When I am touched almost anywhere I heat up basically immediately. However I just kissed for the first time today, and there was almost no feeling there at all. No heat. She didnt feel very much either. However, everything else we do together produces a very good response, just no spark in the kissing. We plan on trying more in the future, cause we both truely want things to work out. Please try to give advice or possible solutions, and if more information is needed I will be glad to supply it. Thank you very much!
2006-12-19 13:40:18 · 22 answers · asked by alphta1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be too worried. all is not lost here. first kisses between couples are rarely the best kiss. it could just be the fact that you two aren't compatible kissers... yet. it is like trying to go from eating a big piece of choclate cake to eating a lemon. it takes time to get used to. you have to learn how each others mouths are. and how they fit together. see the thing with kissing is to find out how your partner is most comfortable without being too uncomfortable yourself. every person has a different kissing style. some are more agressive, while others are more passive, and some are just plain passive agressive. but dont give up hope. things are new and the only way to go is up. try different techniques. be open to new ideas, and just let what happens happen, you cant force a kiss, you have to feel the kiss, and move with it. but the first thing you should do is figure out what kind of kisser you are, and what kind of kisser she is. then work from there.
sincerely,
Doc Jey
p.s. if you have any further uestions feel free to e mail me or add me to messanger. i would be glad to help!
2006-12-19 13:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jezyka Isabella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the first kiss between two people can be awkward. I would suggest being very relax (maybe taking a few shots before hand?). If this doesn't work, it could be that you two do not compliment the other - as far as movement and softness. Talk with her, find out how she likes to be kissed - you do the same...work with each other. It'll be all good.
2006-12-19 13:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i agree and disagree with omse people that the first kiss is everything.
agree: you need that spark and something. the feeling that this is the perfect moment.
disagree: it can simply be bad timing.
first, at least you could kiss her for your firsts kiss. congrads. my friend hasnt had hers and is terrified of messing it up.
second, let things grow more and see where it goes. im talking physically and emotionally.
third, dont let the kiss discourage you. if you still care about her and she cares about you then thats what matters.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-19 13:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people are nervous because they fear failure at something, like kissing, they sometimes tense up. So one or both parties can have what's called "ironing board lips". Stiff as a board. That's not sexy or fun.
Another thing people do is try to imitate movies (of all kinds) where one partner goes on a tongue fishing trip. They key is to remain relaxed and don't look at it something you have to achieve.
2006-12-19 13:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
were u having a dream with kissing your 4 grade teacher
2006-12-19 13:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by LIL Shady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. IF she is willing go for it. Its something you have to perfect with someone and how they are kissing. Fill in the gaps from there.
2006-12-19 13:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are both not doing it right or just don't like kissing.
2006-12-19 13:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how youre kissing..if youre really getting into it or in a different place it could be good. it depends on the people and how you do it
2006-12-19 13:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by staticdelusionx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you must be gay? or is she fat? Is this "girl" alive or plastic? If I were you, thank god, I would seriously find time for my self and do some soul searching on who really am I, not your friends or family's version but your very own!
2006-12-19 13:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're thinking about how it'll feel too much, dont worry about it, if you wanna kiss her, kiss her, or kiss her in different places, neck is a good one.
2006-12-19 13:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋