my friend is pregnant and she won't tell no one what does she do if her parents find out
2006-12-18 04:47:19 · 11 answers · asked by lula_lil_scott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is not a question of IF, but rather when, and she needs to tell her parents as she needs medical attention, in order to have a healthy baby. as well as keep her self healthy, Her getting pregnant, is not the end of the world, it will not be easy, but she will be OK, so tell her that she needs to talk to her parents or some one soon
2006-12-18 04:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend parents are going to find out , she can't continue to hide it for long, in the mean time u as a friend should make sure your friend is going to the doctor and getting checked so that she will have a healthy baby, what about the father of this child, does he know or has she told him yet ? the main thing is for everyone to be on the same page concerning this child. Please tell your friend to see a doctor for her health, as well as the baby.
2006-12-18 12:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Priscilla B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question where is the father? Second question how old is this friend? Either way your friends need to tell her parents so that they can decide what is the best thing to do for the unborn child. You need to be a friend and go with her when she tells her parents, because she will need your support. That is the best thing to do.
2006-12-18 13:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know everyday i hear on the news about kids around 12yrs of age or just the other day a 14 year old girl threw her baby out the window..now she may face criminal charges...listen you guys need to stop having sex at a young age..and just wait..there are alot of consequesnces..STD..and unwanted pregnancy...just finish high school and enjoy your youth...sex will always be there..most of the time its us women that is left wondering what are we going to do..and the men are fine..or sometimes dont want to be bothered..my boyfriend sister had her baby at 16 years old..now what is she doing with therself..nothing just staying home taking care of the baby..she didnt finish school..have no job...when you go out there in the real world and work for these major corporation they are not willing to hire a person like that..or when professional people sit and have a conversation with you..right away they will tell that you dont have an education...I dont understand why is is sooo easy for us to lay down in bed with a man and please him..but refuse to take care of our goals and needs first...
I am soo sorry if I am being so unsupportive..but your friend needs to tell her parents or her sister or cousin someone that can help her...if she wants to keep the baby then she will have to.and just take care of herself and the child..I am sure that everything will work out for her..right now she is just scared...good luck
2006-12-18 13:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are tons of programs out there to help her deal with her situation. I would just try to steer her in that direction. There are people there who can help her with her fears and will guide her to the best why of telling her parents, as well as getting her the medical attention she needs. Talk to your counselor or check the phone book for family planning, that should give you some numbers.
2006-12-18 12:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents will find out eventually, they are not stupid. Tell your friend that she should talk to them. Hiding it won't solve anything. Once she starts to show, they will figure it out really fast, maybe even before that.
2006-12-18 12:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if her parent's are violent parents and there is a chance
that they will hurt her in any fashion, please tell her to take another adult with her. Or try planned parent hood maybe some
one from there will go with her to break the news.
2006-12-18 12:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by JENNY L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first she needs to stop thinking about herself.... she needs to look for a doctor, check on her little baby to see if it's health, about her parents??!! they can't do nothing to change it!!! it's her body,her child,all they can do is to give her support, and love.
2006-12-18 12:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to throw herself down the stairs, that should take care of the problem.
2006-12-18 12:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to tell her parents no use putting stress on the baby!!!
2006-12-18 12:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by krystie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋