I haven't seen my ex boyfriend in almost a year and he wants to "meet up" with me next week. I'm so shocked and confused as to why he wants to see me. We only dated for a month and it was a very innocent relationship, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. Neways, he would still contact me on msn even though HE was the one who ended it. A few days ago I logged on msn and he said "we should meet up if I have time". I said sure, and now we're meeting up next week. It's Christams break and he said he's gonna go to Hong Kong on Dec. 30th and travel for 3 weeks. So why does he wanna see me after one year and especialy before he goes on his trip???
2006-12-18 11:43:00 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, It sounds to me like he does miss you. I wouldn't read into it too much.Sometimes people just get to thinking about someone and what they miss about them and so get the urge to want to see them.
Just meet up and see.If it seems to you that it is for reasons of a sexual nature that he wants to see you, Like to see if there is a better chance now than before you will get the hint fairly early on I am sure.And if so, Just say still not interested and say you got to get going and then never reply to another IM. I am sure its not the case though.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 11:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to catch up.
I was also with a guy for a month. After that, we'd talk every now and then. Then over a year later, he said he was bored and wanted to hang out with me. I said sure. We had a blast just hangin' out. It was obvious he still liked me. And if I didn't already have a boyfriend, I probably would've given him another chance. But he's too late. Hehe.
No biggie.
2006-12-18 19:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one reason... He wants to tap that asss! Don't bother to see him. Not to put you down, but why would he want to see you if you only dated for a month and he broke up with you. He regrets not getting in your pants!
2006-12-18 19:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of the greatest gifts are unanswered prayers
2006-12-18 19:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by llsnwtsn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he reallly misses you and he might want to get back with u.....if thats a good thing.
2006-12-18 19:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by chao w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u don't feel the same way as u did b4 about him
2006-12-18 19:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by *Unknown* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2006-12-18 19:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by termite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋