Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I have a friend who really likes me. She is always dropping little hints that she wants us to be togther like, "when are we going to get together?" I keep coming up with reason that I don't want to date her ie. she is only a friend, I am not ready for a relationship, I have a lot on my mind etc... My last attempt was to tell her that I like blondes with short hair, she has really long brunette hair. Well she came over last night with newly cut and dyed short blonde hair. So my question is, how do I get it through to her that I do NOT want to date her? Should I just end the friendship? Or, what else can I get her to do to herself to make me want her?

2006-12-18 04:57:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 04:57:37 · 24 answers · asked by no66 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 04:57:32 · 15 answers · asked by xHellheartx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you be upset or offended if you're husband / BF - had purchased an "outfit" for you to put on and meet him out by the Christmas Tree?

I'm thinking of getting my wife, the Naughty Mrs Claus panties, bra and see through jacket.... oh yeah and a santa hat to wear while we open gifts.... I would lay it out on the bed for her with a note to put it on and meet me by the tree...

of course I'd play along too, I found some great Boxer shorts that look like Santas Pants and a santa hat...

Would you like this, think it's cute etc.

2006-12-18 04:56:58 · 18 answers · asked by jairman2004 2 in Singles & Dating

Well where can I start I was with my ex boyfriend for almost two years. We broke up and he went overseas due him being in the military and I live here in the states. We have remained friends best friends since our break up witch was over a year ago. But thru out that year of us talking..We have still been sexual with each other..tell each other we love one another talked about our future togehter our kids..he supports me with everything that I do.we talk on the phone every single day... only thing is I asked him if we were getting back together he says he dont wanna talk about it until he see's me face to face..then the other day we were on the phone he thought i had fallen asleep on him, and he said to me baby i love you so much im going to marry you I promise. but im still confused because we are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend right now and he said he does not want to talk about it right now..can any one help me do you think he is playing games with me?

2006-12-18 04:56:47 · 6 answers · asked by Life It Is What It Is 1 in Weddings

me and my husband are going through a divorce right now due to differences and traditionally the mother gets the kids. he wants his kids though but i told him no. i am not a bad mother at all but he simply can't bear to be away from his child. i told him he could visit anytime but he wants full custody because he says he deserves to be entitled to full custody just as a mother would.( i think he just does'nt want to pay child support which i tried to work out for him) he makes about 6,000$ more than i do a month. but he is often gone alot due to his job.we both live well off. don't i have a better off chance getting custody of my child. i'm the mother, she should be with me. my child is 4 years old. the mother always gets the kids. What do you think i should do in court?

2006-12-18 04:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was at his ex girlfriends from 6 to 11:30 but that was fine.. I cant talk to my guy friends but he can go to his ex girlfriends and stay all night...

2006-12-18 04:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by Chastity R 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf works from 7p-6a and I leave him little love notes everyday morning to come home to. He says he really looks foward to reading them each day. Prblem is I am running out of things to write. I've done the :Top 5 why I love you and so one. Do you have any cute ideas? Thanks a bunch!!!

2006-12-18 04:55:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants to buy a villa and grow olives to make olive oil..... Sounds nice ....

2006-12-18 04:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

do any of you guys have an Australian Shepard? If so what is one of your dogs favorite things to do? Or favorite snack? Because i just got one and i have no clue what to do and what not to do!

2006-12-18 04:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by hbburg2012 2 in Friends

Ok, I seem to be cursed when it comes to this one group of friends. I know this sounds conceded, but nearly every single guy in my circle of friends developes a crush on me (trust me, I don't see the attraction. I don't think I'm anything pretty). Guy A and I are like bro and sis (because I'd never date him and making him my bro stopped him from asking me out), Guy B and I did date and Guy C wants to get close to me (but I think he only wants to get me into bed and doesn't care about me). A new guy joined our group (Guy D) and I really like him. However, I haven't told Guy C that we will never happen in a million years (I wanted to, but the last time I saw him, he was in a really bad mood and it scared me).

How do I tell Guy C that I don't want to date him (we never went on a date to begine with) and that I'm interested in Guy D?

2006-12-18 04:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by sister steph 6 in Friends

i'm not comfortable being around guys, although I'm attracted to someone special (im 14)....im shy and i prefer female company...AM I NORMAL? :(:(:(
help....:(

2006-12-18 04:54:33 · 12 answers · asked by Mita 3 in Singles & Dating

I went out for dinner last night with the guy I like. We were talking about all the drama surrounding us at work and how this girl we work with told me that if he didn't sleep with me by my birthday (January) then he had to be gay. He was obviously angry with this girls comment and it seemed to bother him a lot. When we left the resturant we talked in his van for a while and I explained that I wanted him to not feel pressured or anything to do something just becasue of what other people are saying. I told him I didn't want tension for either of us if he was wanting one thing and I was wanting another. This was said becasue we're going to Whistler by ourselves for my birthday. Anyways I asked him what his best friend said about everything that's been going on and his best friend asked him if he liked me and enjoyed my company and he said he really really liked me and loved hanging out with me. He cherished my friendship and loved spending time with me. Think we'll always stay friends?

2006-12-18 04:54:00 · 3 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 04:53:45 · 16 answers · asked by no66 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw this boy who used to be tore up when I was a teenager a now as an adult he's kind of cute.

2006-12-18 04:52:34 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 8yrs, but my husband does not turn me on at and we constantly have arguments. My childhood love and I have an amazing connection after 10yrs apart. We both are still in love with each other, but our past was kinda bad too, but I think it was because we were both young. I know that I don't want to be with my husband because he doesn't do anything physically for me,but he does provide finacially for me. I have kids that he don't do anything with so that kinda makes me think he is not family oriented and that bothers me because that's what I want along with being happy. What is your suggestion on this problem? Oh yeah, my childhood love is in jail and gets out in March with the intensions of being with me????????? Please help me out!!!!!!!!

2006-12-18 04:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I usually will talk to any girl I think is attractive and get theyre number -- but is there something I should look for? Maybe a big yello sign?
Go to Nor. CAL.

2006-12-18 04:51:54 · 6 answers · asked by weatherhuman 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I worry about this? It would be nice to hear her say it to me. I say how pretty she is and how much I want and need her in my life. i feel like I need to hear it and I don't know if it is normal.

2006-12-18 04:51:04 · 12 answers · asked by jozwiak36 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

from the opposite sex's point of view

2006-12-18 04:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i make good money and thats the only reson i can get some date after 3 to 4 dates they say oh no its not you its me later on one of my friend will tell me they cant get pass the eye

2006-12-18 04:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to florida to see my brother and came back really depressed.I thought vacations were suppost to make you happier.
I live all the way in England and all I seem to do is cry.
Is there anyway to stpo being so depressed?
I've told my mother how I feel but theres no use she keeps saying that I'll get over it
Please help

2006-12-18 04:49:59 · 18 answers · asked by JC 2 in Friends

2006-12-18 04:48:26 · 41 answers · asked by readinginpark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am incredibly jealous. I know it's stupid but when the X Factor was on, he backed Leona straight away, and I didn't mind but then he kept praising her all the time and gave her a standing ovation. This really hurt me and made me so jealous cos I can sing and it's been my dream too but he doesn't ever want to hear me sing, I just want him to be proud of me like he was with Leona. I was so jealous that when he said that he was going to buy her single, I put the phone down and didn't speak to him again that day. Whenever I see or hear Leona now I get so angry, please PLEASE help me.

2006-12-18 04:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Singles & Dating

or it just means that you are taking a break from each other?

2006-12-18 04:47:40 · 22 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend is pregnant and she won't tell no one what does she do if her parents find out

2006-12-18 04:47:19 · 11 answers · asked by lula_lil_scott 1 in Friends

So for his Christmas present I'm making him a scrapbook about me do you think he will enjoy it?

2006-12-18 04:47:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do the guyz still think about their exes when it was the guy who broke up with the gurl??

2006-12-18 04:46:43 · 20 answers · asked by rockstar12 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you had 2 coworkers and you were always helping one out to get their work done (computer illiterate) and now that it is the holidays he tells you I want to get something really special for (her) other coworker but I have nothing in mind for you. Some days are worse then others. They think that she walks on water. Would you continue helping him out? We have been coworkers and so-call friends for 5 years. I have already stopped going to lunch with them, can't stand being around them. There have been times where I don't even answer her calls. Please help!!!

2006-12-18 04:45:54 · 2 answers · asked by Feline05 5 in Friends

I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 4 1/2 YEARS BUT HE MOST OF THE TIME PUT ME SECOND ALL HE REALLY CARED WAS BOUT BEIN A PLAYER SHOULD I STILL KEEP HIM AS A FRIEND OR NOTHIN AT ALL I STILL TALK TO HIM AND AT TIMES HE TELLS ME THAT IM THE ONLY ONE WHAT SHOULD I DO IF IM TRYIN TO FORGET HIM N TRYIN TO GET INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP ?

2006-12-18 04:45:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost two years and i think i am being a pretty decent wife. I cook, clean, work and we have great sex. I treat him very well. But he seems to talk to me with such disrepect all the time. My husband is 22 and acts like im his girlfreind or something. He just doesnt understand that im his wife and he has to respect that. Sometimes i feel like i want to start being mean just cause he is to me and i dont want it to turn into that. Are any of you ladies going through the samething or maybe have some advice for me.

2006-12-18 04:45:05 · 22 answers · asked by Laura E 1 in Marriage & Divorce