What would you do or think?

Question

I live with my boyfriend and father of my baby for four months. four months ago he took an attractive girl out for lunch and did not tell me about it. Two months ago he was expecially late from school and would not answer his phone calls. When he got home he said it was because he left his phone at school and I asked him why it took two hours to get it he then confessed he took a girl that goes to his school (not in his class though) out for a coffee. Then a few days ago he went to lock the front door of the building(we are resident managers of an apartment building) a job that takes 5 minutes took forty. So I called him 3 times on his cell phone and he did not awnser so I was worried and was going to look for him. As I went to the elevator and hit the button I heard the phone ring in the apartment so I ran to get it and it was him. I asked him what was taking him so long and he said he was walking the hallways and checking for vagrants and that he was now in the boiler room. I asked h

I asked him what he was doing and he said smoking then cut me off to say hed be up soon sweety. I felt something was off and went down to the boiler room and he was leaving it with some other attractive girl tenent. They both looked weird and quiet. Then she called the day after to tell him his lights were on in his car. I went to turn them off because I thought she was saying that to get him out of the house to talk. She did. she went on the elevator to meet him and when she saw it was me just went down to the lobby then back to her floor. Then i told him not to talk to her and he said he wouldnt and he did because he had her phone number written on a receipt in his car ( i know it was written after but cant explain why and then he admitted it.) Now he went to unlock the door at 6 30 am and later i got a call it was locked, He said he must have forgotten to lock it when he did the walk around and the boiler room. I think he met her. Please tell me what you think is happening here.

Answer 1

There's an old saying that goes "If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck." It sure seems like something not-so-funny is going on. You might consider stepping up your investigation, but do so subtly, so as not to arouse suspicion or put him on the defensive.

Answer 2

do u think he is cheating just remember and its been said by lots of women and men once a cheater always :S im not sure hope u and ure baby are fine though :D

Answer 3

They're not sitting around talking about the weather, they're up to something and it's no good.

Answer 4

kick the lying cheat to the curb. you & your baby deserve better.

Answer 5

Cut to the chase. What do YOU think is all that is important, isn't it???

Answer 6

he's cheating.