Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

My live in bf makes a lot less than i do, and in the beginning it was cool cause i could handle our expenses, but now its becoming a burden..how can i demand he help me out? i do not want to nag? or throw in his face ? when the discussion arises he says he feels less of a man and i feel bad and forget the issue, but i am reaching a point where i am fed up.

2006-12-18 10:08:34 · 11 answers · asked by justaxica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well this guy i went out with and he still likes me but i dont like hi and my friends act like i do cause i call him and talk to him if i talk to him and call him that doesnt mean that i like him does it and he always tells my bff that i am hot and stuff and she thinks that i will say that i like him when she says that he says that i am hot all the time and it gets annoying i just need help telling my friends that i dont like him what do i do ?

2006-12-18 10:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i become a prostitue instead?

2006-12-18 10:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anthony V 4 in Singles & Dating

so, there a guy i like. he's one grade lower than me and i'm not positive i like him yet cuz i don't know him that well but i know him. i dunno how to talk to him cuz i only seee him once or twice a day. my best friend doesn't approve of him. shes annoying about it. i have friends that are friends with him. how do i talk to him? what do i say? ADVICE?

2006-12-18 10:05:56 · 20 answers · asked by Brianna T 3 in Singles & Dating

but you met online
and she talks alot about/to you

does it mean she really really likes you or loves you ?

2006-12-18 10:05:46 · 10 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

Just out of curiousity, how many people think that lingerie is a good gift for a man to give to a woman?
OR
should a woman buy herself lingerie as a gift for a man?
OR
no lingerie?

2006-12-18 10:04:42 · 11 answers · asked by Boludo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and girl have been going out for about a year now. In the past they always walk beside each other and sit close at the lunch table. Now they walk farther apart and at lunch sit farther apart. They still hang out in the same group though. Something seems to be different about them but idk. Could they be broken up? I am wondering cause i like the guy.

2006-12-18 10:04:40 · 6 answers · asked by mcgwire40 1 in Singles & Dating

last nite i recieved a message on my myspace from a guy at school and he said tht my boyfriend looks like a crackhead wut should i do i anna fight him but i dont know

2006-12-18 10:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by karebear 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my best friend britney have be friends since like 4ever but there's one problem. my mom dosent like her any more because so say she say so bad on the anwering thing. but me and britney r like girls u know. i just need help to see if i shown ask my mom if she could gave britney a 2nd change bc she has like change like alot. like now she is a start a student and she change u know what i mean.please help me i dont know what to do

2006-12-18 10:03:54 · 5 answers · asked by LilTee 2 in Friends

I live with my boyfriend and father of my baby for four months. four months ago he took an attractive girl out for lunch and did not tell me about it. Two months ago he was expecially late from school and would not answer his phone calls. When he got home he said it was because he left his phone at school and I asked him why it took two hours to get it he then confessed he took a girl that goes to his school (not in his class though) out for a coffee. Then a few days ago he went to lock the front door of the building(we are resident managers of an apartment building) a job that takes 5 minutes took forty. So I called him 3 times on his cell phone and he did not awnser so I was worried and was going to look for him. As I went to the elevator and hit the button I heard the phone ring in the apartment so I ran to get it and it was him. I asked him what was taking him so long and he said he was walking the hallways and checking for vagrants and that he was now in the boiler room. I asked h

2006-12-18 10:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by jennyve25 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I NEED A GIFT FOR A GIRL THAT I AM VERY GOOD FREINDS WITH BUT I DONT WANT TO SEEM LIKE I WANT TO BE HER BF THOUGH THAT WOULD MARVALOUS!!!! I WANT A GIFT THAT WILL SOMEHOW MAYBE GET THE FISH TO BITE THE HOOK IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN MY FELLOW ANGLERS BUT I DONT WANT TO SOUND OR SEEM DESPRATE


PLEASE NO SEX OR DIRTY IDEAS THNX

2006-12-18 10:01:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do they not always tell you how much they like you...are they embarrased?i dont mean because their shy.

2006-12-18 10:01:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i neeeed my halfffffffff

2006-12-18 10:01:26 · 20 answers · asked by khepery 1 in Singles & Dating

well this fight is wierd because shes mad at me but why? i dont know!thats the problem.wel i dont know if i should call or wait till she does?please some advice!!!!!!!!I NEED IT!

2006-12-18 10:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do people think that abstinance and celibacy are so bad?. I am happy being celibate. i have a right to my choice.

2006-12-18 10:00:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was going to ask a guy out today but i got sick last night and didn't go to school today! I am only 12 but he realy likes me i think anyway should i ask him tomorrow? Help!

2006-12-18 10:00:09 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah K 1 in Singles & Dating

My baby's daddy, and my ex-best friend of 20 years, have recently started dating. I let that go because, frankly, they deserve each other. But, more recently, I discovered there is drug use going on. For the safety of my child, I went to court and requested that he be enrolled in a drug program, and if he followed the guidelines, we would continue to share custody. He agreed, and he currently has her 3 days, and I have her 4 days. He gets drug tested randomly, etc. Here is my problem...he and my ex-friend are going out of their way to harass me, indirectly. It is all petty and ridiculous. I don't respond but it is non-stop. I am trying to find a way to find peace and serenity. My instincts tell me to fight back, but you can't win. I only want to provide a safe and healthy enviornment for my children, but the stuff they are doing keeps me up at nite, stresses me out at work, etc. How do I let them do what they have to do, and still find peace in my own life?

2006-12-18 09:59:50 · 15 answers · asked by gemini.52469 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how does a middle schooler flirt, but doesnt want it to be to obvious?????

2006-12-18 09:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by Sahar 3 in Singles & Dating

Me & my bf are in middle school. WE have been going out for 2 months. We spend a lot of time together, talking on the phone, and talking over email. Also @ school, and we hug everytime we have 2 part after being together. (3/4 times a day) We also hold hands a lot out of school.This (hugs & stuff) has been going on for about a month....maybe more.
Weelll......today he had 2 go 2 the dentist and missed the only class we had togther. I walked him 1/2 way to the office and when he hugged I kissed him on the cheek really fast, then walked away 2 my next class.
After school I saw him, and he acted really wierd.......he stuttered a lot, and I barely got a hug. We were in a crowded hallway, so it was even more confusing.
Did I make a mistake?? Y do u think he acted so different??

2006-12-18 09:58:47 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister is a christian, which I thought was all about love and families, but she's really gone off the deep end this time. My daughter and I have been uninvited to Christmas Dinner because my choice not to be a christian offends her.
Two weeks ago she wanted to foster my daughter because of all the evil I was inviting into my life!!???? This co-incided with her learning from another 'christian' friend that she could get an extra $150 a week for having her. She told my girl that 'mum can't look after you anymore' and even swapped bedrooms around to accomodate her.
Our parents told her to give my girl back straight away and now she hates them as well as me.
I've told her I love her and her family, and that I care about her but she won't listen - it's like she wants this to go on for ever. When I ring she just spits on about how evil I am. Should I get outside help? Talk to her pastor? Or just have our own christmas, just the two of us and my boyfriend? But its CHRISTMAS!!

2006-12-18 09:58:39 · 12 answers · asked by Merrin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

than mine."

2006-12-18 09:58:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is she going to call or not? and would it be nice if i left flowers and a present at her doorstep

i had a fun date with thig girl and we talked for a while and we madeout after the date and i wished her farewell on her trip to toronto canada . this morning i deleted some viruses on my hard drive and it deleted her number in the process now ladies if u have been on 2 dates with a guy would u call him or do u still want us to call u thats if ur intrested

now she is comeing back in town nextweek she went to toront to visit her parents she is comeing in town next week she lives in town

2006-12-18 09:58:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who happens to be a girl, and i am a guy, we have been friends for 7 years, i care about her alot as a friend and we have never been together as a couple. As you know, Christmas is coming up and i have been debating on what to get her, she has gone through alot this past year and i want to get her something relaxing and i dont want to spend more than $100 and im kind of at a loss, i want to suprise her..... help me out here gals.

Thanks in advance

2006-12-18 09:58:02 · 5 answers · asked by Raymond 3 in Friends

how do you make the feelings go away when u dont love someone anymore but they never loved you anyway please help.

2006-12-18 09:57:06 · 18 answers · asked by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 in Singles & Dating

there is a boy that likes me but i dont like him wat do i do

2006-12-18 09:56:39 · 30 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

When we first started dating my guy always returned my calls within a few hours. Now it's getting to the point where if I call him in the morning he doesn't return my calls until at night. Could it be that he's losing interest. I've been thinking about not calling him at all and letting him initiate the phone calls. I really like him and did something stupid that could've triggered him to no longer return my phone calls promptly. What can I do to make it up to him? Or is it too late?

2006-12-18 09:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

I gave this guy that i really like a note asking for his cell # at the end of class....he kinda joked about it....like omg I wonder who this is from....stuff like that and idk what to think...got any opinions?

2006-12-18 09:54:23 · 14 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are both in our mid thirties and we have both never been married nor have kids. We are very much in love. We have been together for 7 month he moved in last month. He reeelly annoys me. He is so nice and sweet - he cleans, he buys me flowers to say how mcuh he cares, we hang out great together. But he is turningme into a NAG. I am starting to not like being with him because I start nagging him because he annoys me. I know he has invaded my space, but I wan to be with him - what is happening to me - and how I can I fix it- but tell him to stop what he's doing that annoys me?
SAVE ME FROM MYSELF

2006-12-18 09:54:18 · 29 answers · asked by woozeylucy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i might be having sex for the first time on new years eve when i crash at my friends house. If my girlfriend and i sleep separate from everyone else, would it be weird or awkward to have sex then and there?
Also, people say girl on top is best for the first time because the girl can control the speed and everything. Others say missionary because it is less painful on the girl. What is the best position?

2006-12-18 09:53:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We smiled and he seemed really interested at the beginning of the year (at my school, he's in two of my classes), but I don't even know any more. Like one day last week he showed up at a lot of the places I was at and tried to be near me, etc.

The next day he sort of ignored me, and today it was like I was a brick wall. I have a feeling he wants to see if I'll bite back, but he's gone before I can talk to him. Am I reading into this too much? Does he just think I'll be a good friend?

I really need to get this off my mind..I have an exam to study for. :(

2006-12-18 09:53:29 · 2 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating