Ok well this guy i went out with and he still likes me but i dont like hi and my friends act like i do cause i call him and talk to him if i talk to him and call him that doesnt mean that i like him does it and he always tells my bff that i am hot and stuff and she thinks that i will say that i like him when she says that he says that i am hot all the time and it gets annoying i just need help telling my friends that i dont like him what do i do ?
2006-12-18 10:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to tell your friends that you are sick and tired of them saying that you like him because it's not true. tell them you really want them to stop because it hurts your feelings when they say you like him and it's not true. but if you say that to your friends and they still keep on saying you like him, you should get serious and tell them you really want them to stop.
i had the same situation, so i said stuff like this:
"Guys, can you stop saying that I like (guys name)? Because I really don't and I'm sick and tired of you guys saying that. And it hurts my feelings too, because you still keep on saying that i like him even though i dont. it seems like whenever i spend time with you guys all you do is say i like him. im sick and tired of it, will you please stop?"
2006-12-18 10:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by C♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl its the same way for me and how i handle it i tell my friends that if u truly iz my friend then u would understand that i dont have feelings for him anymore. And also u need to tell ur ex that u dotn have feelings for hima nd if he want to keep a relationship with u then he needs to let it go and let things work out as friends and stopping telling ur friends everything. If u need to talk to someone im its careangelautumn
2006-12-18 18:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your leading him on a bit. Let him call you, Talk to him then, so you can say, "Well he called me I didn't wanna be rude". Date someone else, then your friends won't be messin with you like that. Get over the teasing about guys, Your gonna grow out of it bothering you, later on it won't bother you cause a guy liking you is something to be jealous about. And if I were you, I'd give that guy a chance, you never know who could be your Prince Charming. Life hands out Fairytales very seldom, Some people let theirs pass with realizing it, Don't be one of those people, you never know.
2006-12-18 18:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by blonde_bubbles89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with you talking to him just dont lead him on. And just spill it out to your friends that you just dont like the guy anymore but the best thing to do is to tell him first just explain to him hes a kewl guy but you dont see him in anyother way than a friend. Good Luck xxx
2006-12-18 18:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might have to be a little more convincing like 1. stop talking to him around them. 2. stop calling him around them. 3. act like he fell off the face of the earth and they will find something else to talk about.
2006-12-18 18:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit calling the guy, what you are doing is leading him on. If you feel uncomfortable with this tell him that you want to remain friends, and you would appreciate some space.
2006-12-18 18:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by HAGAR!!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay clear of him. He is bad news.First all quit calling him.You must like him if you call him.So are you hot stuff in this dudes eyes? Your friends need to know that you haven't had contact with this dude. My only question is why are you trying to persuade your friends that you don't like him? When if fact I think you do.You either like him or you don't..end of story.
2006-12-18 18:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to tell him you truley don't like him and you think he needs to move on. Because you may not be his type, maybe another girl will. that's the nicest way. You don't wanna say he's not your type cause that can hurt.
2006-12-18 18:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your friends that just because you talk or call a guy doesn't mean you like them as a bf, some girls do have control .
2006-12-18 18:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont panic just tell them that you dont like him they should be able to take a hint with that dont worry what they will say.
2006-12-18 18:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Vader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋