I went to florida to see my brother and came back really depressed.I thought vacations were suppost to make you happier.
I live all the way in England and all I seem to do is cry.
Is there anyway to stpo being so depressed?
I've told my mother how I feel but theres no use she keeps saying that I'll get over it
Please help
2006-12-18 04:49:59 · 18 answers · asked by JC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stay away from meds and therapy only prolongs the problem and sometimes creates new ones. everybody thinks all thier problems can be answered by taking a stupid little pill, if you wanna be a zombie go ahead. but life is tuff and sometimes you slip, but you gotta keep going. happines is not a destination it's a ride that sometimes you fall off of, you just gotta get right back up and keep plugging away.
2006-12-18 04:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just miss your brother and that's why you came back so depressed. Do you write each other or anything. Maybe you should try writing him or something. You can say a lot more in a letter than you can on a phone call. You do live quite a ways a ways, and your mom is probably right. The best thing to do is find some way to busy your self with something that won't remind you of your brother. You could try writing in a journal or diary. that may make you feel better.
2006-12-18 12:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not easy coming back from a Florida vacation, but there are ways you can learn to appreciate England. Enjoy the nice summer weather where it's not too hot, enjoy walk aroung the city, and enjoy going out, meeting people and getting to other European countries since you are closer over there.
Most of all try to meet people, expats like you or people your age in school or thru other friends, you can get over it. Good luck
2006-12-18 12:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dana N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went to Vegas and came back. it looked as though everything died when I was gone. This time of year is hard because the weather sucks. Plan another trip down south, looking foward to some nice weather and family will make you feel better
2006-12-18 12:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by nightstar114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really all depends on what exactly you are so depressed about. Miss your brother? Want to go back to Florida? Things going wrong at home?
2006-12-18 13:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave england. youre depressed because you came back from somewhere that is sunny a lot of the time to a place that is rainy most of the time. leave the rain if u dont want to be depressed
2006-12-18 12:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your lonely, go out & find a boyfriend who will be good to you. Or maybe you just need a hobby, you should keep yourself busy. Why don't you go out & do things you enjoy? staying at home crying will make your depression even worse. Go out & find some friends to hang out with or maybe you should move closer to family.
2006-12-18 12:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, move to Florida
2006-12-18 12:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Darth Vader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u really miss Florida.
2006-12-18 12:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by Nia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try psychotherapy and antidepressants - you may suffer from S.A.D. as well. (seasonal affective disorder) This is where you get depressed due to the cold weather.
2006-12-18 12:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Stasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋