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Guys: Who would you pick and why?
Option 1: Your wife of 18 years and mother to your child. The one who has been there for you through thick and thin. You don't desire her much but have sex often enough to satisfy you. You don't fight much but have been growing apart. She feels as though you don't have a lot in common and have different goals.
You really don't like each other because you cheated and it changed her and your relationship. She often says she is going to leave when your daughter graduates high school.

Option 2: Your mistress of 2 years who is 18 years younger than you. She is living with you and doesn't complain when you spend the night with your wife. She still treats you like a king. You desire her more than ever and have as much sex as you want. She makes you laugh and feel young again. You enjoy being together and have a lot in common. Sometimes you think she could leave you for another guy.

2006-12-23 09:05:43 · 13 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

13 answers

If you spent as much time with your wife as you have with your mistress, you wouldn't be asking this question. If you gave to your wife what you give to your mistress, you would be a happily married man.If your sex life is not all that thrilling with your wife, maybe you need to spice things up a little or learn better love making . Men like you make me sick. You really think it's all about you don't you?

2006-12-23 09:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 7 · 4 0

Get with your wife DUDE! The slut your shacking with is just there bewildering you with Beaver and conversation. Your wife has seen the entire duration of you last 18 years. If you work and truly believe your wife's the one for you I suggest you grovel like the unworthy human you are.

The younger chick is just gonna get tired of your wrinkled d!cked tail anyway. Eighteen years younger is a good number of miles on your Johnson playa! She'll be looking for a newer version if you leave your wife anyway.

Besides, it's cheaper to keep her!

2006-12-23 18:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what happens when girlfriend becomes wife and u run into the same problems as with wife no 1. it always looks greener on the other side of the fence till u get there, wife no i has a right to feel hurt, guess u never ask her to forgive it, guess there may be some unresolved issues, since she most likely knows u have this other woman. u are selfish, its all about you.

2006-12-23 20:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0 0

i would go with the wife, cuz trust me if u divorce wife, all the things with the mistress will change. i too had a mistress who gave me anything that i wanted sexuall, emotionally just like u described then after i left my wife, started the divorce proceedings, the mistress changed. first to go was the great sex, then the fun, now she is just a person for me to stick it in and get my jollies. so as bad as your wife seems, u still have the 14 yrs and trust me in the long run, she will be the one for u.

2006-12-23 17:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by keithy 3 · 1 1

You need to make the decision that is going to make you happier but you also have to thing of your children.
Just remember at one point you felt the same about your wife as you do about your mistress. You need to give your marriage 100% effort before making any decisions

2006-12-23 17:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Marina 3 · 0 0

I'll take what's behind Door Number 2!

2006-12-23 17:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If it were me, I would stick with my wife, because I vowed to love her until death do us part, and as a devout Catholic I can do no less, regardless of whatever temptations I must fight .

2006-12-23 17:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 1 0

i would pick #2 because #1 already stated that there is no loyalty anymore and the propect of a dead future is very real there

2006-12-23 17:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1 0

I would pick the person who makes you happier_

2006-12-23 17:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0 0

Is there a 3rd option?

2006-12-23 18:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0 0

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