Me & my bf are in middle school. WE have been going out for 2 months. We spend a lot of time together, talking on the phone, and talking over email. Also @ school, and we hug everytime we have 2 part after being together. (3/4 times a day) We also hold hands a lot out of school.This (hugs & stuff) has been going on for about a month....maybe more.
Weelll......today he had 2 go 2 the dentist and missed the only class we had togther. I walked him 1/2 way to the office and when he hugged I kissed him on the cheek really fast, then walked away 2 my next class.
After school I saw him, and he acted really wierd.......he stuttered a lot, and I barely got a hug. We were in a crowded hallway, so it was even more confusing.
Did I make a mistake?? Y do u think he acted so different??
2006-12-18 09:58:47 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no hun, he's just shy and unsure. you're still young, take things slow. you'll kiss when the time is right.
2006-12-18 10:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg. He has never kissed a girl before! Ok, his reaction says alot. First of all, consider it a tease. Forget it ever happened and know the ball is in his court now. He has to take the next step in acting like nothing. Don't push the situation. Guys get scared off very easy. You have to follow his lead now in order to be safe. I know you're probably getting impatient, but give him a little more time before you walk
2006-12-18 18:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one, I would need more info, but no, you didn't do anything wrong, and all we can do is guess.
My first question is if you kissed before, and if you haven't, it may just be shyness,
Something else to consider, he probably did something to be ashamed of (may be he saw somebody you aren't supposed to know about and he thinks you saw him, or did something else that is inappropriate.) By the way he is acting I can see clearly that you didn't do anything wrong, but may be he did. I don't know, we can only guess.
One more thing. Keep yourself pure, this is something you will never regret, and if someone asks to take your purity, that person definitely doesn't deserve you and more importantly, that person doesn't love you.
2006-12-18 18:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see here, you don't mention about he was going to the Dentist maybe he had to get a Novocaine or feels embarrassed about going to the dentist.
honestly i don't think you did anything wrong by kissing him, he prolly never been to that base with any girl,so he kinda got that reaction of how do i react or was nervous.
Or if you did it in front of people them I'm sure he could of felt uncomfortable with the situations,some people are not
2006-12-20 14:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was embarassed by the kiss, or his body's positive reaction to it (it's a guy thing, and particularly uncontrollable at his age). It doesn't mean you did anything wrong.
If he continues to act weird around you, ask him about it. He may be too embarassed to tell you the real reason, but he should start acting normal around you again soon.
2006-12-18 18:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a good question... mabey something happened at the dentist or someone told him something shocking about u or rather anything. im in middle school too. so i can relate. try asking him wuts up, if ur to shy maybey ask his friends. hope that helps. :)
2006-12-18 18:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sahar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, its new the next time you do it he will probally beat you to it. cudos to you and starting a new life as an adult and feeling adult feelings. be gentle guys in middle school are so sweet still and haven't developed bad habits. you did nothing wrong you just took your relationship to the next level.
2006-12-18 18:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it is because he has never been kissed by a girl b4 and he is so use to likehugging and stuff so dont worry and if u do then just tlk to him about it and see if he is ok have fun
lol (lots of love)
allyson
2006-12-18 18:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you probably just caught him off gaurd. Go talk to him...everything will OK. He just wasn't expecting a kiss that's all.
2006-12-18 18:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww babe i doubt that is your fault, theres no way i can answer your questin for sure the best thing to do is to ask him. Im sure its nothing big. Good Luck xxxxxxxx
2006-12-18 18:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋