Alright, so I made friends with this guy who I started to like. We flirted back and forth and he kissed me and told me that he liked me when I admitted that I liked him. But he had this girl that he was going to start going out with. Until they started going out we madeout and palled around and he said that after they were over he'd ask me out because he met her first. Then he told my best friend and sister that he doesn't like me like that and that he only sees me as a friend and he doesn't want to ruin it. My friend says he's just playing a****** and that he's just being that way because I scare him because I'm too good for him. I can't believe that. What's going on? He won't talk to me anymore and he barely even looks at me. Unless I start engaging him he completely ghosts me. What do I do?
2006-12-16 07:19:16 · 6 answers · asked by spinthebottlexxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A say you move on. There's apparently another girl in the picture. I think the reason he is ignoring you now is because things are working out with him and this other girl. I would be his friend and that is it. If he makes comments like "when he is done with this other girl, he will date you" then obviously he isn't very serious about anyone and someone is going to get hurt. Don't allow this guy to play head games at your expense. If you were the one he wanted, he wouldn't have went after the other girl in the first place.
2006-12-16 07:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Angela F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look i dont want to sound mean or anything ,but u need to know the truth. ur just his mess around. if he wanted to be with you then he would of already dumped his girlfriend. so just dont even try getting with him go find someone else n u never maybe latter hell come to u but be careful he doesnt seem like a guy u can trust.GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-16 07:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by i got drama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he liked you it wouldn't matter who he knew first. Nothing would stop him fromtrying to get what he truly wanted. Let it go and move on. Do you really want to be second if this one doesn't work out? If you are you will always be second to the next and the next and........
2006-12-16 07:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were too easy and he got bored and moving on plz do so too because if u try to talk to him some more that would almost be considering stocking..
2006-12-16 07:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play the "hard to get" game he'll run like turbo, try it.
2006-12-16 07:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by mukyon1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
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2006-12-16 07:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋