Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

Why did you keep it a secret? Did you love this person but feared society would not accept the relationship? Do you regret breaking up? Or was it just fine with you as a secret and fun while it lasted? Looking back now if you found yourself in the same situation would you go public about dating some one outside your Race?

2006-12-23 09:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got the forms from my county building for my sons last name to be changed to my married name , but his biological dad will not sign. What can be done?

2006-12-23 09:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by kmm_mdm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Describe in as much detail as you can, preferably with reference to your own experience...

2006-12-23 09:23:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have best friend i have no clue what 2 get her and need help
i would like 2 get her something nice

2006-12-23 09:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by Tinkerbell101 1 in Friends

2006-12-23 09:22:07 · 5 answers · asked by Hisham 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf was the one who dumped me, so I was really shocked when he told me that he wants to see me and "meet up". He called me, and planned the whole thing (a movie). I assumed there would be coffee afterwards since after one year I thought he wanted to really talk & catch up. He picked up, but he never opened any doors for me, he walked ahead of me, & after the movie he just drove me home. He never walked me to my door & just said "merry Christmas". He never tried to even hug me so I just shook his hand & said bye. I felt like trash after the date, he treated me bad, like s**t. He would open doors & walk me to my door when we were going out, but I thought he would be a gentlemen again cuz of all the effort he put in to set up this date, by calling & picking me up. I thought after the movie, we would have coffee and that he would say either 1) I want u back, or 2) I wanna be friends. I thought #2 is what he would say. Neither of this happened. WHY did he do that & treat me like that?

2006-12-23 09:21:04 · 15 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

she has an older sister who will be a bridesmaid.do you think it strange we have been friends since kindergarten

2006-12-23 09:20:56 · 25 answers · asked by ginger 1 in Weddings

2006-12-23 09:20:31 · 5 answers · asked by Gemini Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

What are the different s e x positions?Do both the older and younger people chose the same?Rarely or often?

2006-12-23 09:18:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone hates my bestfriend exept me. Should I still be her friend. She has done a lot of mean things to everyone, And they all say i am next. If I dont want to be friends with her any more how should I tell her.

2006-12-23 09:15:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 19 now, but seem to go for older men, i mean older!! My latest was 40. he treated me badly, and my mum went mad! She told him to keep away from me, in a pub, as he was all over me. She lost it, had a row with him, she is his age, and she went mad when she saw us together. I must admit, i was drunk, and he was all over me, so she was angry! He told her to f...k off, so she walked out, upset. He hit me last night, now i have told my mum, she is annoyed with me, said i should listen to her more, she is so angry! What is wrong with me? My mum worries, says i am looking for a father figure, she gets so upset, said she will punch him for this, what is wrong with me?

2006-12-23 09:14:31 · 11 answers · asked by red devil 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy only in our emails for 4 years, we talk about everyday things we do and relationships that are in the past now. I am now engaged with someone else and 2 months ago is when I started receiving emails from my friend again, but my engagment is feeling like that its running its coarse and is about to end. I'm not falling out of love b/c of my friend its b/c my fiance is so stubborn he doesnt care if he gets to work on time and he is a momma's boy and sometimes he doesnt pay attention to my son when he comes home from work (I know he is tired but I do to and I cant just go lay down in the bed whenever I want to like him) If I do break it off with my fiance, should I pursue my friend into a relationship after having time to recover from my last one or let him pursue me?

2006-12-23 09:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by tradeangel2000 2 in Singles & Dating

their daughter and daughter -in-law. The Moms complain that the food is not cooked just right, that the silver is not correct, that the coffee is not good, that you dont have the kind of cream they want, that your decor is not right and my Mom critizes the way Im dressed my hair and my weight,

What is the real problem here. I hate to get together with either one of them. I feel like a nervous wreck.
is this their way of putting you down as they are jealous that it is your home and you are the one in charge now? Is it that they dislike you. Is it a way to get attention? It makes me not want to include them in any more holidays.

2006-12-23 09:13:34 · 11 answers · asked by Nora 7 in Family

I'm with a guy, but we aren't in love. We're teenagers. I want to know what the sweetest way (preferably over the Internet) to let him know I care about him would be. He's a dark type of person, and it doesn't take much to make him happy... so what would be the best way to let him know that I care?

2006-12-23 09:12:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am I

1 not attractive in the least

2.not attaractive

3.average looking

4. attractive

5. super attractive keeping in mind i DO NOT have a unibrow that was a bad photo.

2006-12-23 09:09:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Currently debating between D&G BY (floral) or Burberry Brit (oriental). Girlfriend is early 20s, slender, hot, cheery, and Asian.

Do girls now prefer flowery fragrances or more vanilla spicy ones?

Thanks.

2006-12-23 09:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by naus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 09:07:37 · 19 answers · asked by mlwjah 2 in Singles & Dating

After 6 years together wit hme almost everyday she wants to see her friends more then she wants to see me. I still chill with her but she says shes is not as happy as she used to be. She says she is still happy but not as happy as always.She says sometimes she wants to be with her friends but she is afraid to hurt me so she chills with me anyway and becomes unhappy. Is it possible she just needs to chill with her frieds for a little to get over it or does she not want me anymore. I asked her and she said honestly i don't want the responsibility of dissapointing you and having to hang out with you with no choice. If i have to live like that i'd rather not have a boyfriend. Then she says i want to marry you and i could never picture myself with another guy. What do i do????

2006-12-23 09:06:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im feeling insecure right now. and i know this is NO Way to gain confidence, but everygirl has her low points. and this holiday i am feeling hopeless.

Would you go out of your way to tell me how ugly i am?
Would you go out of your way to tell me how pretty i am?
Would you try to steal my boyfriend?
Would you compliment me?
Would you date me?Guys only!
Would you diss me?
Would you talk me into modeling
Or would you take the 2 points and run.



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if you are wonderin why i am insecure, i have been cheated on by my man who i love very much. the girl he cheated on me with is GORGEOUS

2006-12-23 09:06:07 · 36 answers · asked by Martin2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys: Who would you pick and why?
Option 1: Your wife of 18 years and mother to your child. The one who has been there for you through thick and thin. You don't desire her much but have sex often enough to satisfy you. You don't fight much but have been growing apart. She feels as though you don't have a lot in common and have different goals.
You really don't like each other because you cheated and it changed her and your relationship. She often says she is going to leave when your daughter graduates high school.

Option 2: Your mistress of 2 years who is 18 years younger than you. She is living with you and doesn't complain when you spend the night with your wife. She still treats you like a king. You desire her more than ever and have as much sex as you want. She makes you laugh and feel young again. You enjoy being together and have a lot in common. Sometimes you think she could leave you for another guy.

2006-12-23 09:05:43 · 13 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been goin with this guy for a year and i want to break it off without hurtin his feelins and hes like my best friend ( one of them)

2006-12-23 09:04:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister received a jar of pickle bums from her father in law. My mother in law gave me ear rings that had a rusted stem on them (and could not be worn) mY mother in law also bought us a comforter that looks like the inside of a sleeping bag. And she got angry when I told her I didn't much like it. How about you what are your worst experiences?

2006-12-23 09:04:13 · 14 answers · asked by skipdip 3 in Family

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2006-12-23 09:04:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

From a guy to a girl.

Like a 'Neg' ( humorous backhand compliment) or something like that.

"You look great" is not what i mean.

Like one that would make you wanna slap him then kiss him.

2006-12-23 09:04:02 · 1 answers · asked by elisioloyd 2 in Singles & Dating

Especially when the baby is still a BABY (1-3 yrs old) - I hear the guy and the mom of the child STILL have feelings for each other even when they break up and claim to "hate" each other. Or even if they don't have feelings for each other, I heard there's still some sexual entanglements, resentments and alot of other drama where she is STILL in the picture.

Is that true? with every situation? if so, when do they EVER get over each other and leave each other alone & let it be ONLY about the child when they have to deal?

2006-12-23 09:04:01 · 3 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 23 yrs. old. And I am constantly getting carded! I got carded at Suncoast (video store) to buy a "R" rated movie, everytime I goto the casino, buying liqour (and I dont smoke or I'd prollly be for cig's too), even just for being at the mall or store on a school day before 2pm.

Some chick at the pharmacy wanted to know if was old enough to pick up my meds. She thought I was fourteen. (That was lowest guess I've gotten and it was just this week.)

Anyway...Question is...Does my looking young effect how guys react to me?
Like if a hot guy in his 20's thinks I'm a teenager is that gonna put him off of approaching me and maybe getting to know me?
Is the thought of statuatory rape a turn-off?

And please don't tell me I'll appreciate looking young when I'm older... I hate that! LOL

2006-12-23 09:03:59 · 5 answers · asked by Kurius_Kitten 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 09:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met what seemed like the prefect man. But his habits are driving me nuts. He is dirty, not on his body but how he lives. He is sooooo clingy... I hate that. But he spent a small fotune on my & bought Christmas gifts for my kids. I don't know what to do. Should I stick it out or tell him it's not working for me. He is cute and all.

2006-12-23 09:03:37 · 2 answers · asked by Roberta c 2 in Singles & Dating

i have had guys in the past hurt me mentally and it sucks and now i have a great boy friend and i want to dump he cus im startin to like him to much and i dont want to get hurt and its hard for me to trust guys i jus dont want to brake up up wit he cus ill miss him but wat if he does end up hurting me ?????

2006-12-23 09:03:34 · 1 answers · asked by juggalette~dopey 1 in Singles & Dating

I get my son Christmas Eve and Christmas morning, then at noon he goes to his mom's. Makes for a sad and lonely Christmas afternoon and evening.

2006-12-23 09:03:16 · 12 answers · asked by jare bare 6 in Marriage & Divorce