so, there a guy i like. he's one grade lower than me and i'm not positive i like him yet cuz i don't know him that well but i know him. i dunno how to talk to him cuz i only seee him once or twice a day. my best friend doesn't approve of him. shes annoying about it. i have friends that are friends with him. how do i talk to him? what do i say? ADVICE?
2006-12-18 10:05:56 · 20 answers · asked by Brianna T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it dose not matter about what ur friends think there not in ur shoes dont let they judge who u like and want to be wit and i think it would be easy to talk to him one on one and let him kno that u like him and u have feelings for him some people might say it wont work out but they dont kno u dont kno wats goin to happen between u 2 u just have to wait and see good luck and follow ur Harte
2006-12-18 10:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh gosh.
I was almost in this exact same position. A boy younger than me, yeah..well typically because you're older people will wonder what motivated you to like this boy. & you tell them and they will be quiet. Your best friend out of all people should approve of him unless he's not a good influence. You will never know if you don't talk to him right? aah, I know. It's so hard! The best thing to do would wait a couple days. Build up the strength to talk to him. Now you're asking talk to him about what. Don't say hey because that will be awkward... because the only thig he has to say back would be Hi.. Say something that he will respond back with more than a one word answer. Best yet, try to get the friends that you and him are friends with together at a movie, the mall, etc. and introduce yourself, be energetic. :] Hope I helped!
2006-12-18 18:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lexii :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You clearly don't think much of your friend's advice. You should ask yourself why. I think the best thing you can do is not to jump into something you know nothing about, especially a relationship with a guy. Find out what your friend has against this guy and ask around and see what other people say about him. If I were you I would do this before I did anything about contacting this guy or any guy for that matter. As far as talking to this guy why don't you just go up to him and start talking? Ask him something about his classes or if he is interested in sports and what sports. Ask him what he does after school and on the weekends. Ask him what he does to have fun. Use your imagination.
2006-12-18 18:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bump into him in the hallway and drop all of your books, if he helps you he's a keeper, if he walks away he's a loser. Unless of course he gets nervous, pees himself then can't say anything. Then in that case he's just flustered.
Just bump into him and talk to him, get the conversation going and you'll be in. Tell him you want to get to know him. Tell him you've been watching him. He'll like it, i bet!!
Of course, I don't think anyone should date seriously until they're in their Late 20's but it's ok to have flings and fun.
Go get him!!!
Oh and forget what you're friends think, they're not the one that has to live with your choice of guy. He's just a person, go talk to him already. Would you rather know what is going to happen or speculate and eventually regret not talking to him your whole life.
Carpe Diem!!
2006-12-18 18:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friends you have that are his friends, try hanging out places he is at along with them. Get to know him better become a friend to him and see what happens. You gotta start somewhere and its best to start as friends or do things that you both find in common. Break the ice comfortably, and if he is a good friend to you, your friend if she is true should accept that.
2006-12-18 18:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by angeltears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your friends that know him and casually start a conversation. that way you'll get to know him better and see whether or not you like him based on his personality. if your attracted to the guy, see if you feel the same vibes and if you too seem to connect. good luck!
2006-12-18 18:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small talk. Hey what's up? What did you do last weekend? Bring up something...Get to know a person before you say you like 'em.
2006-12-18 18:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by mimi_sweethart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you really like the guy and if you do is he worth dating even if he is only one grade lower than yours?.
2006-12-18 18:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis's Love Potion #9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like everyone said say hi hey whats up or something like that then say so do you like_______________ what ever your favorit music , subject is or some thing like that then try to get to know him. my friend liked this guy so she started writing him notes and gets me to give them to him every day even though she didnt know anything about him.
2006-12-18 18:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your friend about it, ask her the reasons why she doesn't like him. She might have some valid points. IF they aren't good and you still like him. Start up a conversation about one of your friends. and go from their
2006-12-18 18:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by khstennis01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋