Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

2006-12-19 13:43:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how should i act when i take a girl out ? i dont want to make a fool of myself ! im going tommorrow so i need help fast!!!

2006-12-19 13:43:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend. We had been together for over 4 years, but we had to put an end to our relationship because lately we just weren't getting along. It's been less than a month and I am starting to like one of his best friend's. I believe that his friend doesn't even think of me as a possibility for dating because right now he can only see me as his his friends' ex girlfriend. What should I do? Is there any way I could go out with him?

2006-12-19 13:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Singles & Dating

Question for all the girls, (and gay/bi fellas?!) Body hair? Yes/no/not bothered?

2006-12-19 13:41:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's just being very hard-hearted right now & stubborn. He lives with a woman, too, that I know he doesn't love.It's most likely because he can't stand to be alone. What can I do to soften his heart for me again? We have 3 beautiful daughters together.
I left him about a year ago due to his drinking & taking drugs.I felt uneasy at that time & was thinking of the kids, too. I do remember alot of good times in our many years together & I guess I just still need the man he was. My girls talk about him alot & he does call them & I guess that's what's keeping me still *involved* with him & my feelings, too. IT's just so hard. So many years together. I get asked out by other men, but just don't want to go. My heart is still with my ex. Everytime I think I've moved on...it happens again. Those memories...our family the way it used to be...

2006-12-19 13:41:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is always looking for something that I am not doing HER WAY. She talks very loudly, telling me what I need to do, when I am trying to take care of a customer.
She is soooo annoying. She drives me crazy!! She is 38 years old & you would think that she could be a little more mature than that.
I just stand back & stay quiet. I don't say anythink except ok to her & in a very nice way. It makes me mad though because she doesn't talk that way infront of her MoM which her MoM is also the owner/boss.
I am so frusterated that I am thinking of quitting but I have been there for 3 years & I realy absolutely love my job! And my husband & I have 4 kids that we have to work & take care of. What should I do? Please I need some VERY GOOD ADVISE? PLEASE???

2006-12-19 13:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by tigrababy2000 2 in Friends

Why would a man who likes you look at your wedding ring, and ask if you were married?

2006-12-19 13:41:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friends say I'm conceited but I say I am just confident. I know I'm Beautiful, Sexy, Fine, Cute and people just adore me. but its not like I go around thinking I'm better than everybody else. I am very confident and I walk with my head held high because I know I look good. I wake up an extra hour before I wake up everyday just to admire myself. I don't wear any make up except for lip gloss and lip liner. My skin is so clear I've had guys wipe there hands across my face to see if I'm wearin make up because they dont believe me when I tell them no. Everyday I have guys hitting on me. On my worst days I have guys trying to talk to me. So why is it such a crime for me to acknowledge that I am one Sexy female everyday. I just love myself ... is that a problem??

2006-12-19 13:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by Only Me 1 in Singles & Dating

When I am touched almost anywhere I heat up basically immediately. However I just kissed for the first time today, and there was almost no feeling there at all. No heat. She didnt feel very much either. However, everything else we do together produces a very good response, just no spark in the kissing. We plan on trying more in the future, cause we both truely want things to work out. Please try to give advice or possible solutions, and if more information is needed I will be glad to supply it. Thank you very much!

2006-12-19 13:40:18 · 22 answers · asked by alphta1 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i was walking on the street and suddenly a lady came to me and asked me for some money. she said that she was really hungry but she didn't have enough money to buy any food, and so i did give her $20. my friends said that i'm dumb giving her the money.

soooo.......Am i wrong??

2006-12-19 13:40:17 · 30 answers · asked by KO 3 in Friends

sure, we girls are thrilled with flowers and kisses under starry night while nobody's around and etc... but i wonder if guys think otherwise. what makes men come home from a date smiling?

2006-12-19 13:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This bothers me. When this guy comes in close (close enough to feel his body heat but not quite touching), I simply freeze out of pure nervousness and excitement. Of course, I don't let it show. My ex has NEVER affected me like this. Can anyone relate?

2006-12-19 13:38:14 · 24 answers · asked by Mike's Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

ok what do you call when a boy always calls you at night cus thats what happens to me all the time.

2006-12-19 13:38:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in the hospital early this year and ran into someone I knew late at night at a store. I had just came back from eating dinner, and I was talking and laughing hugging and going on when I went to use the stores bathroom and realized I had a huge piece of salad in my teeth the whole time, and my friend didn't even tell me

2006-12-19 13:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Friends

My boyfriend is twenty-nine years old and has only had one girlfriend in the past. I've had nine years of constant dating (long term/short term).
He is the most amazing guy I have ever met and our relationship has been strong and healthy for over a year now. He is caring, sensitive, a great lover, and a genuinely kind soul.
I can envision a future with him, yet I worry that he will feel slighted if the relationship ever turned permanent (marriage). I fear that he may constantly fantasize about other women because he hasn't had the chance to experiment and "taste all the flavors".


I wish he would had dated more before we met so I wouldn't feel threatened by his lack of relationship experience.

I know that he is the best for me! He is everything I've ever wanted in a man! I just fear that he hasn't had his chance to shop around and this may prevent him from ever committing without regrets.

What are your opinions and experiences on this matter?

2006-12-19 13:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by delirium cornucopia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been together with my boyfriend for almost five years and I am really happy with him. The problem is that I don't really like his family. His parents are really nice to me but I find them very different than my parents. It is a family that no one knows of and I simply don't really like them. For this reason I am starting to have doubts on my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. I really love him, he is a great guy, responsabile, respectful and really loves me but everyone tells me that I just don't get married with him, I get married wih the whole family. Should I break up with him?

2006-12-19 13:37:06 · 16 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to have sex with a woman, but I am a hypchondriac and I am just average looking.

The only way I can think to get sexed is to go to a bar and find a slut, but I'm pretty sure I'd catch something that way.

My assumption is that the women least likely to give me herpes or HPV are the ones who are shy/quiet. Is this a good assumption?

If so, I see a lot of them at the library studying, but I never know if I should approach them or not. What's the best way to ask a woman out without upsetting her? How can I tell if she wants to be asked out?

I'm really struggling here... "I'd never join any club that would have me as a member."

2006-12-19 13:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever my bf and i fight about what his exwife and i start to "win" he allways says things like i'm a divorced dad if you can't accept it we need to brake-up or i can't take you any more i'm leaving you.He then ether leaves or goes to anouther part of the house and will not talk to me for the rest of the day.i think he knows this will shut me up and make me drop the subject.His exwife uses their daughter like bait to get what she wants and my bf allways falls for it.Why will he never listen to me about this and shuts me out when i make a point that makes sense and he can't disagree on?

2006-12-19 13:36:33 · 5 answers · asked by tammyhekhyu089 1 in Family

Im extremly in love with this guy, but at times, i feel like i love him and hate him. I feel like doesnt care on what i think, say, or feel. He sometimes makes me feel stupid and he belittles me by calling me names. I try to be really good to him, and he doesnt try to be as good. I can never talk to him and say what i feel because he usually takes it the wrong way. He likes to limit me and i cant do the same to him. But gosh, i love him so much... I broke up with him, and think i made a good choice?

2006-12-19 13:35:35 · 15 answers · asked by Iceshowers 2 in Singles & Dating

hi...i recently discovered i have some sort of infection or STD..and i need to get medical help ASAP, but, i cant tell my grandparents who i live with...if i do ill also have to explain HOW i got the infection, and then they will kick my ***, and i dont have my medicade card, so theres nothing we can do without it....but i really need some help...im confused, can someone tell me what to do?

2006-12-19 13:34:55 · 17 answers · asked by savvizzle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He had a fling with girl (who was cheating on her boyfriend, who she is still with - the boyfriend knows they flirted - which is not the whole story). I come into the picture. I tell him he has to choose. He says he chooses me. They decide to be plutonic. They are "still friends".

But he said to me (this is a while ago) "I will always be emotionally intimate with her"

Since then, their contact that I know about has slowed down, but there is still his phone and his work email.

But why would he still hang out with her? Should I be worried? Do you think something is up or am I overreacting about nothing?

Since then he told me he cares for me very much.

But he is also being particular about the costs of things when we go out - ie split 50/50 exactly, whereas he wasn't before. If I say I will pitch in for someone's birthday present who I barely know, he expected half from me. He did turn his head to the side when she tried to "hello" kiss him on the lips though.

2006-12-19 13:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anna K 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 13:33:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever She is having an orgasm, She urinates all over Herself and Me too, I find this really nasty, but She says that She can not help it, Is their medication for this, She has also pooped the bed during orgasm!

2006-12-19 13:33:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-19 13:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 13:31:57 · 13 answers · asked by nancy l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So theres this boy, we went out for 6 months but then we broke up. Today he told me that he still loved me but that hes got a girlfriend. Well I told him that i still love him and asked him if he thought we were meant to be. he said that he did when we were together, so I asked him will we ever be together again? And he said idk maybe. What should i do? I really love this boy but have no idea how to get back with him.

2006-12-19 13:31:17 · 5 answers · asked by daniluvsu615 1 in Singles & Dating

I always chat on IM with guys but we don't talk about sex or anything. I always explain to the guy that I'm married and they accept that. Is this counting as cheating?

2006-12-19 13:30:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do tell.

2006-12-19 13:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy. I like him. well i ont know if he likes me. but see umm everytime i talk to him i get scared and i dont know what to say. Its kinda weird though because i told him how i feel and then when the same day he was ridin' is skateboard and did the sup thing wit his chin. does that mean he likes me?

2006-12-19 13:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by lol 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi um i wanna knows if tis girl likes me or not ill tell u how she is.

1)Every single day she alwayz says hi 2 me and we r not in the same class.

2)I make a joke and she always laugh.

3)SHe stares at me sometimes

4)Sometimes we kinda make fun of each other

5)She talks to me in skool and wenever its scilent she tries 2
make up a topic

6)She smiles alot


SO tats it

O YEA 1 MORE THING She has a boyfreind

So does she like me???

2006-12-19 13:29:46 · 3 answers · asked by Sergio C 2 in Friends