Everyone hates my bestfriend exept me. Should I still be her friend. She has done a lot of mean things to everyone, And they all say i am next. If I dont want to be friends with her any more how should I tell her.
2006-12-23 09:15:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If everyone hated your parents, would you get emancipated? If everyone hated the fact that you have 2 arms, would you have one amputated?
Unless you don't like your "best" friend, I don't see why you should stop being friends with her. You don't sound like a good friend if you're letting "everyone" break up your friendship.
2006-12-23 09:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a true friend, you're an honest friend. Just put your honesty to her in a way that you would want others to address you. Be nice, but not too nice so where you don't tell the truth. Don't be malicious. People are not always going to take good to the truth. Most often times people get offended. Don't worry about that because if you mean well and are not malicious, the offended party is just upset because you told them the truth. In the end, you owe everyone including yourself the truth. Just don't let guilt play with your head in case of the worse of the two. Don't wait for too much time to go by; you can be judged in the same light as your friend by association, so you should make up your mind one way or the other and do it soon. Think of it this way, if she gets offended and stops talking to you, you win. If she doesn't and decides to try to make a change for the better for the sake of your friendship, you win. You can't lose!
2006-12-23 09:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by A Good Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible your other friends have done some bad things to this person------------it is your choice----dont be mean to her just because your other friends think you should------if she ends up treating you badly then ask her why she is doing so. I have had a friend or two over the years that not EVERYONE liked----but who cares--so what. If you like this person then WHY NOT be a friend????? If by chance this person maybe gets into alot of trouble by doing bad things( stealing-that type of stuff) then I would suggest to not be around him or her. Otherwise you do what yoou want to do because it is YOUR CHOICE--NO ONE ELSES'.
2006-12-23 10:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your bestfriend should countinue to stick by her side and try to make her smooth things out with every body eles and if she is your true best friend you should not worry about what other pepople say and what she did is real mean and you feel that you cant trust her tell her. The best way to tell her is probly threw mail so you wont hear her diasppointment
2006-12-23 09:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by maxamarra s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. If she hates you than she would have done those things to you first! I Really doubte their right. If some ones mean to a person.. that person will tell every one else not to be friends with her. thats what happend to me when i was little.. every one ganged up on me. But dont worry about yourself and if you do think she hates you.. ask her your self and be straight with her.
2006-12-23 09:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♦Its•Possible•But•Not•Logical♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really ur decision. if u belive she is hurtin many people talk to her n tell her to her face that she really needs to stop if she still wants to be ur friend if she dont n she keeps on doing it then just tell her that u cant be hanging out with someone dat hurts other that u dont want to be mess up in stuff like dat n u dont want people to hate u for somethin ur so call friend does because its not ur fault. if she still wants to be her friend trust me she will change even if it gon hurt her more than anything
2006-12-23 09:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by sugeiry b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldnt tell her this to her face as it will make her upset
you should just start ignoring her
you dont know for a fact tht she will be horrible to you just bcuz she is horrible to everyon else
i mean she has been your bestfriend and if she was going to fighting with everyone she would have picked you first
2006-12-23 09:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you want to be friends with her? Has she ever wronged you personally? Those are the questions you need to be asking yourself. If she is your best-friend you shouldn't leave her hanging because of what people say.
2006-12-23 09:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring this subject up with her. If she is being malicious you might want to seek friendship elsewhere after making a clean break. If she is just aloof you might want to offer some help.
2006-12-23 09:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem fair and loyal. Be honest and let her know if she is mean to you join the dark side of those who have left her evilness..
2006-12-23 09:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Timf4515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋