there would be coffee afterwards since after one year I thought he wanted to really talk & catch up. He picked up, but he never opened any doors for me, he walked ahead of me, & after the movie he just drove me home. He never walked me to my door & just said "merry Christmas". He never tried to even hug me so I just shook his hand & said bye. I felt like trash after the date, he treated me bad, like s**t. He would open doors & walk me to my door when we were going out, but I thought he would be a gentlemen again cuz of all the effort he put in to set up this date, by calling & picking me up. I thought after the movie, we would have coffee and that he would say either 1) I want u back, or 2) I wanna be friends. I thought #2 is what he would say. Neither of this happened. WHY did he do that & treat me like that?

2006-12-23 10:04:58 · 29 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this guy friend who has a girlfriend who's pregnant he has given her 3 engagement rings but has not yet popped the question but they're having a baby and they planned to have one but he said he thought if they had kids he would be able to marry her but he still cant why is this it seems so weird

2006-12-23 10:04:49 · 15 answers · asked by brielen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah..... I had a girlfriend..... yesterday I dumped her, and today I missed her, and I asked her 2 come out, and we talked.. bla bla bla..... and..... what can I do? should I ask her 2 be toghether again and I will risk to have a broken heart, or should I let her go......... (she loves me) (I don`t realy know if I love her) :))

2006-12-23 10:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by Apollo 4 in Singles & Dating

Something really harsh and mean about a teacher. Well I wasn't the one who said the harsh thing first, it was her!!!!!!!! So I almost got suspended and she got rewarded! But, now she has no friends because I was her only friend! Lucky me I am popular! Oh why would she report me? Will she ever change?

2006-12-23 10:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Pink Floyd♥™ 2 in Friends

A "friend" is telling others that I have been sleeping around (having affairs because I am married)

2006-12-23 10:02:34 · 19 answers · asked by sweetie 3 in Friends

This guy is about 15 years older than me, i talk to him, he smiles at me and say hi to me whenever he sees me, we make eye contact as well. Once when i was about to go home, like 5 o'clock or something when its really dark and cold outside. before i went out he goes to me, put your coat on and then he watches me putting my coat on. Also, he messes around with me quite a lot. i sort of backed off a little, didnt talk to him and didnt see him for 3 weeks. but when he saw me, he goes to me why didnt i go to his club and he asked me to go that week.Yesterday, i was walking down the stairs reading a book, because i was concentrating on my book so i walked slowly, he came from behind whithout making a noise and sort of grabed me and said hey. i dont know why he did that but i got scared and he keeps on smiling at me, then went to the door and holding the door for me. he probably knows that i like him but i dont know whats in his mind. does he like me? whats his intention? what should i do?

2006-12-23 10:01:22 · 15 answers · asked by html 1 in Singles & Dating

looking woman who cheats and has a terrible personality or a good woman with average looks

2006-12-23 10:00:27 · 27 answers · asked by JadeNicole 2 in Singles & Dating

i was on toms email accout to print something when i saw a email from an old gf.she sent it 1 day ago and tom did not see it yet and does not know i read it then deleted it.this is what it said tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if u did give me the cold shoulder.your girls are so big!mary.tom never told me he ran into her and shes not just any old gf.they have a long history and he left his 1st wife for her 5yrs ago.it sounds like he just ran into her at the store or something with his girls.my questions are what do you guys make of her email?why would she make a comment about him giving her a cold shoulder?what was she expecting?does it sound like she is after him again?i know your thinking well he gave her the cold shoulder why worry.i can't help and wonder if he gave her the cold shoulder only becuase the girls were with him and he wanted to get out of there before anything was said. they are old enough to repeat what they hear and turn him in to me or their mom.

2006-12-23 09:59:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I' m at the library love ya!!!

2006-12-23 09:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because he said she was not a virgin and he could not marry a woman who wasn't a virgin.Now here is the deal she was a virgin until she slept with her fiance and has never been with anybody else but him.He called off the wedding and everything because she slept with him.HOW DO I MAKE HER SEE THAT HE IS A JERK? She thinks she is a horrible person. They dated an year before they got engaged and that was two months ago and they slept together month ago.DOES ANYBODY ELSE THINK THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE GOING ON WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND IS JUST COVERING UP?HOW DO I HELP MY FRIEND SHE IS SO HURT AND SAD? ANY HELP PLEASE! THANK YOU! PLEASE DON'T BOTHER WITH THE NASTY & MEAN ANSWERS!

2006-12-23 09:59:29 · 3 answers · asked by lisababyg ♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 09:59:19 · 16 answers · asked by Blue 2 in Singles & Dating

i was on toms email accout to print something when i saw a email from an old gf.she sent it 1 day ago and tom did not see it yet and does not know i read it then deleted it.this is what it said tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if u did give me the cold shoulder.your girls are so big!mary.tom never told me he ran into her and shes not just any old gf.they have a long history and he left his 1st wife for her 5yrs ago.it sounds like he just ran into her at the store or something with his girls.my questions are what do you guys make of her email?why would she make a comment about him giving her a cold shoulder?what was she expecting?does it sound like she is after him again?i know your thinking well he gave her the cold shoulder why worry.i can't help and wonder if he gave her the cold shoulder only becuase the girls were with him and he wanted to get out of there before anything was said. they are old enough to repeat what they hear and turn him in to me or their mom.

2006-12-23 09:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you cope with the loss of a loved one around Christmas time? My grandpa passed away on the 21st and was buried this morning, Christmas is suppose to be a cheery holiday where it's all bright and joyful, but how can you be like that when your heart is broken and theres a hole there missing? Is it even possible?

2006-12-23 09:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-23 09:58:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When they ask, I tell them the truth about when I would smoke weed. If it's a girl I really like, I sometimes lie. How differently would they think of me?

2006-12-23 09:57:59 · 40 answers · asked by xxbenchxxmarksxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont say save up cant got bills to pay and things I need and grocerys to buy so how can someone get a thousand dollars by next wk.

2006-12-23 09:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by hclover21 3 in Singles & Dating

I really don't like myself. I think that I am ugly. Alot of people tell me otherwise, but I think it's just because they are my friends. You all being strangers, I think, would give the best opinion, because you do not know me. So, at first glance, what do you think?

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2006-12-23 09:57:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love christina and i really want her to love me as well but i really have no idea how to do that i really need help..

2006-12-23 09:56:39 · 4 answers · asked by archfienddenis 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend gave me a Chritmas present and then he got sick. So I was going to call him and didn't have time to say I was sorry that he got sick and thanks for the present. So should I feel gulity??

2006-12-23 09:56:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to propose to a girl that you have been with for 3 years and you love very much?

2006-12-23 09:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Butch 1 in Weddings

2006-12-23 09:55:16 · 22 answers · asked by aedge09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 09:54:34 · 15 answers · asked by TheInsider 2 in Singles & Dating

what is love and what does it truly take?

2006-12-23 09:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by angel miaka 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 09:53:14 · 6 answers · asked by Shawnathan 2 in Singles & Dating

hello i'm 13 anyone wanna chat then email me but only between the age of the question.

luv ya
pinky xxxx

2006-12-23 09:53:06 · 2 answers · asked by danni 3 in Friends

I am in highschool.

2006-12-23 09:52:40 · 1 answers · asked by Little Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 09:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by edd 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 8 years and i want to know! because i might get a divorse!

2006-12-23 09:51:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce