how do you make the feelings go away when u dont love someone anymore but they never loved you anyway please help.
2006-12-18 09:57:06 · 18 answers · asked by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there was never love, or now it's gone then why is there a feeling left to go away?
2006-12-18 10:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him anymore then why do you have feeling for him? But if you still love him but he didn't love you back, then you have to make yourself get off your duff, stop feeling bad for yourself, and go out and have fun. Meet new people, become active in your life not his. You are the only one that can make you feel better. You control your feelings, yes I know you hurt of a broken heart but it is you that has the power to mend it. Go out with your girl friends, dance, swim, run, jump up and down. It really doesn't matter. Just do it. Once you find your mind on something more important in your life you will find that he was just a passing experience to where you really need to be. You will meet someone else if you like and the experience you had with him will go a long way to help you understand you and your new personal love. Go look into the mirror and tell yourself you are better than you think, you deserve better and go for it.
Good luck
2006-12-18 18:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what do you want to go away, there is no ill feelings there anyway, you do not love him anymore and he never loved you from the start, so there, that should be easy enough, Nothing has to go away because nothing was ever there.
2006-12-18 18:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts, especially if your on a one way street. Hurt feelings seems to go away with time. A replacement doesn't really work and isn't really fair. Call your cousins. Be around fun people that have a positive outlook or if you'd rather be alone, get locked up with a romance novel.
Good Luck Honey - hope things work out for you!!!
2006-12-18 18:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just try to remember how you were treated and try not to think about how it was fun. Try to just move on and use those feeling with someone esle who will probably treat you better and tell you they love you all the time. But feeling are emotions just feeding off the brain so move on and don't worry. If you need to chat IM me or e-mail me anytime
2006-12-18 18:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings, that means you do love them. If they never loved you, then try and be their friend. Wait for them to break up if they have a boyfriend/girlfriend, but don't do anything to speed up the process. Become great friends with them, and then ask them out. Trust me, it'll work.
2006-12-18 18:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop thinking about them and get rid of things that will remind you of them. Remember that you have your family and friends who love you. Give more of your love to them. Spend more time helping other people. There are many others who will appreciate your love and kindness.
2006-12-18 18:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have a good cry, eat some ice cream, and hang with your friends. Forget about the other person. Its in the past.
2006-12-18 18:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by hoopstar126 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things.
1) emotoin killing. dont do this. I tried it and boy did it mess thigns up.
2) try going out with other friends. your friends can be the best cure for a one way love.
2006-12-18 18:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Hideo Okino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feelings of loving or not loving?
sounds pretty easy to me, since no feelings exist presenlty on both ends.
2006-12-18 18:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by g_liwk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋