Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I have a friend who as we get close she touches me more. Like when we talk she'll put her hand on my shoulder or slide her hand down my arm or taps my hand or something like that. I have a tendancy to scowl and today she noticed that and she put her hand on my forhead to "rub away" my scowl. I don't know if she does this with anyone else, but I haven't noticed it at work. and when looking at something she'll put her arm on my shoulder and lean on me or stand really close to where her body is touching mine.
I've never been around someone whose touchy, feely so I don't know. i do kind of get a vibe that she's into girls, but then again she's a very outgoing person and will talk to anyone. So i don't know if she's just being nice or not. Yes, I'm a girl and i like her. But do straight or not, girls do this to friends or to people they like? She does call me names like, dude, man, babe, hon a lot. I don't know if that's a culture thing or what?

2006-12-18 11:47:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you look for in girls?

Ive been having trouble with the guys lately...

1)i am a level 11 gymnast. my arm muscles are a foot and a half in circumference.
2)i wrestle(well, i used to)
3)perfect hygene
4)VERY tiny. i am 16 and weigh 82 lb.
5)i am short
6)i have a 'flat' chest
7)i have glasses(oh how i hate them)
8)boys think its disgusting how strong i am

2006-12-18 11:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by rachel v 1 in Singles & Dating

What Are signs that he at least cares about me ?

2006-12-18 11:47:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, I moved away to another city (still in the same state) right when I started high school. One day a good female friend of mine introduced me to someone amazing. She was beautiful, funny, and really the only girl I talked to. We spoke almost every day and even flirted a bit.

The next year (Sophomore), it seemed like we got even closer. I started to realize that I did like her a lot, and getting even closer would be great. I started building up my confidence to ask her out, but early last month she said she was moving, about four states away. I was crushed. I told her that I really liked her and that I'd miss her. She seemed relieved, but sad that she was leaving.

We traded email addresses, and after she moved she sent me an email saying that she really missed me and her friends. After a few weeks of talking, I sent her an email that basically poured out my feelings. Now I haven't heard from her in almost a month, neither has her best friend. Did I mess up our friendship?

2006-12-18 11:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by The Real Deal. 2 in Singles & Dating

k so my boyfriend is young and healthy except for one thing... he smokes. I know there are worse things out there then smoking but i want him to live long and healthy and plus it stinks really bad and i can hardly kiss him anymore because of the taste! so i have been trying to help him quite, he tells me he wants to, but i always catch him smoking. We have gotten in to many fights over this so i told him "look im not going to mother you anymore, you need to quite because you want to quite, not because i want you to quite. you know how i feel so if you think its right to keep smoking then i guess whatever!" He wants to quite i know that but im sick of mothering him, should i let it go or keep trying to get him to stop. and again i can't take the smell much more!!!

2006-12-18 11:47:09 · 4 answers · asked by swimchick 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl (i don't know )if she likes me or not, she was my partner in my science class, she payed some attention to me.I'm in 7th grade.is this normal to like someone?

2006-12-18 11:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Lil mob 1 in Singles & Dating

am not a mother but i always wondered about such a thing,i mean some ppl really believes that their children won't repeat the mistake if they get beaten and other ppl thinks the best way to teach ur children the right things is by talkin to them so i just wanna know why is it wrong to beat ur children?

2006-12-18 11:46:51 · 17 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Family

Thanks for the feedback on prior question. To expand upon it, girlfriend has stated multiple times over the past two years she will file for divorce, but has yet to hire an attorney, have discussion in detail with spouse, etc. etc. When she has committed to doing so, she never comes through. Something always comes up or she 'just couldn't do it'. I know this sounds hypocritical, but I really don't want anyone getting hurt either, although that is unavoidable. Here is the dilemma, I really do love her--definite, one in a lifetime soulmate type of deal, however, I feel like scum, am losing self-dignity, and feel like I certainly deserve better than this. If I put an end to it, it really will be the end. I know myself, and will not be able to have a 'break' in the relationship. So, if I move on, it most likely is permanently over, which is sad to think about because I really believe she is the one, despite the pain and b.s. I've endured. Any more thoughts or suggestions are appreciated

2006-12-18 11:45:08 · 18 answers · asked by J D Jr. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a single mother of 3 kids and My friend keeps arguing with me about me finding a man. I told her that there aint many men who will date someone with kids(Me) she says I gotta look harder? Should I give up or try to find someone? (please no rude remarks:} )

2006-12-18 11:44:37 · 1 answers · asked by angelbabyjeb 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it proper ettiquette for the groom's family to pay for the tuxedo rental?

2006-12-18 11:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by yagman 7 in Weddings

My sister and I fight constantly, we verbally abuse each other and rarely go a day without screaming at each other...I guess you can say that we know how to push each other's buttons. I would like to be her friend...but don't know what to do...help???? Does it end??? Is this normal????

2006-12-18 11:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I haven't seen my ex boyfriend in almost a year and he wants to "meet up" with me next week. I'm so shocked and confused as to why he wants to see me. We only dated for a month and it was a very innocent relationship, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. Neways, he would still contact me on msn even though HE was the one who ended it. A few days ago I logged on msn and he said "we should meet up if I have time". I said sure, and now we're meeting up next week. It's Christams break and he said he's gonna go to Hong Kong on Dec. 30th and travel for 3 weeks. So why does he wanna see me after one year and especialy before he goes on his trip???

2006-12-18 11:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 11:40:02 · 58 answers · asked by belter777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 11:39:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey im lee im 14 and i feel kinda weird aboit school this year... last year i was to busy to relize how much people talked about boys and dident notice all the girls kissing there b/f in the halls... im in 8th grade and feel weird because i dont have a b/f....i dont wanna do any of that gross stuff like "oral" i know im way to young for that but i really just want a hug or a kiss from a boy.. i have befor but that was in 6th grade.. i feel like were all going to fast but i also feel left behind.... i dont no if it is what i look like or how i act.... im extreamily outgoing and energetic... i like playing football with the boys and stuff but at the same time i go shopping and stuff.. im a great softball player and my friends say on a scale of 0 to 10 im a 8 on how pritty i am.... dose it have to do with me being really active and hanging out with alot of guys... i dont act all like boyish but i do skateboard... am i missing out or just making myself misrable?

2006-12-18 11:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by MICKIE JAMES #1 FAN 4 in Singles & Dating

i am a 15 year old

2006-12-18 11:39:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 11:38:22 · 7 answers · asked by confused 1 in Friends

i've been seeing this really nice guy (he's such a sweetheart) for only about 3 weeks. He's 16 and i'm 15, he went throught depression when his grandfather died of a heart attack. He started cutting himself when it happened but has stopped now, he also used to smoke and do pot. i try to get him to talk about it but he never will, he said i wouldnt understand and then i get all upset about it and tell him to go away. i recently have been going through drepression and a few years ago loss an uncle who i was really close to and he knows that. so how come he thinks i wouldn't understand? also i found out that last night he was smoking pot at my friends place which i dont want him to do. i'm worried but i dont wanna nag him about it wat can i do??

2006-12-18 11:38:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy a lot...and I have for a few months now, and it's to the point where I think everyone but him knows. I need a simple way to tell him, especially since lately we've both been really busy and don't get to see each other as much as we used to (a lot of texting & phone calls). Any ideas? Maybe something cute with Christmas coming up?

2006-12-18 11:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by Trackstar05 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm partial to latin women and i'm learning spanish, just wondered if any like white guys. from other posts on here it doesn't really sound like it.

2006-12-18 11:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by John J 2 in Singles & Dating

what would be the best way for a guy to ask a girls parents if they could be able to date?

2006-12-18 11:37:26 · 7 answers · asked by Joel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 11:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by LALALALALALALALALALA 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 11:35:48 · 33 answers · asked by chryi812 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I hang out on weekends, and we always go to the movies at the dollar theatre or we stay home and watch TV. Its gotten boring. I'm 17 and he's 19. We both are pretty much broke, and we just don't have any fun ideas. We live in Colorado Springs. Does anyone have any exciting ideas for us to try? Please keep it clean, last time I asked this, I got a whole bunch of dirty answers. I want to actually have fun with my guy, not just screw around with him.

2006-12-18 11:35:00 · 12 answers · asked by Megan T 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy w/ a locker next to mine, and he started talking 2 me at the beginning of the year. When we talked, he would smile, try to make me laugh, his eyes would get bigger, he would usually start the conversation, and he would say 'see ya' b4 he left. After a while he stopped talking, and I wrote him a note asking if he was mad at me, and he just said 'hey' to me at our lockers the next day. We haven't really talked too much after that, but we did make eye contact as I passed him today. P.S. We don't have any classes together and are both 'new kids'.
What's going on, and how can I get him talking?
Thanks!!

2006-12-18 11:34:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which is worse... your husband going to a topless bar and coppin a feel, flirting with the dancers, and even having a dancer rub herself all over him... or meeting a girl at a club and french kissing her? Is one more serious than the other? Is one more intimate than the other? Need some opinions.

2006-12-18 11:34:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's a guy that I like and he's said that I can ask him anything I want and he'll tell me the truth. Basically, we're doing truth or dare, without the dares. What are some good questions to ask him?

2006-12-18 11:34:03 · 4 answers · asked by evvykat 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I kiss each other very often, but sometimes, or most of the times, he rubs my legs while he is kissing me, (we are sitting down, oh and by the way I'm a virgin and he respects that) but then usually when he is doing that, then he starts rubing them more and harder, and he kisses me more passionatelly, breathing harder...

Does this mean that he is having a hard-on or just that he likes kissing me? if in your case you were having a hard-on what would you do stop kissing? and how... you know haow do you cool IT off? does it hurt for men (cause we didn't have no sex)?

2006-12-18 11:33:42 · 5 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, please no one leave an insulting answer. I don't need that right now. My fiance and i have been together for almost 3 years. I love him, but sometimes i feel like he looks at me like a burden more then anything. I've met someone online and really have taken a liking to him. I'm starting to see more in him that i love then my fiance. He wants to take care of me, and show me the world. He wants to be spontanious and make me laugh. I'm in ontario and he's in SC, so if i was to be with him, that would be a big move for me, both for the reasons of having to end a serious relationship with my fiance and also leaving my family. Although, i know i can come back up here when ever i want. I need an outsiders point of view on this, what should i do?

2006-12-18 11:33:31 · 24 answers · asked by ~*Stephie*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

we talk a lot on IM but in school(8th grade) we dont talk much... she is really cute/hot and i am not that great... but we r both great at sports and stuff and we have a lot in common... i dont wanna be just friends but i dont want to rush it either... advice on what i shud do?? or how to find out if she likes me 2??

2006-12-18 11:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by J.T. Rollz 1 in Singles & Dating