My boyfriend is twenty-nine years old and has only had one girlfriend in the past. I've had nine years of constant dating (long term/short term).
He is the most amazing guy I have ever met and our relationship has been strong and healthy for over a year now. He is caring, sensitive, a great lover, and a genuinely kind soul.
I can envision a future with him, yet I worry that he will feel slighted if the relationship ever turned permanent (marriage). I fear that he may constantly fantasize about other women because he hasn't had the chance to experiment and "taste all the flavors".
I wish he would had dated more before we met so I wouldn't feel threatened by his lack of relationship experience.
I know that he is the best for me! He is everything I've ever wanted in a man! I just fear that he hasn't had his chance to shop around and this may prevent him from ever committing without regrets.
What are your opinions and experiences on this matter?
2006-12-19 13:37:51 · 5 answers · asked by delirium cornucopia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all people need to have a bunch of partners in order to be happy and satisfied. When you find the person you truly love, you don't want or need anyone else. So, if he's ready to commit into a serious relationship/marriage then go for it and leave your reservations at the door.
2006-12-19 13:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am marrying a guy just like yours. this is the most amazing relationship i have ever had in my life - no one has ever made me feel so special. go for it.
2006-12-19 13:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was waiting for that special someone, and you just happened to be the second person he dated!
2006-12-19 16:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by laughoutloud22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, you only need 1 girl, the perfect girl and thats enough....you are his perfect girl.
2006-12-19 13:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gay
2006-12-19 13:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cheesyhorro 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋