Should I worry about this? It would be nice to hear her say it to me. I say how pretty she is and how much I want and need her in my life. i feel like I need to hear it and I don't know if it is normal.
2006-12-18 04:51:04 · 12 answers · asked by jozwiak36 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Every person has different ways of expressing how they feel about someone. That is what makes dating and loving so complicated, you never know if they are saying everything you want to hear, just in a different language, or if they simply don't feel those things. Some people buy things, others write poetry, and very few just say it outright. Also, don't expect her to want to say these things jsut because you are, she may very well be just in her way. Give it time, let it ride out and keep letting her know how you feel but not persistanly. Or rather overbearingly. Calm down, she has been with yuo for two years, may not mean it will last forever but she obviously digs something you got.
Jonesy
2006-12-18 05:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jonesy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Saying stuff like that is usually a turn off to woman, so therefore most women wont say those things for fear of being called clingy or psychotic. If you want her to say she wants you (as in sexually) then just ket her know, Shes not psychic ya know. I also think its a little clingy of you to need to hear that, and you should be happy that she loves you and not so picky about words, actions speak louder after all.
2006-12-18 12:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by lana_zug_zug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry if she has never told u that shes needs or wants u probably shes just affraid to tell u and also she might be affraid to let u know and what might happen next but probably shes just also affraid to let u go and to lose u. but whenever she tell u she loves and look deeply into ur eyes shes telling u the true.
2006-12-18 13:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by deliciious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. Why don't you just talk to her and let her know how you feel, tell her that you would really like to hear that once in a while. If she really loves you she will do it.
Good luck
2006-12-18 12:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a big deal... maybe you need to look at her actions rather then words... because they speak louder..... my old man and me say we love each other but the other stuff is hardly said......
She loves you and you know that and she is prolly showing you that she wants and needs you through affection.... try paying more attention to her actions the words......
2006-12-18 12:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be concerned. If she felt as strongly as you do, she would tell you. I'd recommend mentioning it to her but be prepared for an answer you won't want to hear but in the longrun, may be better for both of you.
2006-12-18 12:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Yogi Bruce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she says she loves you, if she didn't want you she wouldn't have spent two years with you and no woman NEEDS a man. So now you have it. Leave it alone and be happy!
2006-12-18 12:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By her stating that she loves you in essence it is the same
No Worries
2006-12-18 12:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry she just wants you to think that she can do it on her own just want when she does need you she will let you know
2006-12-18 12:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal all people need to be reassured.
but u dont think that you should make a big deal out of it.
2006-12-18 12:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋