I am incredibly jealous. I know it's stupid but when the X Factor was on, he backed Leona straight away, and I didn't mind but then he kept praising her all the time and gave her a standing ovation. This really hurt me and made me so jealous cos I can sing and it's been my dream too but he doesn't ever want to hear me sing, I just want him to be proud of me like he was with Leona. I was so jealous that when he said that he was going to buy her single, I put the phone down and didn't speak to him again that day. Whenever I see or hear Leona now I get so angry, please PLEASE help me.
2006-12-18 04:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you try being alone for a while............
2006-12-18 05:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me you have serious self esteem issues, obviously you want 100% of his attention and admiration, but homey that can never happen, that would not be healthy, it would be obessesion!
I know how hard it is to stop being jealous, but just think about the famous males you admire and like, you wouldn't even think to compare them with your man would you?
So don't worry about it, even if she lives in the same street odn,t worry about it. Seriously, if he wanted to cheat or leave you there is nothing you can do about it whatsoever, so don't stress yourself out over something that might not even happen, and even if it did, you would have no control anyway!
Worry about this stuff if and when it happens, and even then, he he leaves or cheats on you then he has done you a favour, because we all deserve someone who is 100% commited to us!
I know that's what I want from a relationship! So chill chick, he's with you, so assume he loves you, but if you keep the crazy jealous female act up, he might not like you for much longer!
Good luck.
2006-12-18 05:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is also a part of being insecure, If you don`t do something about your jealousy then you`re boyfriend is going to go, people can only take so much.
When these feeling start you need to train your mind to think or do something else. Have you any hobbies that you can throw yourself into.
put some favourite music on and sing till you drop.
Just take your mind off thinking.... Good Luck
2006-12-18 18:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needn't be jealous of someone neither of you even know, tell him how you feel about your singing and what you want, and forget Leona, everyone else will soon enuf!
2006-12-18 04:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by eeore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF???
Who are you jealous of? What the HE77 are you talking about? Stop acting the fool!
2006-12-18 04:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self esteem, self confidence and being comfortable with who you are will make your jealous emotions go away.
2006-12-18 04:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find him in one spot all alone and tell him you want to sing to him
2006-12-18 04:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by lula_lil_scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help
2006-12-18 04:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by tjtwix1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ding dong
2006-12-18 04:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋