what do you look for in girls?
Ive been having trouble with the guys lately...
1)i am a level 11 gymnast. my arm muscles are a foot and a half in circumference.
2)i wrestle(well, i used to)
3)perfect hygene
4)VERY tiny. i am 16 and weigh 82 lb.
5)i am short
6)i have a 'flat' chest
7)i have glasses(oh how i hate them)
8)boys think its disgusting how strong i am
2006-12-18 11:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by rachel v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boy like girly girls, right? well i tried that and it didnt work.
2006-12-18 11:53:20 · update #1
Girl...there is the "right" guy out there for you. Just be confindent in who you are naturally. The more you accept yourself, the easier someone else will.
I know alot of guys including myself that would love to kick some *** in a freindly wrestling match..(hehe) It's nice to have a girl that you don't have to be delicate with...you know?
Just beyourself and "they" will come to you.
2006-12-18 11:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by drifting_saint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, nothing wrong with being athletic, some guys like that. But if you seem to be more like one of the guys than one of the girls in all attributes than that may be the issue.
I mean Its o-k to be into guy things but In my own opinion I have always liked women who are very capable of both.
In other words, when your not doing gymnastics and wrestling or whatever sport you do besides,Try dressing more feminine or wear a little makeup and that kind of thing. It's sometimes a little scary to guys especially younger age guys to not see very much feminine quality's in a girl.Just break the stereo type you may have gotten a little and show them behind all that strength is also a good minded sensative hearted girl as well!
I am sure it will do wonders for the issue and also give you a little better self asteem.
2006-12-18 11:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do something sweetheart. The only thing good on that list is perfect hygene. Lose the glasses, gain some weight, your breasts will come with that. Don't EVER tell a boy you used to wrestle unless it's mud wrestling! Go to target and get some revealing clothes. Push up bra's and what not. Get some confidence too. You'll be sleeping with dudes in no time!
2006-12-18 12:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you've probably heard this before. Unfortunately it's true. Just be yourself, don't try to change to please some boy. You will only regret it later and you will despise him as well. You sound like you are very accomplished. What is wrong with being strong? One piece of advice I will give is that boys are very insecure at this age. Loosing to a girl in any physical test would be very difficult for them to handle so you might want to tone that down a bit. You will find a guy who like you for who you are. Be patient. Whether or not you have a boyfriend doesn't define you. You sound independent. That is a great quality. Good Luck
2006-12-18 11:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by hockey2525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be strong but you're in awesome shape, a definite turn-on to many many guys. Glasses, too, can be very attractive. Being 16 is a pretty tough age, do not get too down on yourself (very very easy to say but very very hard to do) BUT remember that ALL or most 16 year olde's are going through the same type of feelings, no matter how pretty, popular, etc they may be. Everyone has insecurities at various times in one's life.
Either way, trust me, guys love the way you look . . . just hang in there!
2006-12-18 11:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
O quiddit sweetheart. You are probabally very healthy and will live forever. No doubt smart, skilled, talented. If u have no breasts, it's only god being fair, cause you posess skills most women don't. If ur 16, they are on their way. Ur description of urself sounds very attractive. The most attractive things are what you are getting from being a gymnist. The boys will come. If they don't act right, put up one of those 18' guns and say "listen punk, ur gonna feel the sting"
2006-12-18 11:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)girls that aren't muscular is a start.
2)no one likes a girl that can pin them.
3)perfect hygiene is great.
4)gain some weight (helps with # 6, too)
5)can't do anything about height
6)eat food
7)get contacts
8)try to be more girly.
2006-12-18 11:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha, boys don't see past looks. wait a little, whole u find yourself a gentlemen. u don't need a guy who only looks at hot body, and big breasts.
and also, u don't have to be girly girly, just be more feminine. nothing wrong with being your natural self.
2006-12-18 11:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while until you are 18 and can date older men. Boys don't know a good thing if it ran over them.
2006-12-18 11:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your stature not every guy may like you but the ones that do will go head over heels for you.
2006-12-18 11:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋