After 6 years together wit hme almost everyday she wants to see her friends more then she wants to see me. I still chill with her but she says shes is not as happy as she used to be. She says she is still happy but not as happy as always.She says sometimes she wants to be with her friends but she is afraid to hurt me so she chills with me anyway and becomes unhappy. Is it possible she just needs to chill with her frieds for a little to get over it or does she not want me anymore. I asked her and she said honestly i don't want the responsibility of dissapointing you and having to hang out with you with no choice. If i have to live like that i'd rather not have a boyfriend. Then she says i want to marry you and i could never picture myself with another guy. What do i do????
2006-12-23 09:06:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the answer is 43?
2006-12-23 09:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a very social person. If your not social the same way that you go out and enjoy them company of others, not saying anything sexually, just conversation and joking,and activities, your probably not going to be happily married. I was like her for years and my gf was not, now it's reverse and I'm ok with it.
2006-12-23 17:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allow her her space. Better now than to find yoiu marry her in a years time and then you break up. If it is meant to be it is meant to be..sounds like she needs other people in her life right now.
2006-12-23 17:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lady N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have to give eachother space without worrying about the two of you finding someone else to take eachother's place...ya know.. just try and find your own things to do without eachother for a while. ~Distance makes the heart grow fonder.~
2006-12-23 17:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by xsdgfx564 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. why does she see you everyday? do you make her? she needs to be with her friends and you need to be with your friends sometimes. my boyfriend and i see eachother A LOT but we still hang out with our friends too. you guys just gotta balance it out. she still wants to be with you, but sometimes not seeing each other for a little is good for the relationship
2006-12-23 17:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude... u r coming off as needy and r making yourself too available... you need to spice your relationship up.... u need to start being a man...
show her that you want her, but DONT need her... im not saying "be an ******"...
and here is a tip... be friends with her friends... if they like you they will tell her how lucky she is to have you, women tend to be influenced by their friends greatly.
read these articles i found.. they might help you.
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip369.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip390.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip94.htm
2006-12-23 17:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should see some new people after six years.
2006-12-23 17:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you just sit her down and have her a proper conversation
tell her how you feel
2006-12-23 17:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asked and answered earlier.....how many times do you plan to ask the same question
2006-12-23 17:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋