Ok, I seem to be cursed when it comes to this one group of friends. I know this sounds conceded, but nearly every single guy in my circle of friends developes a crush on me (trust me, I don't see the attraction. I don't think I'm anything pretty). Guy A and I are like bro and sis (because I'd never date him and making him my bro stopped him from asking me out), Guy B and I did date and Guy C wants to get close to me (but I think he only wants to get me into bed and doesn't care about me). A new guy joined our group (Guy D) and I really like him. However, I haven't told Guy C that we will never happen in a million years (I wanted to, but the last time I saw him, he was in a really bad mood and it scared me).
How do I tell Guy C that I don't want to date him (we never went on a date to begine with) and that I'm interested in Guy D?
2006-12-18 04:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by sister steph 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Open your mouth and let it out. But I wouldn't advise telling him about Guy D when you tell him your not interested. Guys are alot more sensitive than they let on. Try not to bruise his ego too much, then the punch when you do start seeing Guy D, won't hit so hard.
2006-12-18 04:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by nightstar114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just STOP dating guys out of the same group. Why dont you go check out other groups and see what other people have to offer, Trust me things will change after a while. Tell guy C that you arent interested. Your not devoted to him and its not like hes best friends with GUY d right? The answer will come to you.
2006-12-18 13:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two arent dating so why should you have to tell him anything its not like your his girlfriend. So you have no obligation to him. Unless you been flirting like crazy he has no reason to assume you even had the thought of dating him, so enjoy the flirting and possible dating w/ guy d and guy c can continue to be your Friend!
2006-12-18 13:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth and just about whatever comes to your mind
2006-12-18 14:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by BABY B 16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. You can't let him down easy...he will be hurt no matter what you do. So just do it...the quicker the better. He will get over it....or dump you as a friend.
2006-12-18 12:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're into someone else. you wouldn't be lieing to him & if he wants to know who you can either tell him or somply say that it's none of his buisness
2006-12-18 13:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he don;t ask you out yet there no need for you to tell him that, and if he did then tell him that your not into him at all
2006-12-18 13:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it
2006-12-18 13:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋