2006-12-16 07:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by Darcy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The thought of cheating has come thru my head. There is an "excitement" in cheating and I think that lures many to go and do so.
However, despite the fact I've thought of it, I never have (nor ever will) act on my impulse.
2006-12-16 07:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by L.A. Scene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just as many woman would on their husband would? The reasons why are so many. Not getting sex is one. Not being happy. Feeling alone. Feeling like no one in the marriage care about you anymore. that the other person just is their. And their is more than one way of cheating. Most think sex is just cheatting and that is not true. You can cheat by giving anything that you should be giving the other to someone else . that is still cheating
2006-12-16 15:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by lostsoul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did. At the time I thought it was for a good reason. Wife got up and left home. Took the kids and just went to her Mothers 800 miles away.. No problems no warning, just left. A month and a half later she came back. We talked every day during her absence, no problems she was visiting her Mom. No problem that year. Next year at summer Vacation; kids out of school...wham, she did it again. I knew it was coming again no apparent problems... this time for 3 Months, (kids had to go back to school), this time I argued her place was with me at home. I lasted till about Month 2. I was getting involved. I even wonder sometimes if I should have stayed with the gf. As it turned out years later wife & I both put our cards on the table. She stated she was very close with having an affair so she fled to Moms. And later she did have an affair with someone entirely different. This was after 11 years of Marriage. Now we are on 26. No you never forget. B/c of my religious beliefs I forgive. I cannot forget. I use this story to help others from making the same mistakes I have. After reading this some of you are saying:"yeah you made a mistake ...you stayed with her"... It works both ways guys. As I said I use this story to help some on the brink, it has helped some. Hope it can help others too. I still have the scars as I am sure she does too.
2006-12-16 15:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by It's_notme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that about 3 out of 5 men will cheat on there wives and why i dont know but i can tell you the bull that they come up with. some might say that *you let yourself go and gained weight, *I felt like you dont want me anymore, * I dont know it just happened it didnt mean anything, * she put something in my drink, * we really havent been in love for a long time, * i was hurt and needed someone and one thing lead to another but it was nothing, the list goes on, trust, if you feel that your hubby is cheating then perhaps he is or you wouldnt feel it
2006-12-16 15:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by desiree_tx2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As bad as I would like to cheat on my wife these days, I can't bring myself to even try. If I was capable, it would be because I'm just not getting what I want out of our relationship any longer; lack of attention and sex are the biggest reasons but there is a host of smaller ones. The reason I don't is because, despite feeling like we are nothing more than roommates and co-parents these days, I know that she does love me and I know that if I did cheat on her it would devestate her, she would never forgive or trust me entirely. I also would not want to put my kids through all that and most certainly a divorce and split home.
2006-12-16 15:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly it's a lack of needs being met. A man can feel he is always being rejected by his wife. It seems when you get married sex goes right out the door and you feel trapped. Sometime's other women are more accomdating and you have less problems with them. I think if you want you man not to cheat on you do right by him and don't constantly with hold sex. If you do it he'll cheat or ditch you sooner than a hot cake
2006-12-16 17:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For alot of men, the reason that they cheat is in their minds their wive's are not giving them what they want sexually, and if their wife won't do it they will find someone who will.
I have cheated on my wife in the past, and we almost were divorced because of it, and I'm very thankful that she has forgiven me, we have been going through marriage counceling and it's really helped us to restore the trust that was lost because of it.
2006-12-16 15:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lack of sex at home with the wife and its not just men who cheat
2006-12-16 15:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by hill bill y 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you feel need to cheat, then it is time to seek help or part way's. cheating only makes matters worse.
2006-12-16 15:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say none of above, Women are Beautiful and awesome creatures, If one of above named turns on to you We mere
men polygamous in nature that we are .. are in trouble. I am married but other women tell me I have easy stamped on my forehead..
2006-12-16 21:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋