Especially when the baby is still a BABY (1-3 yrs old) - I hear the guy and the mom of the child STILL have feelings for each other even when they break up and claim to "hate" each other. Or even if they don't have feelings for each other, I heard there's still some sexual entanglements, resentments and alot of other drama where she is STILL in the picture.
Is that true? with every situation? if so, when do they EVER get over each other and leave each other alone & let it be ONLY about the child when they have to deal?
2006-12-23 09:04:01 · 3 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The baby's mom is NEVER totally out of the picture. My bf's son is 3 and we have to deal with her a lot since she also lives down the street. I know that there are no feelings on his part (he caught her cheating) but I believe if she could have him back she would jump at the chance.
Here's my take on all of this; if you trust him and I mean totally trust him, it is nothing to worry about. I have told him several times that if he is that stupid to ever want to go back to her, he deserves all the pain that she will dish out on his a#$. However, he can't stand her because she lives to start drama, so no issue there.
If you date a man with children, there is a good chance that the mom will be in the picture. Be sure that you can handle it because there is a certain amount of stress that comes along with that type of relationship. Remember, she will be in his life until the child turns 18 (or 21).
2006-12-23 09:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes,it CAN happen. I care about my baby's daddy,but his girlfriend doesn't have to worry about me bothering them. He and I were togrther for 4 years. We should have just been friends all along. But i have a beautiful daughter now. It just depends on the people and what kinda relationship they have. I am with a chick now and her and her ex still have feelings. They don't even have any kids together (both girls anyway)lol. It's very fresterating. I think,and have LEARNED that if you have feelings for your ex-then stay single until you are ready to start fresh, Then again I don't even know if I could take my own advise because I don't like to be alone or lonley. I guess thats why it's important to have good friends!!
2006-12-23 17:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
approaching this issue from the other perspective, i.e. i am the momma - NO - NOT EVER - FOR ANYONE - will i ever be "out of the picture" when it concerns my child. i fully wish my ex WOULD get himself a g/f so he can get on with his life and stop fixating over us and every movement we make. and no - i will NEVER want my ex back - not at any price - there are no feelings on my part.
2006-12-23 17:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋