Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

2006-12-16 07:21:26 · 15 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom surrounds herself with clutter, has 8 cats, has a mean negative attitude, and doesnt trust anyone. A friend of mine told me
I was turning into my mom. It hurt me, opened my eyes to try to change, and want to know if
i can escape the route of my mom or am i doomed forever?

2006-12-16 07:21:20 · 12 answers · asked by Yak-Yak 4 in Family

Would you assume that if you were looking in your son's room and he was sleeping with his g/f in his arms, that they had sex?? Would you trust them to be alone together??
Would you assume that if they were ok with this than they already had sex??
I know they are close b/c they have been together for 3 years.
If I ask will he actually tell me the truth?? I was just walking and saw them, not like I invaded his privacy.
They weren't exactly wearing the most clothes ever, but at least some. Should I be ok with this??
Should I tell him what I think or wait for him to come to me??
They are both 16. He's almost 17.
She's on the pill but only b/c her gymnastics coach makes the whole team do it so they can train w/o them pmsing

2006-12-16 07:20:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I made friends with this guy who I started to like. We flirted back and forth and he kissed me and told me that he liked me when I admitted that I liked him. But he had this girl that he was going to start going out with. Until they started going out we madeout and palled around and he said that after they were over he'd ask me out because he met her first. Then he told my best friend and sister that he doesn't like me like that and that he only sees me as a friend and he doesn't want to ruin it. My friend says he's just playing a****** and that he's just being that way because I scare him because I'm too good for him. I can't believe that. What's going on? He won't talk to me anymore and he barely even looks at me. Unless I start engaging him he completely ghosts me. What do I do?

2006-12-16 07:19:16 · 6 answers · asked by spinthebottlexxo 1 in Friends

You would be taking on the role as sole breadwinner. Your husband would be home doing housework and childcare. You'd be taking the laptop to the office and your husband would be donning the apron.

How would your life be? Would the house be clean? Would the food be good? Would the children like it? Would you enjoy being the breadwinner?

2006-12-16 07:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im finding it rle hard to control my feelings for him, i dont want to break him and his gf up....any tips on how i can try and get him out my head?

2006-12-16 07:17:01 · 29 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 07:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I kno this person that is so annoyin I kno she wants to be me (ofcourse ho dont wanna be mwa)but still she could get rid of her dreams caz she so ugly to be mwa.She could atleast stop buyin the SAME clothes I buy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:~)

2006-12-16 07:16:34 · 4 answers · asked by taylor l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do I know if he's flirtting with me ? Also how to talk to him and how to let him know Ilike him to ?

2006-12-16 07:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

what are good conversation starters when u r talking to a guy. like, wut maskes them keep on talking?? and please dont comment if ur gunna say "how was ur day" or "wut r u doing on the weekend.." thanks!!

2006-12-16 07:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 07:14:30 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl but i dint know if she likes me what do i do

2006-12-16 07:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by blueboy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have a male friend that I happen to go visit once in a while...I just met him not so long ago..I visit ,chat for a while ,smoke a little weed now and then with him ,and then I go about my way....but this last time i visited him,he scared tha **** out of me !!!!home bouy was dressed in womens clothing and wearing lipstick !!{W\T\F} then he has the nerve to ask me "how do I look?" do you like the color lipstick Ive got on?Whatttttt!!!!! I sayd ? I told him he looked allrigh and then I took of! how do I ask my friend not to ever do that crasy *** **** to me again with out hurting his feelings? {my honest opininion is that he looked liked like the little mermaid with that ugly *** blonde wig he had on!!why did he bust out with that buffalo bill move!!!!!!

2006-12-16 07:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What should I do anY Tips? I really want him to like me for me and Like me enough to ask me out? How do I do that..I ce skating together ?? What do I do? Be serious=]

2006-12-16 07:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by Gracie_$ 2 in Singles & Dating

hey well im not a big person who likes to ask boys out but if thats the only why not but i dont like doing that cause boys thinks its annoying and they should ask out the girl the point is i cant get a boyfriend and i think i am very pretty and i was dating this boy named matt but wel broke up 4 no tellin what reason and i like this other boy named brian and we were talking but all of a sudden he told me awe just need to be friends cause he likes my best friends shana but she dont like him what should i do to get him to like me and 4 us to start talkin again cause i really like him...

2006-12-16 07:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by lem. 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, first time I’ve done this but I don't know what to do - My boyfriend and I have decided to have a break to think about stuff - we have lived together for three years. The problem is that we want different things for the future. I want kids soon - he has no plans for them yet (hasn’t said no though) the other day he went out for a drink and came back 2 days later. This really shocked me because he has never done this before - I certainly wouldn’t accept it on a regular basis. He justified where he'd been and I do believe him because I know him very well but I couldn’t get over the fact that he didn’t call or text to say where he had been. His explanation for not calling was "I don’t know - I messed up" I’m now thinking he needed space as I have recently put pressure on him about children. I asked him to leave and have a think, after 3 years together, I think I deserve better than his complete lack of respect for me when he appeared to have vanished of the face of the earth and hadn’t called. I told him this, he looked sad, said he wants to talk tomorrow, I said that wasn’t long enough to think about such a massive thing - but he was adamant that he wanted to see me tomorrow. I would like him to grow up a bit, he puts everyone else first and goes out with his mates often - but says he loves me. (Don’t get me wrong - I don’t mind the mate’s thing, I’d just like to feel important in his life from time to time) I believe him when he says he loves me but he is so rubbish at thinking of my feelings. I am soooo much in love with him in every other way and really, I do not know what to do now. Now, I am worried that in his "time to think time" he will make the decision to leave. I know that if he does then I should accept that is his decision based on that we both want different things, I’m not sure my dreams are that far fetched as he is 30 and I’m 28 and I adamant that I should stick to what I believe in a relationship. I am a pathetic venerable person at the moment, frightened that he won’t come back - Please help - Be gentle with yr replies xxxxxxxx

2006-12-16 07:11:21 · 15 answers · asked by jojo123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has tried to commit suicide a couple of times. And im really worried.The last TWO times she tried it or was seriously thinking about it, she called me and i was on the phone with her for 2 hours talking her out of it while she was hysterical on the other line...
I talked to her mom about it because I thought of it as a last resort, but im not sure if theres anything else i can do...

Shes a really great friend when shes not upset and we have great times together when shes not crying and actually decides to come to school but is it worth it to stay friends with her?

Shes told me that im really a big part of the reason she gets up in the morning, and that without me, she doesnt think school or her life is worth it sometimes... so im thinking, what if she tries to kill herself again, and im not home or busy, and i cant talk her out of it.
if i cant be friends with her anymore, what should i do to ease out of the relationship with out her feeling ditched?

Help!

2006-12-16 07:10:25 · 10 answers · asked by Olivia L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

to start of with im a pre teen there's this boy who i really like so the other day there was a dance i saw that he was punched in the eye because he tryed to break up a fight .so im really shy to talk to him so i just got up and said to him because i felt so bad that i asked him if he wanted any thing so i bought him water.but im still scared to tell him i like him and to talk to him.what should i do?

2006-12-16 07:09:46 · 13 answers · asked by clarissa d 1 in Friends

i am so sick and tired of dating!!! i really wanna find someone just right for me...but i always find flaws, big flaws...where is he?
i sound little desperate, right? well no...i am just bored of dating

2006-12-16 07:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 07:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by Sara R 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 07:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by Darcy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is that I just love it when a man is successful and knows what he wants and likes sports. So all the football players or figure skaters or basketball players...are just AAAARRRGGHHH to die for for me (of course not all of them) but do you get my drift? And so I want to be with them!! Because they represent all my dreams combined in one. And it's not like I'm some looser, I am a very good sportswoman (lol, funny expression) and I could be "on their level", I just don't know WHERE and WHEN and HOW to approach them, I am a super cool person to be with but my look is average and we all know these guys usually end up daiting models or miss XXX...so I am automatically out of the "daiting" material, at least I think so. Why is the world so unfair?
And yeah, maybe I'm being judgemental because I don't look at all the other "normal guys" but I don't want them! Honestly, I am to good for them. This may sound egocentric but it's just the way it is.
Anyone, help me out here please?

2006-12-16 07:07:11 · 2 answers · asked by Mariella Williams 2 in Singles & Dating

i just met this guy and i just found out hes a muslim he just told me like 15 minutes ago before he left
and to tell u the truth i knda relly like him
and he just told me that if i really want to be with him i have to be a muslim
should i change for him
im really confused
{p.S} dont wanna change

2006-12-16 07:07:08 · 10 answers · asked by Video Phone 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and have been told I look anywhere from 15 to 17 but never 20. I'm 5'4 and very thin but not anorexic so people think im younger. And I have a very young looking face even when I do wear make up. How do I look older?

2006-12-16 07:06:39 · 18 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i talk to this guy alot on instant messenger, but most of the time, all we say is "lol" or "haha" but what else should we do to keep an interesting conversation? because sometimes, it just gets really boring and it's kinda weird.i want to keep talking to him..but i don't know what to say..cause if i say a statement, there's nothing he can say back except for, that's cool, or lol..i want to keep a conversation flowing, but how?

2006-12-16 07:06:24 · 7 answers · asked by ilovedotsx3 1 in Singles & Dating

Is anyone else annoyed by a person called Man, he is leaving this stupid website. He also is not answering anyones questions. So is anyone else annoyed? If you are annoyed please start reporting him?

2006-12-16 07:05:41 · 4 answers · asked by Krupkake 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so everyday we have a class together he talks to me and teases me and never really "MEAN" just playin and he has even gotten in trouble for me. when i smile at him he smiles back but when his friends are around it is a totaly different story he acts so different but he still glances at me and smiles. and at the dance even then w/ his friends he teased me just playing but i like him i was just wondering if likes me?

2006-12-16 07:05:39 · 1 answers · asked by Lion 2 in Singles & Dating

My 3 grown sons haven't spoken to me in over 2 years. They told me not to contact them ever again. I really don't understand why. When they were little, I was straict because I didn't want them to turn out badly. We lived in a low income neighborhood. They went to private schools and I kept them busy with sports, boy scouts and family activities. 2 of them are Captains in the US service and one is a troubled adult who suffers from diabetes and asthma. Especially this one I miss, as he was so sickly and we were forever together.
This really bothers me in the night, missing them so much I have dreams about them all the time. The one son told my mother that all I need to do is apologize, but says I know what for. I DON'T KNOW. They won't answer emails and changed their phones. Their father and I have been divorced for 17 years and they visit him all the time. Is there anything I can do besides pray for help?

2006-12-16 07:05:09 · 5 answers · asked by Cyndi 3 in Family

When i came home from my military deployment for 2 weeks to see our son born i was showing my wife pictures on my computer when i realized a file of pictures i thought i deleted popped up. The were of the scandal of women in the military mud wrestling, and a few other sexy photos of female soliders. no of which i knew or where there while i was. Just four months earlier my wife had come across and e-mail of mine that i sent a women i was on shift with. I said "talk to you later sweeheart" because she was sweet and everyone babied her. Which made my wife nervos about my faithfulness while over seas. She expressed he dislike in knowing i was around females. but when i arrived home and she saw those pictures she freaked think i took them and i cheated, but i didn't!!! i explained the truth but she won't believe me. She said it made her feel worthless. After all she was 9 months pregnant with my son and felt like a cow.

2006-12-16 07:05:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote a note to this guy that I like. I haven't given it to him. It's pretty straightforward. It's just asking him if he likes me back. I'm a little nervous about giving it to him or about how he will react...help please???

2006-12-16 07:04:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating