i am so sick and tired of dating!!! i really wanna find someone just right for me...but i always find flaws, big flaws...where is he?
i sound little desperate, right? well no...i am just bored of dating
2006-12-16 07:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt like that for a while. I just gave up on men..then I met my husband.
When you're feeling desperate, you waste your time on any guy who will give you the right amount of attention, regardless of who he really is...you will only be looking to find SOMEONE. If you stop looking so hard, you will be more selective and you will not waste months or years of your life trying to make the wrong person be the right person for you.
Good luck.
2006-12-16 07:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're bored of dating, take a break from all the casual dating and spend some time just exploring & affirming your own identity outside of the context of a relationship. It is necessary for you to have a strong sense of personal, independent identity before you even think about settling down, and serial dating sometimes detracts from this. If you're going around specifically seeking "the one," you aren't going to find him..
Spend some time just being single. When you do start dating again, don't instantly build up your hopes in the possibility that the guy interested in you could be the one...or you'll be setting yourself up for disappointment. Go with the flow and be pleasantly surprised if you find the person you're with is compatible with you, and don't forget that everyone comes with some flaws.
2006-12-16 15:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Banana_cakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if even after u have dating a while u still think about him, and love being with him. he would be the type of guy who u have imagined about since u were little. dont throw away guys bc they have flaws. no one is perfect. soemtimes u need to let ur heart rule ur head.
2006-12-16 15:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to be good at math
there are 8 billion people on the planet
half of them are men
and for at least probably half of that 4 billion you would be the cats a s s
so i would say
if you dont have a one
you are lying about something
i dont know what
but something
i bet on it
if you want a stand up cool guy
you just have to stick your head out the window
and say "hey..... you....come here"
"you interested in being THE ONE "? "no? ok beat it " ...."next!"
2006-12-16 15:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you meet the one you will know!!!!!!!
he will make you feel like no man has ever made you feel before......he will not be able to stand not being with you......he will tell you he loves at LEAST 2 or 3 times a day..........he will be faithful to you no matter what........he will do any thing for you........if it's a good thing.........he will keep you from doing things that are bad for you............... he will love you no matter what you do.....even if it's bad
2006-12-16 15:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find out when u meet him. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-16 15:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋