hi...i recently discovered i have some sort of infection or STD..and i need to get medical help ASAP, but, i cant tell my grandparents who i live with...if i do ill also have to explain HOW i got the infection, and then they will kick my ***, and i dont have my medicade card, so theres nothing we can do without it....but i really need some help...im confused, can someone tell me what to do?
2006-12-19 13:34:55 · 17 answers · asked by savvizzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THERE R NO PLANNED PARENTHOODS IN MY AREA I CAN GET TOO
2006-12-19 13:41:58 · update #1
so you leech of you grandparents, you cant find a medicade card and you want us to tell you what to do..ok here it goes
go to the southwest corner of the basement
get cpmpletely naked
sit on floor with knees to your chin and feet flat on floor
spread legs
proceed to put your head down toawrds your butt and kiss your asss goodbye
2006-12-19 13:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have some visible symptoms, right?
Tell one of them that you would like for a doctor to check it out.
There is almost NO chance that you're going to fool your grandparents. They were not born yesterday!
There will be even greater frustration on their part if you attempt to hide it and hope that it will go away.
If you are adult enough to make the choices that you are making, then you need to be mature enough to take care of the consequences without allowing it to get worse. If you end up in the hospital, it will only become more expensive and time-consuming for them.
Since you are already acting a bit strangely deciding how to hide the evidence, do you want to tell them now OR wait for them to ask YOU? They do have your best interests at heart though they will not likely be pleased with your choices.
2006-12-19 13:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to talk to your grandparents and get the medical care you need. You could also look for a planned parenthood clinic in your area - which is generally free/low cost, but I'm not sure if you'd need a guardian okay for treatment.
2006-12-19 13:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if you tell them or not you need to get treated for your STD/infection. GO to your local Planned Parenthood or free clinic, they provide services at lower costs, sometimes free.
Planned Parenthood: (search for a center near you at the top)
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
They usually have counselors or qualified staff you can talk to for support.
Don't wait, take responsibility of your body and your health.
Good luck.
2006-12-19 13:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in serious need of medical attention, you should go to the hospital. Tell them you have no income, they will still treat you. Most states have emergency medicare (Arizona for one) and they will take care of it. As for your grandparents, well, if you are 18 or older, they have no right to pry into your medical records, so you're safe from that. I wouldn't go so far as to lie to them (that's really up to you), but you could tell them that something is really wrong "downstairs" and that you need to get it checked out as soon as possible. Don't mess around with that kind of stuff, if you get something like syphilis, you could actually go insane in the later untreated stages. Good luck. Sorry that you have to deal with this stuff, I'm sure it blows.
2006-12-19 13:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a counselor near you, there are free clinics every where...talk to a professional about what you have and be prepared to answer any questions your grandparents may have. They are not stupid just because they are old..they probably already know something is wrong...they are just waiting for you to come to them.
2006-12-19 13:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by MARY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 16:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are free clinics you can go to for help.
you can probably get information for them online in your area and assure them itll be ok cause you can sort out the problem there. besides that you need to make it clear that everyone makes mistakes and that youre sorry and youve sure as hell learned your lesson now
2006-12-19 13:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by staticdelusionx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to planned parent hood and explain what has happened to them. I don't like them but they are confidential or you could go to PRC or talk to a counselor and they can get you help...
2006-12-19 13:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by WINGS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up any sort of planned parenthood type clinics around,
otherwise, I would tell them you have some sort of UTI or something
2006-12-19 14:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by pooleka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋